There are no stupid children in this world

01. Your unrestrained words destroy more than just your child\’s self-confidence. At the school gate, a young mother is looking forward to the campus. A little boy of seven or eight years old came out. When he saw his mother, he ran over happily and threw himself into her arms. With a smile on his face, his mother helped him take off the heavy schoolbag and put it on her shoulders. Then she asked expectantly: \”How many points did you get on today\’s test?\” The smile on the little boy\’s face froze for an instant, and then slowly disappeared until it turned into embarrassment, even a little scared. \”Mom, I told you, can you not be angry? I didn\’t do well in the Chinese test today. I digressed in the final task of looking at pictures and writing words, and I only got two points.\” He said timidly, his voice getting lower and lower. The mother\’s face suddenly turned cloudy, and she raised her voice: \”What? You only got two points? So what is the total score?\” \”75.\” The boy lowered his head, kept tugging at the corners of his clothes, and his body was trembling slightly. . \”75? Why didn\’t you get 57 in the exam? I\’m so angry! I serve you delicious food and drink every day, buy you thousands of yuan of school supplies without blinking an eye, and I didn\’t even go to class because of you, you Just get 75 points in the exam to repay me? Who are you worthy of? I heard that the average score is 90 points. Are you at the bottom of the class? You are so stupid! If you are so stupid, why are you reading? Stop reading! \”My mother spoke louder and louder, and became angrier and walked faster and faster. The little boy hurriedly caught up behind him, with tears in his eyes: \”Mom, Mom! I\’m sorry, I also want to do well in the exam, but I really don\’t know how to write. Please teach me and I will be able to do it. Can you teach me?\” ?” “The teachers all teach the same way, so why can others know it but you can’t? Either you didn’t listen carefully in class, or you are stupid!” The mother kept saying the word “stupid”, gradually extinguishing the last bit of fire and enthusiasm in the boy’s eyes. Feeling wronged, his eyes slowly became dull. He stopped chasing his mother and walked forward slowly, numbly. After walking a long way, the mother found that the boy had not followed. She turned around and yelled at him: \”Hurry up! Are you not happy to say a few words to you? Not only are you stupid, you also have a big temper.\” Despite this, the boy still walked listlessly. Angry and unresponsive. This stupid and self-righteous mother would never have imagined that it was she who used sharp language and the word \”stupid\” one after another to destroy her child\’s liveliness, self-confidence, and even life. 02. Most people have little difference in IQ, but have different talents. They have been there for a while. My son often mentioned to me two classmates in their class, Xiaoyang and Xiaohu. What they said was nothing more than that they ranked last in the exam, handed in a blank paper again, were criticized by the teacher, and laughed at by their classmates. Everyone called them \”idiots.\” Every time I say to my son: \”Don\’t follow me by calling me that. It\’s so disrespectful. When others call me that, you should try your best to stop them. In fact, they are not stupid at all. You all have the same IQ, but everyone has the same IQ.\” Their strengths and advantages are different. Although they are not good at reading, they may have great potential in other areas, but they have not been discovered or shown. Maybe one day, they will shine. In this world, there are no stupid people. Kids, you are all great.\” \”Mom, you areHaving said that, I really found that they all have their own specialties. Xiaoyang is particularly interested in robots, vehicles, weapons, etc. He talks about many of them in clear and logical terms, many of which we have never heard of. Every time he talks about this after class, a group of boys surround him. And Xiaohu, he is very strong, with long arms and legs. He is very good at sports and is very good at long-distance running! The school holds a sports meeting, and the performance of our class mainly depends on him. He can win several championships alone. \”After some time, my son told me excitedly: The city held a robot competition for primary school students. Xiaoyang led several classmates to participate and won the second place. However, their school has never won an award in this competition. All the teachers and students in the school were very excited. I was very happy. Not long after, my son brought good news about Xiaohu: Xiaohu won the long-distance running championship in the city\’s primary school student track and field competition. A sports school had extended an olive branch to him, inviting him to undergo professional training, and there were also dedicated teachers. Give them cultural lessons. When God closes a door for you, he will also open a window for you. As long as you work hard, you can reach the dark side. 03. There are no stupid children in this world, and gold does not shine just because the results are temporarily hidden. , is not the only criterion for measuring whether a child is smart. Some children do not have particularly good grades when they first enter elementary school, and are not what everyone calls smart, but they have great stamina and great potential. When they are in senior grade or junior high school, their advantages suddenly become apparent. It’s out of control. Last year, I watched a media interview with a college entrance examination top scorer. He only started working hard in the second year of junior high school and made great progress all the way to achieve dazzling results. Therefore, don’t just focus on a few results, but have a long-term vision. The key point is Pay attention to and cultivate children\’s good learning attitudes and habits. As long as you use the right methods and persevere hard work, good results will come naturally. Of course, some children just don\’t like reading, and reading is a pain for them, but they are not satisfied with certain aspects. Especially interested, with strong understanding and explosive power, just like Xiaoyang and Xiaohu mentioned above. In this case, they should be respected and encouraged to make full use of their strengths and make achievements in the fields of interest. . There is also a special case. Due to physical reasons or innate IQ differences, they cannot go to school and live like ordinary people, but they are gifted in some aspects. The Zhouzhou we know well is a congenital fool. The intelligence is only equivalent to that of a child of a few years old, but he is a genius conductor and has created many brilliance. Everyone is gold, and the reason why some do not shine is because they are buried too deep. Brush away the dust, and eventually it will shine. Shining brightly. There are no stupid children in this world. Every child is an angel, and they all come with different missions. What we need to give them is not only respect, but also patience. When they grow up, Glow slowly.