The best education is the words and deeds of parents

In the park, a mother and her son were walking in front of me. Along the way, the mother vomited all the melon seed shells, \”Puff-Puff-Puff\” skillfully. After passing through beautiful parabolas, some fell on the lawn by the roadside, and some fell directly on the cement at her feet. on the ground. \”Mom, our teacher said you can\’t litter. Didn\’t you teach me the same way?\” The little boy reminded his mother anxiously all the way, but the mother turned a deaf ear and just responded with \”I know, I know\” but did not stop. . The boy was walking beside him gloomily. His mother saw that he was holding a ball of paper in his hand and said, \”Oh, it\’s so dirty, why don\’t you throw it away?\” \”I\’ll throw it away later when I find the trash can.\” The boy said seriously. The mother grabbed the paper ball, threw it aside, and scolded: \”Why are you so stubborn? Isn\’t it just a bit of garbage? Of course there are cleaners to clean up, and they are paid to do this job. If If no one throws away garbage, they will lose their jobs.\” \”Really? But…\” The boy looked at his mother doubtfully, and then at the paper ball on the ground. He looked embarrassed and refused to leave. \”Of course it\’s true, okay, okay, let\’s go.\” His mother held his hand and smiled proudly. \”By the way, is your school going to select a virtuous boy recently? You have to work harder and try to be selected.\” Mother said again. \”Well, it\’s a selection. Mom, can littering be considered a good moral character?\” \”This… this…\” The mother was embarrassed and speechless. Many parents teach their children in a set way, but they do not lead by example, and even set a negative example. Sometimes they use strong words when faced with their children\’s doubts, leaving the children at a loss as to what to do. It is really ironic that this mother who litters herself and wants her children to litter too encourages her children to participate in the virtuous youth competition. The bus came, and a mother and her daughter squeezed to the front of the line, got on the bus, and quickly found a seat to sit down. The carriage was suddenly filled with people. Many people were standing and crowded. The mother whispered proudly to her daughter: \”Baby, did you see? There are so many people. If we don\’t squeeze in early, there will be no seats and we will have to stand.\” The little girl pouted, a little unhappy. Happy: \”But Mom, don\’t we have to queue in public places? How can we jump in line?\” \”That\’s what I say, but it\’s really unbearable to stand so far away.\” Her mother said indifferently. At this time, the car arrived at the next stop, and an old woman got on. The little girl quickly stood up and planned to give up her seat. Her mother grabbed her, told her to sit down, and asked her to look out the window. \”Mom, that grandma is as old as my grandma, how tiring it is to stand! Haven\’t you taught me to respect the elderly and love the young? No, I have to give up my seat to her.\” The little girl said stubbornly. \”There are so many people, so naturally someone will give way. It\’s right to respect the old and love the young. You must respect the old and love the young at the same time. You are the \”young\”, so I want to take care of you. Just sit back and relax.\” \”I I am already a primary school student, and I am not a baby…\” While they were arguing, someone had already offered their seat to the old lady, and the little girl breathed a sigh of relief, but her face looked ugly and unhappy. She looked at her mother thoughtfully and stopped talking. Cutting in line and not giving up her seat to the elderly is how this mother sets an example for her childrenof. I wonder if she has ever thought about the day when she will grow old, and how she will feel if no one gives up her seat to her. I myself have no great abilities and am an extremely ordinary mother. I don’t have the ability to let my son go to a prestigious school and provide him with better educational conditions; I don’t have the ability to let him wear famous brands all over his body; I don’t have the ability to provide him with the latest electronic products; I don’t have the ability to take him to see all over the world… However, at least one thing is that when my son was growing up, I strictly required myself to set an example and be consistent in my words and deeds. In our whole family, no one said bad words, no one littered, and no one vandalized public property. In public places, we line up quietly and don’t make any noise. If you see garbage on the ground, you will pick it up and throw it into the trash can. When we encounter people in need, we will lend a helping hand promptly. When my son was very young, my husband and I did this. My son saw it and followed suit. Later, these behaviors became his habit. We were traveling during the National Day this year. In a scenic spot, you could see beverage bottles thrown by tourists everywhere. Every time my son found one, he would pick one up, hold it in his hand, and then throw it into the trash can after he found it. Later, there were several beverage bottles lying on the ground next to a trash can. My son picked them up one by one and threw them into the recyclable trash can. When we were about to leave, our son was suddenly stopped by an aunt selling small national flags. She handed her son a national flag and said with a smile: \”Kid, you are awesome. Auntie is very touched. If everyone is like you, our country will become better and better. Give it to you!\” My son looked at me and I nodded. The head agreed that he should accept the gift from his aunt. He happily took the flag and thanked him. Looking at his back waving the national flag high, I pressed the camera shutter and fixed that moment for eternity. Recently, a set of pictures has become extremely popular. They are nothing more than pictures of parents setting good examples for their children. They are nothing more than teaching their children to abide by public order, be grateful, be helpful, dare to take responsibility, think in other people\’s shoes, etc. Such popularity is gratifying, which shows that everyone agrees with this educational method and values, which is why it is widely promoted and forwarded. Such outbursts are also worrying and embarrassing. There is a saying: the more something is lacking, the more something is promoted. The behaviors of the parents in the picture educating their children are what all of us parents should do and are accustomed to. The reason why they are so widely publicized just shows that they are rare and valuable. Doesn’t this mean that most parents are not doing enough and they should also learn from those role models? When our entire society becomes accustomed to such good behavior and practices it, our overall national quality will truly improve, and our country will become better and stronger. The best education is the words and deeds of parents.