How bad can a child be?

Zhihu once had a very popular question and answer called: How bad can people be? The answers are diverse and can be called a collection of evil people in history. Some of the perpetrators are only a few years old or even teenagers. Although they hate naughty children deeply, in most people\’s perception, naughty children only stay in the category of \”naughty\” and cannot be too big of a monster. Because we always have an innate connection with children and words like innocence and innocence. I suggest that anyone who thinks this way should watch the movie \”Safe Neighborhood\”. This movie is known as the first film of the Anti-Baby Alliance, and it will definitely subvert your understanding of the word \”baby\”. It can be said that this is one of the most shocking movies I have ever seen in recent times. More importantly, if you want to know how bad children are, or how they become bad step by step, this movie is the best answer. The film\’s synopsis goes like this: On a quiet suburban street tucked into a \”safe community,\” a nanny must protect a 12-year-old boy from a stranger breaking in, only to discover that this is far from an ordinary home invasion. Warm reminder, if you are curious about the plot and looking forward to a remake of \”Home Alone\”, then I suggest you close the page and stop reading. There will be real spoilers later, and I\’m afraid you won\’t be able to bear it. Please remember this innocent and harmless little face first, because until the subtitles came out of the video, I really couldn\’t connect it with what I had done. The story tells that on Christmas Eve, the beautiful girl Ashley was entrusted by her employer to be a temporary nanny for their 12-year-old child Luke. Luke has been taken care of by Ashley since he was 8 years old and has been in love with Ashley for a long time. But Ashley was not interested at all in this \”little kid\” who was five years younger than herself, so Luke planned a \”horror night\” plan. He teamed up with his good friend Garrett to cut off the communication signal in the house and pretended to be attacked by a mysterious man, intending to show \”heroes saving beauty\” and get close to Ashley. Unexpectedly, Ashley discovered the plan to betray the gang. Ashley threatened Luke to tell his parents, and Luke became angry and knocked Ashley unconscious. Ashley woke up and found herself tied to a chair with tape by two naughty kids. They forced Ashley to play a game of truth or dare, verbally teasing her and physically molesting her. Luke then designed to trick and kill Ashley\’s current boyfriend Rick and ex-boyfriend Jeremy. Garret, who only wanted to play a prank with Luke, didn\’t expect all this. He panicked and tried to rescue Ashley when Luke wasn\’t paying attention. Unfortunately, he was discovered by Luke and he didn\’t even blink. His best friend died. Finally, he slit Ashley\’s veins. Calmly and calmly arranged the crime scene, and even danced when he was excited. In terms of meticulous thinking and vicious scheming, the only one who can rival him is Long Xiaoyun in Gu Long\’s works. By the way, the two of them seem to be about the same age. . There are always people who don\’t take children\’s evil seriously. People always like to say: they are still young and they are not sensible yet. When will they become sensible? Never will, and will only get worse along the way. If all children are kind, do bad people turn evil overnight? You know, they will be naughty kids when they grow upson. But a naughty child with evil intentions is a hundred times more terrifying than an adult. Because it is difficult for them to be restrained by law and morality, they can be completely uncontrollable when they act evil. Their minds are immature and their world is very black and white. It\’s all or nothing. Just like Luke loves Ashley but if he can\’t get her, he wants to destroy her. In fact, Luke did not become bad overnight. It was the result of long-term neglect of love. His father was a closeted person, and his parents often quarreled over trivial matters after drinking. His mother\’s disdain for his father was evident both in and out of her words. From the very beginning, this child was not the product of love between two people. They were clearly neglecting Luke and were busy going out to a party on Christmas Eve. So underneath Luke\’s violent outer shell, there is an extremely sensitive and fragile heart. If a child does not have a close enough relationship with its parents before the age of three, the child will lack a sense of security throughout his life. For example, Luke still needs a baby companion when sleeping. Luke\’s love for Ashley is essentially an Oedipus complex. He wanted to find comfort in this beautiful nanny who was like his sister and mother, and he would not allow anyone to compete with him for her love. At the beginning of the whole plan, Luke might really just want to get Ashley to give him more recognition and attention by designing a scary atmosphere, so as to get closer to Ashley. Such an idea is childish, but also pitiful. After killing everyone else, he once snuggled softly beside her like a little sheep, revealing his inner loneliness to her. He said: My mother used to cover me with quilts and coax me to sleep. I felt very safe. , but gradually she stopped doing this, and I couldn’t sleep well anymore. At the end of the story, Luke killed someone and stabbed a big man, but was held in the arms of his panicked mother with concern, realizing his long-held wish. At this time, he looked satisfied. Behind many children\’s constant troubles, they are seeking their parents\’ attention. Their original intention is just to make their parents love them more. Remember the cup theory of love I mentioned before? Parents need to refill their children\’s cups frequently. Luke\’s cup has been empty for too long and has dried up into a desert. Education can no longer solve the problem. Even love may be too late. Finally, I want to say: He is just a child, so don’t let him go.