A single mother drives a night taxi with her 3-year-old daughter alone. No one can match the strength and greatness of maternal love.

It is said that between the ages of 0-3, the mother is the most important person for the child. However, if during this period, the relationship between the parents no longer exists, and they get divorced. As a single mother, do you still have the courage to take your child with you and raise him to adulthood? At this time, many people may choose to take responsibility and obtain custody of their children, but then send the children back to their hometowns and leave them to the care of the elderly. They work silently outside, making money while recovering from injuries and working hard to raise their children. The pain of divorce is really painful. When you are unable to raise your children on your own, asking the elderly to help is a good choice. But if a mother can still grit her teeth and insist on taking her child with her when it is so difficult to raise her child alone, no matter how difficult it is, she will try her best to raise her child alone. Isn’t such a mother particularly great and respectful? Woolen cloth? Recently, a single mother in Wuhan won the praise of all netizens. Her name is Li Shaoyun. When the child was five months old, she and her husband separated due to conflicts. In order to take care of her young daughter, she worked hard to drive a night shift taxi with her daughter every day. During the winter and summer, she kept her daughter by her side for more than 800 nights. Her story was first published in Chutian Metropolis Daily. Because the reporter who reported this article was Yuehua\’s college classmate, Yuehua further learned more about this mother\’s experience. Today, I have compiled and shared with you the reports published by Chutian Metropolis Daily and what I learned. I hope to encourage all mothers. Each of us mothers may have various problems in the process of raising children. We may not be able to give our children a perfect life, but no matter how hard it is, we will try our best to raise our children. , this is the most ordinary and greatest thing about mother. First, let’s get to know this beautiful mother Li Shaoyun and her daughter Yiyi. When Yiyi was 5 months old, her mother, Li Shaoyun, started driving a night taxi. At that time, Li Shaoyun separated from her husband due to conflicts and lived alone with her daughter. In order to support her daughter, she worked as a night shift taxi driver, which was a job she had done before. There was no one to help her take care of the child, and she was worried about leaving her daughter alone at home. Li Shaoyun would take her daughter out with her every day in the car, put her daughter in the car and drive a taxi with her. Many people wonder why Li Shaoyun chose to drive a night shift taxi instead of a day shift taxi. If she drove a day shift, her children would not have to mix day and night, and their schedule would at least be regular. But if you think about it personally, if you really have a choice, which mother would be willing to take her child and wander around like this? Li Shaoyun deliberately chose a night shift taxi precisely to take better care of his children. If she chooses the day bus, the light conditions are good during the day, and Yiyi will be clearly seen sitting on the bus. When many people see children in the car, they mistakenly think there is someone in the car and give up using the car. It will be very difficult for Li Shaoyun to take orders. In order to facilitate taking care of his children and not to lose customers, Li Shaoyun chose to drive a night shift taxi. Every evening, the day shift driver picks up Li Shaoyun and Yiyi at the gate of the community. After they send the day shift driver home, they start a hard night\’s work again. Most of the time, LeeShaoyun will place his daughter in the passenger seat. When there are not many passengers, the co-pilot is Yiyi’s exclusive seat. But if there are many guests, Yiyi needs to give up the passenger seat and squeeze into the back seat. When the seats are full, Yiyi will even sit on the armrest between the driver and passenger. I used to wonder how a child could sit in such a dangerous position on the passenger side. I was worried about the safety of such a young child sitting in the back seat, and even offered to give Yiyi a safety seat. But reality is always much crueler than ideal, because Li Shaoyun drives a taxi, and if Yiyi does not sit in the co-pilot, it is easy to lose the order. If a child safety seat is placed on the car, passengers will not be able to sit properly after getting on the car, which will also affect business. When basic survival is not guaranteed, how can we consider safety? Therefore, letting Yiyi arrange arbitrarily according to the passenger flow situation is simply a helpless choice. The best protection Li Shaoyun can give Yiyi is to go to the airport more frequently and take the elevated highways more often. It is relatively safer to take the child with him on roads with few traffic lights. In order to save 15 yuan in tolls, Li Shaoyun would remind Yiyi to sneak under the seat and hide every time the taxi arrived at the toll station. This is because empty taxis can pass the Airport Expressway for free, but if Yiyi is photographed by a surveillance camera on the road, she will be considered a passenger, and Li Shaoyun will have to pay for the toll. After arriving at the airport, Li Shaoyun will first drive into the temporarily closed lane and take Yiyi to have dinner. The mother and son\’s dinner was a box lunch at a restaurant near the airport. Li Shaoyun often takes Yiyi shopping, and the boss already knows the mother and daughter. The 12 yuan box lunch includes two meat dishes and one vegetable dish, including winter melon, tofu and fish. Although it is very simple, for a child under 3 years old, as long as he can eat it with his mother, it doesn’t matter what he eats! During the meal, some familiar drivers came over to say hello, and Yiyi would respond politely. While waiting, there would also be familiar drivers who would play with Yiyi for a while, giving him biscuits and snacks, or playing cartoons to relieve her boredom. . Li Shaoyun himself will also play with Yiyi in the driver\’s seat. Such a scene is sad to watch, but it also makes people feel full of warmth. On the day of the shooting, Yiyi and her mother did not arrive at the passenger boarding point until 9:30 pm. As happens many times, the waiting passengers saw children in the car and turned around and walked to another car. Fortunately, I met a passenger at the back who didn\’t mind and got on the bus. Yiyi and her mother waited for nearly 3 hours before receiving the customer. After delivering the first customer to his destination, Li Shaoyun took two more short-distance orders and decided to go to Tianhe Airport again. The waiting time at the airport for the second time was shorter than the first time. I only waited for about half an hour before I picked up a passenger. After delivering the other party, it was already 1 o\’clock in the morning. 3-year-old Yiyi couldn\’t hold on anymore and wanted to sleep, so she begged her mother to go home. But Li Shaoyun only earned more than 200 yuan at that time, which was only enough to pay the car owner\’s rental fee of 100 yuan and gas fee of more than 100 yuan. If they don\’t continue to work hard to earn, their efforts will be in vain. She had no choice but to reassure her daughter: \”Mom hasn\’t made any money yet. How can I buy delicious food for Yiyi if I don\’t have money? Can we go to the airport again?\” Yiyi nodded obediently. This time I waited until 2 o\’clock in the morningLater, Li Shaoyun received another order, a passenger from Tianhe Airport to Hongshan District. It was already 3 o\’clock in the morning when we delivered the guests to their destination. Li Shaoyun said with satisfaction that it had gone very smoothly. She also made three trips to the airport the day before, until around 5 a.m. But the gross income is only over 300, so Li Shaoyun will continue to take his daughter to try his luck in the city. Yiyi couldn\’t bear it anymore and had already fallen asleep. Her mother spread a blanket on the passenger seat as Yiyi\’s crib. It can be seen from Yiyi\’s sleeping position that she is already very familiar with this way of sleeping. It wasn\’t until 4:30 in the morning that Li Shaoyun finished his night\’s work when he saw that his gross income exceeded 400 yuan. She first went to fill up the gas in the car and spent money to wash the car before taking out the sleeping Yiyi. Yiyi was already very sleepy and didn\’t wake up no matter how hard her mother tried. It was about 300 meters from the gas station to where they lived, and there was a pedestrian bridge in the middle. Li Shaoyun held Yiyi all the way and walked home slowly. After returning home, he put Yiyi on the bed and wiped it clean so that Li Shaoyun could wash himself and fall asleep with his daughter. After resting well during the day, Yiyi will play with toys after waking up, wait for her mother to braid her hair, and then play with her favorite toys for a while before continuing to accompany her mother to start the night\’s work. By the end of August, Yiyi will be 3 years old and will be able to enter kindergarten and start a regular schedule. By then, young Yiyi may no longer need to live a life of day and night. From the first time she saw the story of Li Shaoyun and Yiyi, Yuehua felt both sad, moved and amazed. What makes me sad is the hardship of being a single mother and the hardships of accompanying Xiao Yiyi day and night. What makes me admire is Li Shaoyun\’s strength and greatness. For children aged 0-3, nothing is more important than the protection of their mother by their side! Because during this period, the mother is everything to the child. From the beginning when the child thinks \”I am mother, mother is me\” to the time when she gradually discovers and accepts that \”I\” and mother are two different people, mother means more to her child than any other relationship. From this perspective, Li Shaoyun may not be able to give Yiyi a prosperous life, but the sense of security she brings to Yiyi cannot be exchanged for any amount of money. Nothing is more important than mom\’s company. This is the biggest need for children under 3 years old. In Li Shaoyun, we can also see the shining points of many mothers in reality: Most of our mothers are not the same as Li Shaoyun. No matter how tired they are or how difficult life is, they do their best to keep their children with them and strive to give them Take care of it as much as you can? There is no 100% perfect mother in life. As long as we try our best in raising children, even if we are not perfect, even if there is no way for our children to live a rich and fulfilling life, mother\’s efforts are the best for their children\’s growth. of care. The days when mom is by your side will give your children the greatest peace of mind no matter how hard it is and no matter how displaced they are! Finally, special thanks to Chutian Metropolis Daily reporters Manda and Huang Shifeng for providing information.

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