Huang Lei: Eating well with your children is a compulsory course for parents

In the popular urban emotional drama \”Midnight Diner\”, starring Huang Lei, every dish he cooks brings out a series of heartwarming life stories, which has aroused heated discussions among netizens. In fact, as early as in Hunan Satellite TV\’s \”Where Are We Going, Dad\” variety show, Huang Lei took his daughter Duoduo to participate. In the show, his cooking skills gradually won unanimous praise from other guests and the audience. No matter how bad the environment and the ingredients were, No matter the situation, he can skillfully prepare delicious meals to satisfy his daughter\’s taste buds. Duoduo in the show is smart and cute, very much like a big sister, caring for other children, well-behaved, sensible, and quirky. She was also very caring. She secretly wiped away tears because she was about to be separated from a dog. When the program crew sent the dog to reunite with them, she jumped with joy. In life, she is an \”all-around little prodigy\”, acting in stage plays, writing scripts in English, playing piano and dancing… and living her life as \”other people\’s children\”, and these are all inseparable from the successful education of her parents. Audiences all know Huang Lei, known as \”Huang Xiaochu\”. Apart from work, I spend time with my family, and most of the time I spend in the kitchen at home far away from the city. As an actor, director, and star, he puts aside all the social and entertainment activities, spends time with his family and children, and enjoys every meal with his family. In this way, children who grow up in the food of their father\’s love are full of love and kindness in their hearts, and are more likely to be aware of their own happiness. My cousin is a strong career woman and works as a sales manager in a foreign company. She is either in a meeting, on a business trip, or negotiating business with clients or signing contracts. She was busy spinning around her work like a top. Every time when she returns home, the child falls asleep with her grandma by her side. Before the child wakes up, she hurriedly carries her briefcase and goes to work, let alone having dinner at home. The kitchen stove is often covered with dust, and the living room is deserted. Recently, the child\’s grandmother returned to her hometown, and her cousin had to hire a nanny. However, the nanny who is not familiar with the child always fails to cook meals that suit the child\’s taste. As time goes by, the child becomes too lazy to eat. He always complains of stomachache and his academic performance plummets. My cousin took the child to the hospital, and the doctor couldn\’t help but blame him: The child eats irregularly and has some stomach problems. He is still growing. How do you parents take care of your child? My cousin wanted to argue that she worked hard for her children, but after thinking about it, she swallowed her words. I kept saying that it was for the sake of my child, but I didn\’t cook a dinner for her for two weeks in a row or tell her stories to sleep with her. How can children grow up healthily? The next day, my cousin applied to the company to share some of the business with her subordinates and socialize as much as she could. Although her income was reduced, she had more time to eat with her children. \”You can work hard slowly in your career, but your children only grow up once.\” There was a light on in the house, firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. The smell of fireworks fell from the window. There were children playing in the living room, there was the sound of piano, and it was seven o\’clock. Zhong\’s news broadcast included laughter and scolding. When the family gathers around the dining table, has a good meal, and gives thanks for the food together, it will make the child feel that he is in an ordinary family, with parents who love him, and people who care about him.Companionship and spiritual enrichment. Only when children are surrounded and filled with a sense of security and happiness can they grow better. Teacher Yu Dan said: Education is a starting point, a companionship, a concept and encouragement. The ultimate perfection is each child\’s own personality and soul. Learn to love among the crowd, discover eternity in the mountains and rivers, have the courage to take responsibility among the rules of society, and build your personality in all of this. Parenting experts once proposed the concept of \”space time\”, which is a method of detachment in psychology that allows parents and children to put aside unpleasant memories or emotions during this time, just like taking a rocket to space. , you can speak your mind without restraint. And \”table time\” is such space time. In this way, the most tender time of the day can heal the trauma deep in the child\’s heart throughout the day, enhance happiness, and improve the mind. Praying together before meals teaches children to be grateful, table manners teaches children etiquette and rituals, and sharing food conveys a spirit of sharing. All the conversations and exchanges at the dinner table, every vegetable and every dish, every tea and meal, contain the deep meaning of love and happiness. There is this sentence in You Quotes: I just want to be with you, three meals a day, all year round. A meal, not just a meal. It is an exchange of feelings, letting go of all defenses and resistance, and deep companionship. A table without temperature is suffocating. True education and love do not need to be packed with \”poetry and distance\”. It is limited to the kitchen, but it can accommodate the endless joy of mountains, rivers, lakes and seas. It is spread out on the dining table, where parents and children participate together and learn love and happiness.