There are some fathers in China, please be reliable.

Yesterday, two young children fell to their deaths in Joy City, Tianjin. It is said that the reason was that my mother went shopping at Watsons in the mall. When one of the father\’s men and their son and daughter were on the fourth floor, they put the child on the wooden handrail behind the 1.3-meter-high glass guardrail. As a result, one of the children failed to hold it properly. It fell, and my father hurriedly went to catch it, but he missed it and the other one also fell. Looking at the news pictures after the incident, two blue sheets covered two small bodies, and a man and woman knelt down and cried bitterly next to them. The despair and grief that was felt could penetrate the hearts of onlookers without even imagining it. (I won’t post the picture, it’s too cruel.) The child dies due to one’s own mistakes, and watching the child fall from one’s arms is the cruelest punishment in the world. This kind of guilt that will follow you for life. I don\’t want to criticize this father harshly anymore. He will probably spend the rest of his life in hell. I just want to say that this incident is by no means an isolated case, and some Chinese fathers should reflect on it. The same danger, I just saw it once in Wanda Mall a few days ago. There was a performance in the lobby on the first floor of the mall, and the fence on the third floor was full of onlookers. There was a child whose father put his son on the guardrail and stood with only one hand holding the child\’s waist. I watched with fear. If I got distracted a little bit, or if the child exerted too much force, he would fall and die. I stepped forward and reminded, \”Hello, this is too dangerous. Let the child get down quickly.\” He rolled his eyes at me, very impatient, \”Didn\’t you see what I was doing?\” Yes, I can bear it. If it weren\’t for the sake of the children, who would be willing to accept this idleness from strangers? Later, the child\’s father took the child down, but put it on his neck, dangling, and it still looked scary. I couldn\’t help but think: When a mother leaves her child to her father, she probably didn\’t expect that he would expose her child to such risks. After a woman becomes a mother, she understands the most mysterious law of love in the universe, which is that love is not only love for things related to herself, but also warmth for the world. A mother\’s heart will become extremely soft, and she will not see any child in danger. No matter who it is, whether she knows it or not, she has an obligation to warn her. After becoming a mother, someone who was originally careless will become more meticulous. My mother said that when we were young, she would put away all the sharp and bladed things before going to work, lest we get stuck and hurt. The knitting needles she used to knit sweaters and the embroidery needles she used to embroider were locked in the cabinet, deeper than her bankbook. When I became a mother, I finally understood what it felt like. There are too many uncontrollable dangers in the outside world, but she must ensure that she is within her own capabilities and does not put her children in danger. As a mother, she always has a maternal desire to protect the child she gave birth to after being pregnant for ten months and risking her life to give birth to it, and she always has an accurate prediction of danger. Can a father understand this feeling? Of course, there are mothers who are careless when raising children, but it is a common problem among many Chinese men to despise housework and regard educating children as the mother\’s own business, and it is a social phenomenon. Many fathers are careless and dangerous when raising their children, not because they lack common sense, but because they are absent-minded., completely not careful enough. Some fathers can give sleeping pills to their children in order to prevent them from crying. Some fathers make phone calls themselves and entrust their children to the care of complete strangers. At the zoo, a father jumped into the guardrail, leaving his child standing directly outside the beast\’s cage. I have written before that a father\’s love for his children is often cultivated. The children do not live in their bellies and cannot experience the connection of flesh and blood. Generally speaking, after seeing the \”real thing\” of the child, you can see it. Only when the child turns into a wonderful little person who can eat, laugh, sneeze and frown will they feel like a father. In addition, Chinese families are accustomed to assigning all the tasks of educating and accompanying children to mothers, and fathers are removed from family life. This has resulted in many fathers having an estranged relationship with their children, and men\’s sense of family responsibility is indifferent. Therefore, mothers should not do everything for themselves, but should pay attention to creating parent-child time for fathers, allowing fathers to participate in the process of educating their children and experience the joy of accompanying their children. But once this incident came out, I believe many mothers would not dare to leave their children to their fathers. If the mother of the child really gives the child to the father, and an accident occurs because of the father\’s lack of safety awareness, she will regret it for the rest of her life. Children are not a testing ground, and their growth cannot be careless in the slightest. Some mistakes can never be corrected once they are made, and must be followed for life. So, please, fathers, please be more reliable. It is already not easy to be a woman or a mother in China. Don\’t make it difficult for them anymore. It is really difficult for them. In China, full-time housewives have no future and lack legal protection, so women have to work. But while they also have a job, they still need to take on most of the housework, and taking care of children is a task they cannot shirk. In order to cultivate men\’s sense of family and responsibility for their children, they need to mobilize men\’s enthusiasm like coaxing children. If they dare not leave their children to their fathers for fear of accidents, their living conditions will be even worse. I hope that every father who takes care of his children will have more patience and safety awareness. Every child should have the opportunity to grow up safely. Some suggestions for fathers: Before taking your child out independently, you should understand the child\’s schedule and habits. Know what time the child usually goes to bed, which toys he likes to hold when sleeping, which songs he sings to help him fall asleep the fastest, and other information. When taking your children to a large shopping mall or amusement park, you must first observe where the safety doors or passages are, and avoid any places that may cause safety hazards. Children who are too young are not suitable for playing overly stimulating games. Some games require parents to accompany them. They must be with them. Do not play with mobile phones or make phone calls for a long time. Children cannot leave their field of vision. You must follow all safety tips and rules everywhere, and educate your children to abide by the rules. Some rules can save lives at critical moments. It is necessary to practice emergency response measures with your children. For example, if you are lost with your father, you should wait where you are and memorize your home phone number. If anyone pretends to be your father or mother to pick him up,Don\’t even follow. If a mother means warm acceptance to her children, then a father means a mountain-like sense of security to his children. Children need their father to grow up, and they need to know that their father is almighty and can protect them. When the child is happy, the child will call mom. When the child is scared, the child will call dad. Those who are fathers, don’t let down the fate of your children and your life.