Red, Yellow, and Blue Child Abuse Incident: My child, those who ask you to keep secrets from your parents are all bad people!

You in front of the screen must be as shocked as me by the child abuse incident in Beijing\’s Sanse Kindergarten! Starting on November 22, a number of parents from Beijing Red, Yellow and Blue Kindergarten reported that their children were injected with unknown drugs and given white pills or brown syrup by their teachers. One child had as many as 13 needle holes in his body. I won’t go into details about the specific content, you will know just by looking at the pictures. Yesterday I also watched a video interviewing the mother of \”Tongtong\”. It lasted for more than ten minutes and made me feel chills in my chest and back! Evil people can be so evil and break through our bottom line. It is really \”kindness limits my imagination\”! The video has now been deleted and cannot be viewed. I admire Tongtong’s mother in the video immensely. I admire her courage to accept the interview, and even more admire her calmness. Three-year-old Tongtong told her mother how to \”check the body\” in kindergarten: the children are naked, and the uncles are also naked… There are uncle doctors, there are grandpa doctors… As a mother, when she hears this, she must be so angry! What a collapse! At that moment, you had the intention to kill, right? Red, Yellow, and Blue Sponsor: I think we are the whole truth of the red, yellow, and blue child abuse incident in Love, and what kind of punishment the relevant demons will receive. Now that the police have intervened, we will wait and see. There is no other way but to believe in the fairness of casting spells. As parents, in addition to hoping that the evildoers will be severely punished afterwards, we also hope that similar things will never happen again! So, how to prevent it? Matters at the national policy level, such as strengthening supervision, raising the entry threshold for running schools, improving early childhood education treatment, attracting better talents, strictly reviewing early childhood education qualifications, etc., seem to be beyond our reach. The top priority is to educate your children well. If you encounter a demon and your parents are not around, I hope your children can have a little bit of self-protection and self-rescue. As I write this, I feel deeply sad and powerless. It seems that every time something happens, we can only seek to protect and save ourselves! In fact, we have talked about the topic of sexual assault prevention education as an urgent matter several times before, but I think, judging from the current situation, it cannot be emphasized too many times. Because even if the accident rate is only one percent or one thousandth, if it happens to your own home, it is one hundred percent. First of all, let your children know: the places covered by vests and underpants are private parts. If someone wants to do the following things to you, be sure to say no and tell your parents: look at your private parts, or let you look at their private parts; talk to you about your private parts; touch you with their hands or touch you with other things His private parts, or letting you touch his private parts; kissing your lips, or any physical contact that makes you feel uncomfortable or afraid; showing you photos or videos of other people without clothes, or asking you to Take photos or videos of you without clothes on; carry you on his back, hold you, and other things that restrict your freedom; lock you and him alone in the room; ask you to take off your clothes and let the doctor check your body when your parents are away. In the Beijing child abuse incident, Tongtong was examined twice. Once, when the \”doctor\” asked him to take off his clothes, he resisted loudly: \”Don\’t take off my clothes!\”\”The teacher told him to get out, and Tongtong escaped. Tongtong\’s mother said: I am so glad that my children resisted loudly and defeated their interest! Attached here is Professor Wang Dawei of the People\’s Public Security University of China, who personally demonstrated \”Children \”Safety Exercises\”, which contains three small themes: \”Little Bear Exercises\”, \”Little Flower Dog\”, and \”School Exercises\”. We can learn it with our children: \”Little Bear Exercises\” Little Bear Little Bear is a good baby, wear your vest and pants. Inside Don\’t allow others to touch you. Both boys and girls know this! \”Little Flower Dog\” I have a little flower dog at home. When strangers pick it up, it won\’t go away. I shake my head and wave my hands, and I won\’t leave without seeing my mother! \”School Exercises\” I go to school alone and ask I don’t know anything. Lower your head, walk quickly, and catch up with the kid in front! The bad guy may not have a green face and fangs, or he may not be a stranger. Influenced by fairy tales, children always think that the bad guys are green faces with fangs, long nails, and big mouths. Pointed teeth, a very scary smile… This solidified impression is actually not good for children\’s safety. We need to let children understand: bad people may look good; bad people may have amiable smiles; bad people may They may be polite; the bad guy may have delicious candies in his pocket; the bad guy may even pretend to be a good Samaritan and help you; it may even be that the bad guy is someone you are familiar with, such as the uncle next door or the teacher at school. Therefore, the principle of protecting private parts mentioned above applies not only to strangers, but also to acquaintances. Do not keep secrets from parents. It is said that some children in Red Yellow Blue Kindergarten were molested for as long as a year. In such a long time Here, the devil\’s behavior has not been discovered, which is really chilling. Think about it, they are not targeting one child, but multiple children, injecting needles, giving medicine, and checking the body naked, don\’t they? Are you worried that things will be exposed? It is true that the expressive ability of kindergarten children is limited, but if it is not guaranteed, everyone will not go home and say it. What is the basis for the devil to be so bold? It is not known whether there are drug factors (some say injection of hallucinogens). But Tongtong’s mother said in the interview (the video has been deleted, I can’t quote her original words, I can only paraphrase the general idea): The child also said that the teacher (director?) told the children that this was a secret and could not be told to those who had not received the injection. Children can’t tell their parents. This is really a classic way for bad people to deal with children: This is a secret between us, don’t tell your parents! Therefore, we have to tell our children repeatedly: If someone tells you, this is between you. Secret, don\’t tell your parents, don\’t believe him! This person is probably a bad person, this secret is probably a bad thing, you must tell your parents. Don\’t be afraid of the threats of bad people. One day many years ago, I went to my cousin\’s house as a guest , my little nephew is in kindergarten, very cute. I chatted with him, and he asked me: Aunt, can you see the back of your head (the back of your head)? I said no. The nephew said very proudly: Our teacher can! I was very surprised. , quickly asked for advice, and my nephew told me: The teacher said that when she turned around, she could see from behind whether we were making trouble. That’s it! That’s right!For young children, teachers represent correctness and truth! In this child abuse incident, the demon teacher told the child: \”I have a long telescope that can always see your home. I can know what you do and say…\” The child was abused in the kindergarten. I don\’t dare to ask my parents for help. It\’s so terrifying to live under \”teacher\’s surveillance\” all day long. So please tell our children: If someone threatens you: If you tell the secret, he will beat you, don\’t be afraid! You have to know that if he succeeds this time, he will bully you even harder next time. You tell your parents and they will help you deal with him. If someone threatens you: Telling the secret will hurt your parents, don\’t believe him! Mom and Dad are strong and cannot be hurt. Finally, what I want to say is that although there was a child abuse incident in Ctrip Kindergarten not long ago, and the red, yellow and blue child abuse incident happened not long ago, the teachers in the vast majority of kindergartens are still very good, even if they are not what we expect. He loves children so much that he would not abuse them. We don’t need to panic because of this, let alone think about not going to kindergarten to the extreme, and there is no need to stop eating because of choking. This world is never perfect. Where there is light, there is darkness, where there is good, there is evil, and where there is heaven, there is hell. Please put on the armor for your child first, and then encourage him to move forward bravely!