A good father should be like Aamir Khan

The Sexiest Man Alive has been played by Aamir Khan. One is whimsical, like Rancho in \”Three Idiots\”; the other is rampant, like Mahavira Singh Perga in \”Dangal\”. Chinese people can’t recognize Indian faces clearly, but they will never mistake Aamir Khan. The former is talented and can give you many surprises and possibilities. You can get 400 inventions by playing the same game and become rich in the world; the latter is perseverant. Bravery only provides you with success and certainty. It took more than ten years for my daughter to win the gold medal in the competition. Rancho was cool and girls couldn\’t help but kiss him, but Mahavira was the one who could hold his neck and cry. Because he has a sense of recklessness. Because he is the father. The following review contains spoilers, but don’t worry, the movie will only be better after being spoiled. When narrating the plot, I will break down some truths about family life and children\’s education, and at the same time I will tell you why anyone who insults this movie for being straight is a piece of shit. Is it selfish to let children fulfill their dreams? The Indian national wrestling champion Mahavira returned to the village because of poverty, hoping to pass on his skills to his son, but he and his wife gave birth to four daughters in a row. Rural India favors boys over girls, and the most vicious curse is \”May you have a lot of daughters.\” The four daughters had no sons, so the couple began to resort to traditional methods to seek sons. By chance, he discovered that his two daughters were better at fighting than boys, so he began to train them. In order to practice his courage, he asked his daughter to jump. His wife once had questions: \”You can\’t let your daughter take on your unfinished dreams!\” Today we often see some parents talking about their children, and they hate the Mathematical Olympiad or music specialties: \”I just He said, \”Don\’t learn anything, just let him grow up happily.\” The people I have seen who say this are all people who have no interest in learning. They are afraid of trouble because it is troublesome to train their children. The primary school years are a good time to develop talents and skills. As for being consistent with your parents’ childhood dreams, there are many benefits. Parents can provide enlightenment counseling and judge the quality of training teachers. Parents’ old equipment may still be useful. In addition, the physical condition of a wrestler\’s daughter will be more adapted to this kind of sport. It may not be suitable for you to ask her to learn shooting. Introduce your unfinished dream to your child and at least give him a chance. Mahavira of Hengshui Middle School in the Indian wrestling circle did something very bold: He asked his daughter to wear men\’s clothing, run, cut her hair short, break the precept and eat meat (it is not allowed for a wrestler not to eat meat, but his wife does not eat meat) on the mud floor and Learning wrestling on a mattress and competing with topless boys is very unethical in Hindu society, and the two girls were ridiculed by the villagers. But they weren\’t bullied anymore, because soon, the boys couldn\’t beat them at all. Girls in rural India wear traditional clothes instead of T-shirts and shorts. These clothes are made from the clothes of their cousins. There is a song in the movie about the dictatorship of the father and the two girls wanting a revolution. Anyone who understands can tell that this is a child acting coquettishly, like \”I\’m going to blow up the school.\” Some people commented that this is for the purpose of male supremacy and patriarchy, torturing daughters to satisfy their own selfish desires., too rough. Those who say this are all pseudo-feminists and fresh-faced people in one, and they probably haven’t even been to the countryside seriously. Aamir Khan plays Hengshui Middle School in the Indian wrestling world. Mahavira himself made efforts to change his class and became a national wrestling champion from a farmer, but unfortunately, he did not catch up with the good times and could not make money from wrestling. There is a sad story hidden in the cabinet of every family, which is the dream of the fathers. When he was training his daughter, he gradually discovered that his daughter might change her destiny of becoming a housewife through wrestling. The daughters also learned from a friend (14 years old) who was married to a child that wrestling was a way to escape child marriage and become a housewife. The little girl who was married as a child in the movie. The child marriage rate in India is about 47%. Mahavira was not rich. He went to buy chicken and persuaded the meat dealer: \”When it becomes popular, let your daughter endorse your meat.\” This way, he got a low price of 25% off. He also persuaded his wife: Give me one year. During this year, don’t let your daughter do housework. He fought against the loss of his family\’s wealth to give his daughter a chance to change. A proud young girl wrestler who was so popular that she jumped over the dragon gate. Our Chinese media often depicts the horror of the low status of Indian women, but rarely explains this horror, such as why women have to give expensive dowries to male families. Hinduism has a caste system, and people tend to marry their daughters to people of higher castes to avoid being discriminated against later. About 800 years ago, rulers from Afghanistan conquered India, and many low-caste people converted to Islam. The new rulers hope to marry into the upper echelons of the Hindu society, and Hindu families want to fight against this assimilation and will arrange child marriages for their girls as soon as possible (marry them early so that you don’t think about it). Early marriage will also bring more population, and there is strength in numbers. But the young bride, who is 8 to 9 years old, is infertile. In this way, a dowry (actually alimony) will be given to the man. In China, the status of child brides is also the lowest among all daughters-in-law. Families that raise child brides are generally poorer, and families that give their daughters away to be child brides are even poorer. In India, the caste of a child follows the father\’s. If you want your daughter to marry into a high-caste family, you have to prepare more bride gifts. And those high-caste families will take the opportunity to choose richer women and extort more property. Chinese people marry their daughters in the same way. Those who only ask for a bride price are poor, and most of them are uneducated. Respectable families usually give their daughters a sum of money as a dowry. A poor daughter will have no status in her husband\’s family. If you want to know more, you can watch the Peking Opera \”Suo Lin Nang\” to see how a woman without a dowry cries bitterly on the way to her wedding. There haven\’t been many changes nowadays. If a girl\’s family conditions are not good and she still wants her husband to have a house, status, and a Beijing or Shanghai household registration, she is likely to be unhappy if she marries her. In \”Dangal\”, after the eldest daughter Geeta won the national championship, she completely jumped out of the farm and entered the National Sports Academy, and her life was much better. Speaking of which her eldest daughter has caught up with her at the best time, Gita might also want to thank the Chinese Olympic Committee. A delegation from the Indian Olympic Committee visited China in 2005 to study why India\’s performance was mediocre despite similar populations (India\’s last gold medal was the 1980 hockey Olympic champion).. The conclusion is: their annual investment is only 10 million US dollars, which is a few tenths of China\’s. The Indian officials went back to report and spent money. In 2008, a rich second-generation shooter from India won the championship at the Beijing Olympics. Therefore, in the movie, it is true that the budget of Indian grassroots athletes and the work of the grassroots sports bureau are in a mess. It is not surprising that the wrestling dad and the officials were rejected when they applied for funds – they had not been stimulated by the Chinese at that time. The official\’s view was extremely stupid: \”We have so much funding, so much wrestling, and only a little bit of women\’s wrestling… For such a small amount of money…\” The national system is better than Tian Ji\’s horse racing-style planning ability. In the final analysis, the gold medal list and the medal list are all about numbers. Men\’s football gold medals and 100-meter running have high gold content, but even if you work hard for 100 years, it may not be enough. Women\’s weightlifting, women\’s wrestling, and women\’s middle-distance running are difficult to professionalize and commercialize. The project is suitable for the national system to exert its strength. This is why China’s female athletes have made outstanding contributions to the number of gold medals after China’s return to the Olympics. So it makes sense for Aamir Khan to say, \”It is because of people like you that India cannot win medals.\” Indian officials did not spend money on the right place. However, the conditions provided by India to the national team are not bad. Everyone saw Geeta busy dating, eating and drinking in the city, learning to dress up, and learning to attract the attention of men. After her cousin entered the sports academy in Patiala, he praised: \”This place is really good.\” The cousin of the two sisters is a funny character, not a professional athlete at all, and he is also the person who has been thrown the most in the entire movie. These good conditions come from It’s not easy: 1. After India’s long-term economic growth, there is money to spend 2. The Indian government began to pursue the number of gold medals 3. Dad’s unique vision allowed women’s wrestling to be included in the Olympic Games (2004, Athens) with salary subsidies and national team establishment ( Okay, to borrow this concept) brides won’t be burned to death, don’t have to wear traditional clothes, and don’t have to worry about a dowry. In terms of planning for his daughter\’s future, the father has succeeded. Some people say that Gita, the eldest daughter of Alan Tam, was eliminated in the first round after being trained by the national team coach. She was superstitious about the coach and ignored her father\’s experience. At the beginning of wrestling, my father told everyone that wrestling is not only a competition of strength, but also a competition of brains. Dad’s brain is indeed very useful: After Geeta entered the national team, Mahavira initially wanted to continue training his daughter. At first, he cautiously contacted the coach and tried to communicate with him. The coach is a man who looks up to the sky. Even though Mahavira is a former national champion (you must know that there are more than a dozen national champions in different weight classes in the country every year), he did not give him face at all. Instead, he scolded his daughter in front of her. The father was very angry after being humiliated by the coach. He was also told by his daughter that his skills were outdated and he was thrown to the ground. He ignored his daughter for a long time. There is a tear here. The second daughter said to her sister: \”It\’s not that dad\’s skills are out of date at all, but that his health is failing.\” After Geeta fell over her dad, the onlookers were so scared that they were speechless. But when her daughter lost the competition, she asked him for help. , he immediately took over without any complaints and secretly trained his daughter. Discovered by the coach andWhen he was in trouble, his father immediately cried, incited and begged the college leaders to let his daughter stay in the national team. Then, Chen Cang was secretly given guidance via video and phone calls. This man is so powerful. He doesn\’t care about face when doing things. He can quickly control his emotions. If he wants to win, he will do one thing openly and covertly. He only pursues results. Yes, this is a man who goes on a rampage. For the one he loves, he just wants to win. He won\’t say nonsense like \”losing looks good\” like the coach does. Many men can be proud, honorable, and trustworthy warriors when they are young, but they become particularly cunning after becoming fathers. Especially a father who only has a daughter. If he only has a daughter, the father needs to be stronger. There is a father who is furious, and there is a daughter who is equally furious and victorious. A tiger father has no dog daughter. \”No one remembers second place\” The father who was accused of being a dictator taught his daughter a trick before the finals: Find ways to make people remember you. You can only get a gold medal. If you win a silver medal, everyone will soon forget you. Mahavira was right. In the movie, the eldest daughter\’s role is the main line, and the second daughter, who was equally brilliant as a young actress, has become a minor role – although she is also a national champion. If you become the runner-up, you will play a supporting role in the movie. I have been writing \”Relationship Guide\” for a long time, and gradually I have discovered that many of the rules that everyone should have mastered long ago are still unknown when they enter the workplace. Some people have parents who are illiterate and not very knowledgeable, so they cannot explain various interpersonal relationships. Some parents always insist that their children should only see the true, the good, and the beautiful, in the name of protecting their children very well. This is called delaying things. If you don\’t let them know some important truths early, they will be deceived and suffer a lot in the workplace. For example, \”No one remembers second place\” is such a cruel truth. And telling the truth is itself a kind of rampage. What is really surprising is what Dad says next: If you win, it will be a victory for the girls in India who get married early beside the pots and pans. Behind the rampant little love, there is great compassion. I tell you loudly that you have to win, and I remind you softly that if you win, you will save many people. Individual details are handled particularly well, such as Aamir Khan\’s first phone call from his daughter after being beaten by her. He was a little unhappy, but more of a surprise. He showed joy a second later, and hurried to answer the phone, for fear that his daughter would run away. Only actors who are over 50 and become fathers will know how to deal with both blame and surprise. The rampant and invincible father forgives his daughter in a second. The real-life meritorious father Mahavira and his daughters would like to remind you that if you are a daughter, do not take your father to watch this movie. You will cry and so will your father. One more reminder, if you take your girlfriend to watch this movie, don\’t say to your girlfriend when your daughter decides to participate in the 55kg competition: \”Hey, you can participate in this level.\” You will be volleyed on the spot. A wrestler\’s weight control is critical. In order to play this movie, Aamir Khan first gained weight and became a big fat man to play an elderly father, and then developed muscles like a wrestler to play a young wrestler. If you watch this movie yourself, you will probably be disappointed after coming out of the cinema. I will call my dad and tell him I miss him (I know most ChinesePeople can’t talk about love). I\’d love to hit one too. It\’s a pity that no one picked up five years ago. Father\’s love is for straight men, it is today, it will be tomorrow, and it will always be. If you are criticized and ridiculed because you like this straight movie, just say back: \”Nonsense, your dad is not straight, where did you come from?\”