Even if the baby belongs to your family, you can’t take care of her like this.

Giving birth to a baby is not easy, and raising a baby is also difficult. Harmonious families are always similar, and families with conflicting parenting have their own conflicts… Scenario 1. – \”The book says that when the baby\’s first tooth emerges, you should brush your baby\’s teeth\” – \”Look The baby\’s teeth haven\’t all grown yet, so why brush them?\” – \”But the book says so, and don\’t feed the baby after brushing!\” – \”You can\’t do everything according to the book, and the baby wants to eat. I have to give it to you?\” Scenario 2. – \”Let\’s not wear crotchless pants for the baby in the future. It\’s so ugly.\” – \”Whose child doesn\’t wear crotchless pants? Open crotch pants are so convenient.\” Scenario 3. – \”Baby\’s complementary food Don’t add salt to the food. If you eat too much, you will develop high blood pressure.” – “How can it be so precise? If you don’t add salt and taste, the baby won’t like it, and I also have a heavy mouth. Isn’t it okay?” In today’s families of new mothers , usually it is the elderly who help to raise the children. At this time, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts of ideas and conflicts in parenting. There are some small things that I tolerate if I can regress for the sake of family harmony, but there are some issues that are really related to the health of the baby, and it is better to stick to scientific parenting. To prevent baby bottle caries and deciduous tooth caries, babies must brush their teeth. Many parents believe that babies are still young and have no teeth or just a few teeth and do not need to brush their teeth. It doesn\’t matter if the tooth is broken, it will be replaced in the future anyway. In fact, caries in deciduous teeth will affect the permanent teeth, making the newly grown permanent teeth or adjacent permanent teeth susceptible to caries. There are also abnormal eruptions of permanent teeth, resulting in abnormal bite of the permanent teeth, affecting the baby\’s facial development and making the originally cute The baby has \”maxillofacial deformity\”. When the baby is 0-6 months old and has no teeth, the baby should rinse his mouth after each feeding. Or wrap a soft towel or soft gauze around your finger, gently wipe the baby\’s mouth, and massage the gums to help teeth sprout. When the baby\’s first tooth erupts between 6 and 12 months old, parents need to use a children\’s toothbrush. After babies between 12 and 36 months old have all their deciduous teeth, they need to brush their teeth more carefully. Don\’t let the baby brush his teeth at this time, because the baby can\’t brush them clean at all, so parents need to brush the baby\’s teeth sooner or later. When the baby goes to kindergarten, if the baby is interested, you can try to let him brush his teeth by himself, but parents still have to brush the baby\’s teeth carefully after the baby brushes himself. Crotchless pants have serious hidden dangers. Infection, inflammation, and bad habits cannot be ignored. Some parents think that it will be uncomfortable for babies to wear diapers and cover their buttocks, so they put their babies in crotchless pants. However, when the baby wears crotchless pants, the buttocks, vulva, etc. will be exposed, which can easily be punctured or burned by sharp objects. The vulva of a female baby is easily infected due to physiological reasons and the exposure of crotchless pants, resulting in urethritis, Cystitis and other urinary system infections; boys may be teased or played with their genitals if they wear crotchless pants, developing some bad habits. Babies need to be careful when eating salt. Excessive intake is more harmful. Some parents think that complementary food has no taste and the baby will not like to eat it, so they add salt to complementary food. However, babies under 1 year old do not need to eat salt. Even after 1 year old, less salt must be added to food. Babies between 0 and 6 months old mainly eat breast milk or formula milk. The sodium in breast milk is enough to meet the baby’s needs.Formula milk contains higher amounts of sodium than breast milk, so breastfed babies can just feed without worry. Babies aged 6 to 12 months only need 350 mg of sodium per day. After babies 6 to 12 months old can add complementary foods, breast milk, formula milk and complementary foods also contain different proportions of sodium. Therefore, as long as the baby is eating normally, the sodium in the food can fully meet the baby\’s physiological needs, and no additional addition is needed. Adding salt to your baby\’s food too early will do all the harm but no good. • The liver and kidney functions of babies are not fully developed, and excessive salt intake will increase the burden on the body. • Excessive salt intake will reduce oral saliva, allowing bacteria and viruses to exist in the respiratory tract, thereby causing the risk of respiratory infections. • Excessive salt intake will also disrupt the metabolic balance in the body and affect the absorption of other nutrients. • Developing a salt-heavy habit from an early age will lead to hidden dangers for future health such as hypertension, diabetes, adult obesity, and cardiovascular disease. It is not advisable to shake the baby, as it may cause brain damage. Some parents habitually hold the baby and move it back and forth gently when the baby cries. However, if a parent shakes the baby violently and inappropriately when they are emotional or irritable, or shakes the baby quickly and repeatedly for a long time, it is very dangerous and can cause \”shaken baby syndrome\”. This disease mostly occurs in babies aged 0-4 years, especially those aged 0-8 months. It can cause brain damage or even death. In fact, this behavior of shaking the baby is a serious form of child abuse. It uses silent rocking to cause head or brain damage to the baby without any external signs of damage. And this kind of brain damage is usually difficult to recover. Even if it does not cause life danger, it may affect the development of other parts of the body due to delayed brain development when you grow up, and even cause mental retardation. Therefore, for the sake of your baby\’s safety, do not shake your baby vigorously under any circumstances, and tell other people taking care of your baby. There is a danger of suffocation if the baby is forced to take medicine. Sometimes, parents resort to overbearing methods of giving medicine because their baby is sick and does not like to take medicine. As everyone knows, even if you pinch the baby\’s nose, the airway will be opened when the baby\’s mouth opens. Once the medicine chokes the trachea, there is a risk of suffocation. Especially when the baby is crying and the medicine is forcefully administered, the chance of choking the trachea is greater. Faced with the problem that the baby resists taking medicine, you can first stabilize the baby\’s mood and let the mother or someone who often takes care of the baby give the medicine. Or the method of feeding medicine can be flexibly selected according to different medicine feeding equipment. Among them, droppers or bottles are good choices. In addition, pay attention to the baby\’s position when feeding medicine, and keep the baby in a sitting, semi-recumbent or side-lying position for a few minutes to prevent the medicine from choking into the trachea when being spit out. Are you always afraid that your baby will be cold? Are you afraid of Mug-Heat Syndrome? Most parents are always worried that their baby is afraid of cold, so they wrap the baby in three layers and make it into a rice dumpling. In fact, babies\’ perception of hot and cold is the same as that of adults. Heavy clothes will hinder the body\’s heat dissipation. The key is that babies will not tell if they are too hot. Long-term high temperature may cause the baby to have high fever, dehydration, hypoxia, coma, and even respiratory and circulatory failure.Exhaustion, which is what we often call \”cold fever syndrome\”. If you cover your baby with a quilt when he has a cold or fever, it will be even more dangerous. When the heat cannot be dissipated, the body temperature will continue to rise, and excessive sweating in a short period of time may cause dehydration and shock in the baby. To determine whether the baby is warm or cold, the correct way is to touch the baby\’s neck and back. The peripheral blood circulation of the baby\’s hands and feet is not fully developed, so sometimes even if it is very hot and the body is sweating, the hands and feet will be cold. If the skin on your baby\’s neck and back is warm when you touch it, your baby is not cold. If it feels hot or cold, it means that the baby is wearing too much or it is time to add more clothes. No one is born to be a father or a mother. It is normal for new parents to not know a lot about taking care of their babies. But it is not terrible to not understand. What is terrible is that we are drifting away on the wrong parenting path… Therefore, when taking care of babies, we must adhere to scientific parenting. This is also responsible for the baby and our family. Do you think so? no? !