Beijing Red, Yellow and Blue Kindergarten Molestation Case: No one loves your child more than you

I think everyone is clear about the matter. On the evening of November 22, some parents of young children reported that children in the International Primary 2 Class of the Xintiandi Branch of Honghuanglan Kindergarten in Chaoyang District, Beijing were stabbed with needles and given unknown white pills by their teachers, and they provided photos of multiple needle holes in their children. Soon, descriptions of the children involved, partially exposed photos and complaints from parents continued to flood the screen. Parents of abused children are heartbroken and even feel that they are the main driving force behind the abuse of their children. One child said that Dr. Grandpa and Dr. Uncle taught us how to do piston movements. The child\’s parent said: \”When I saw my child describing this incident so cutely, I felt very painful inside.\” Because he knew nothing about it, the child thought everything was normal. But pain can’t fool anyone, and a dozen needle holes can’t fool anyone. Afterwards, many parents asked to see the kindergarten’s surveillance video, but the kindergarten’s explanation was that the surveillance camera was broken. Yes, a very cold-blooded and domineering response. If you don’t have evidence, don’t slander others. We will report the case. It\’s really ridiculous. Even if you can destroy the evidence, you can\’t destroy the justice and conscience of this world. While communicating in the media circle today, a friend said: \”You must know that no one will love your children more than you.\” This sentence suddenly shocked me, and in fact it is true. Every child is the heart and soul of his parents. We are reluctant to touch him, but we never expected that he would be molested by unscrupulous people elsewhere. It is difficult for every parent to accept such a painful incident, because they know what their child means to them. The incident of feeding children mustard in Ctrip Kindergarten has just come to an end. This incident has happened again in Red, Yellow and Blue Kindergarten. We seem to have no choice but to feel sad and condemn. I can’t imagine what it’s like for a child who has been abused, and how the parents must go through this difficult time. As the pressure of life increases, children in kindergartens are getting younger and younger. Who wouldn’t want to spend more time with their children if they could, and who wouldn’t want to take good care of them all the time. However, in order to survive, parents have no choice but to let their children enter kindergartens. In order to avoid harm to our children, we look for kindergartens with the best qualifications. Even if we spend a little more money, we still want our children to grow up healthily and happily, but the result is so heartbreaking. It turns out that everything we do is just our own wishful thinking. Every time I see my son come home jumping, I will be very happy. Every time he describes to me what he eats in the kindergarten, I will be very happy, because the child is really happy here. The report of the 19th National Congress of the Communist Party of China pointed out that the rights of young children must be protected and they must be allowed to grow up healthily and happily. This is exactly what our parents want. However, the frequent occurrence of cases has gradually made us lose credibility in kindergartens. We are afraid that one day their experiences will happen to our own children, and we are afraid that it will leave a shadow on their children\’s childhood. We appealed over and over again and tried hard over and over again, but the result was still the same. Yes, except ourselves, no one will really love our children. The final burden of education still falls on our shoulders. If you don\’t want tragedy to happen, then please pay more attention to the condition of your children. I have a cousin who lives far away. Five years ago, her child was pushed down by a child on the slide.It resulted in 2 broken ribs. It was a simple accident, but the kindergarten did not admit that it was its responsibility at all, and even joined forces with the parents of the child to put pressure on the sister-in-law. My sister-in-law is very stubborn. She is like Qiu Ju in \”Qiu Ju\’s Lawsuit\”, she must find an explanation. After repeated communication failed, my sister-in-law filed a lawsuit in court. Finally, with the help of the court, she finally got justice for her children. One time, she went to our house to talk about this matter. I said: \”You are really persistent, but finally there is a good result.\” She said: \”My child\’s ribs were broken, and they couldn\’t understand my concubine.\” I must give an explanation for the pain in my heart, for me and for the sake of my children.\” In fact, this is the case. When other people\’s children have accidents, we can only do some comfort at best, and then ignore the matter and ignore it. When bad luck befalls us, we learn what it means to empathize. If kindergarten becomes the devil\’s territory, where should our children go? Every parent\’s feelings for their children are endless, because with this endless love, there will be a huge sense of responsibility in their hearts. The growth of children brings many challenges to parents, but the biggest challenge is to ensure that children grow up healthily and happily. The so-called relationship between parents and children is the practice of fate, a fate gained by looking back countless times. We carefully protect our angels, but for some inexplicable reasons, they get hurt. The most painful thing in the world is to see our children hurt and there is nothing we can do about it. It really hurts. If a child has an accident, you will definitely see the mother’s desperate eyes, because this kind of love that is connected to the blood will never wither. On the road of children\’s growth, we must be a qualified guardian and try to minimize the harm to the children when they encounter risks. The American Academy of Pediatrics points out that parents should do their best to be good guardians of their children and remain vigilant at all times for unexplained changes in their children\’s bodies and behaviors. Scars on the child\’s body may be signs of abuse. If the child\’s behavior is different from usual, then something is probably going on. Young children are relatively naive and do not have the ability to judge risks at all. This is why they think it is a normal phenomenon when they are molested, and they will not feel fear when describing it unless it causes them physical pain. As parents, we must be our children\’s strongest backing, letting them trust us and rely on us. Only in this way can our children tell you what happened in school. Otherwise, everything you do is in vain. No one will love your child more than you. Instead of waiting for danger to come, it is better to try to nip it in the bud.