If you accompany your child to do homework, even if you become a Buddha, you will still be a warrior monk!

Near the end of the term, a picture posted by a teacher on WeChat Moments made thousands of parents laugh and cry. This child wearing a helmet while doing homework, what have you experienced? Dear mommies who are doing homework with their babies, are you still alive? The final exam sprint, the time to test the fruits of our labor is coming soon! Are you excited? Are you excited? ! They all say, \”I would rather carry sacks than do homework with my children.\” When not doing homework, the mother is kind and the son is filial; when he is doing homework, he is in a hurry. The child is either drinking water, peeing, or wanting to defecate, or his hands are numb, his head is itchy, his stomach hurts, and he is so angry that he wants to take action every minute. After finally settling down, I looked at 5 in my eyes and chanted 6 on my lips, but when I wrote it down, it turned out to be a crooked 8. Not to mention not being able to distinguish between big, small, equal signs, 3 and 8, 6 and 9, apple and banana. After procrastinating for two or three hours, his homework was crookedly written, and his parents who were accompanying him while reading were so angry! My daughter has just entered the first grade this year. I have been helping her with her final review these days, and she has been studying for a whole semester: \”5+3=?\” \”53!\” After saying this, she looked at me firmly. Heaven! Who does this child follow? ! This semester I accompanied my children to write down their homework, and I felt like I had managed all the hit dramas for the entire year. Every night, the first performance is \”In the Name of Mother\”. Don\’t bow your head, children, or your grades will fall! After a while, it switched to \”Travel in a Confused Circle\”: one was confused when writing, the other was confused with anger, and his mind was buzzing every day. One moment, he acted passionately in \”Roar, Mom\”, and the next moment, he played the role of a million-strong army roaring across the river in \”War Lion\”. If it doesn\’t work, it will be staged \”That Year the Feather Dusters Bloomed and Their Eyes Became Wide\”. Don\’t stop me, I\’m going to beat someone up! Alas, \”My First Half of the Night\” and my \”Youth\” passed away in this day-to-day rush of red faces, ferocious faces, and blood-spurting roars. Finally, the phoenix attained Nirvana, attained great enlightenment, and firmly made a promise with his next few lives, \”Three Lives, Three Lives, No Homework\”! Looking at my circle of friends and our entire community, I am really not the only one. After living for half a life, I finally discovered that doing homework with my children is a \”good job\” that exercises one\’s willpower! So what if you are traveling, on the bus, or on the subway? Wherever people go, work must follow them! As long as the people are there, the work will be there! As long as you still have breath, you must finish your homework and accompany your baby to finish the homework! Why do our Chinese dolls have so much homework? It seems like you can\’t finish it no matter what you do? According to the \”Report on Homework Pressure of Chinese Primary and Secondary School Students\”, in 2017, Chinese primary and secondary school students spent 2.82 hours on homework per day, which is 3.7 times that of Japan, 4.8 times that of South Korea, and nearly three times the world average. Kids, you are really stressed out! Even more stressful than their children are their parents… 91.2% of parents have had the experience of accompanying their children to do homework, with 78% of them doing so for more than 4 hours every day. What’s even more ridiculous is that 3 out of 4 families start a war over homework. Many families even express that they “don’t want to have a second child” because they are afraid that they can’t afford to accompany their children to do homework.\”. Parents are exhausted from working during the day, and when they come home, they have to be squeezed out of the last drop of surplus labor by their children. Let alone having younger brothers and sisters, their happiness has plummeted! After working so hard with them, if their children have good grades, No matter how hard it is, it\’s worth it. But every time I see my daughter\’s report card, I always doubt the hospital\’s surgeon, dressing nurse, and cleaning lady: \”I\’m holding you wrong, I\’m holding you wrong, this is not my baby.\” ! \”As soon as you enter the child family, your grades are as deep as the sea. From then on, your grades are your benefactor. The reputation of four generations of academic masters in a family was ruined in the hands of a few-year-old child… My child, on behalf of the whole world, I award you a certificate of \”heroic devotion and indifference to fame and fortune\”. Banner. Although grades are not the only criterion for testing learning, children\’s grades cannot be ignored. Teaching children to treat learning well is to let them understand that only by working hard can they win respect. Whenever the teacher announces it in the class group , \”Dear parents, these are the students who got perfect marks in this test…\” I would pick up my phone excitedly, click on the picture to see the name, zoom in, zoom in, zoom in again, but I didn\’t have my baby! I felt a sigh of relief in my chest, no. Convinced, I had to cover my chest with one hand and write a reply like this: \”Received, thank you teacher, thank you for your hard work…\” Coupled with two carefully selected small red flowers, I felt that my whole body was full of drama. Whenever these times, My strength and pride were all shattered to pieces. Then I called the child’s father and yelled: “It’s all your fault! My good genes have been mixed up! \”I hung up the phone and got sulky. What next? I went home and continued to urge my children to correct their papers and review seriously. This is the ironclad spirit of mothers who accompany them to school! Sometimes, I also want to be a person who neither fights nor complains, nor complains. , a \”Buddhist\” mother who is not stubborn, not irritable, and elegant. Let your academic performance go to hell. No matter how you are, your child, your mother can love you, accept you, and give you joy and freedom. Go ahead and play! It didn\’t take long before I realized that even if I became a Buddha, I was still a warrior monk! Venus once said: \”German women only work, Japanese women only take care of children, and Chinese women are superhumans.\” You have to work, start a business, wash clothes, cook, take care of children, clean and tidy up the home, take care of your parents-in-law, serve your husband, and harmonize social relations externally and harmonize family relations internally. \”I just want to say, I\’m not tired. After resuscitation, I can still get up and help the baby with homework! What a god, what a god, you said it\’s the mother\’s ability that the baby can\’t do well in homework and get good grades. No? Dad, come and try! Within a few minutes, the blood pressure was still high! When it came to homework, the little lovers in the past life of father and daughter also fell apart. The fate of the past life was like the wind and the sand, lingering and lingering. There are waves of sandstorms blowing! He is handsome for only three seconds, and he is talking about the father who helps with homework. This father of a first-grade girl who was accompanying him to do homework was reluctant to beat his daughter and could only beat the table to vent his anger. As a result, the palm of his hand was broken, the bone! Broken! !! And the furious father actually fought with his 11-year-old son and bit him on the face. The mother took her son to consult the doctor about whether to get rabies vaccine, which also hit the point of laughter in a second. \”I was so early.\” I want to beat you up! \”This northeastern father probably had to hold back when facing his daughter.Internally injured. Doing homework with your child is annoying, annoying, annoying, annoying… Anyway, I can be tormented by others over and over again, but I am afraid that my heart will not die. A father in Shanghai gave his son homework tutoring, but he couldn\’t teach it. He was so angry that he called his son \”Uncle\”: \”Write as much as you want, and write as much as you like!\” \”I\’m exhausted from talking about it every day. We are so exhausted, aren’t we tired?!” Across the screen, everyone felt the trembling coming from their son and the table! He looked happy at first, but after the yelling and collapse, my father still picked up the pen and continued to teach. What a pity for the parents in the world! In fact, the more parents yell, the worse the child\’s homework performance will be. Sometimes I yell for two hours and only write for five minutes. The more you yell, the less you know how to do it, and the less you know, the more you get scolded. Some children with poor psychological quality even suffer from depression when their parents yell at them for doing homework for a long time. Thinking about the black-faced and angry instructor sitting next to me when I was learning to drive, I immediately felt the pressure of my child. Father and son, love and kill each other. I wish we could love each other more and kill each other less; be kinder and scold less. If you can\’t do it, please say silently: My dear, my dear, since I had you, life has been full of miracles! Do you think that doing homework with your baby only affects the relationship between mother and child or father and son? There is a child at home who is in school, and his homework becomes a \”mistress\” every minute, which makes the family restless. The relationship between husband and wife is also subject to deep pressure, smashing, and heavy hammering over and over again. When I was a child, my mother helped me with my homework and started scolding me while she was talking. My father couldn\’t stand it and started to quarrel with my mother. The louder they got, the more violent they became. I was afraid that it would affect their performance, so I went to sleep by myself. When they looked back, they saw that the baby was gone. Why were they arguing? When you do homework with your child, do it while calming down your anger, and don’t be violent with him. To build a harmonious family together, husband and wife must be considerate of each other, care for each other, understand each other, and be united in dealing with their children, oh no, united in dealing with all evil things! Last week, my husband and I also had a fight because my daughter couldn\’t do her homework well. When the argument reached its climax, my daughter shouted: \”Don\’t roar like a lion in the east of the river!\” Oh my god, at such a young age, you know how to \” The word \”Hedong Lion\’s Roar\” has a good literary quality! The baby\’s father and I immediately put an end to the flames of war. We both smiled and approached our daughter, asking flatteringly, \”Where did you learn it? Who taught it?\” Any small progress made by our baby makes us ecstatic. Raising children is really about hope and disappointment all the time, and disappointment is always mixed with a little spark of hope. Maybe one day, a single spark can start a prairie fire, and when the mountain flowers are in full bloom, the hard-working father and mother will stand in the bush and laugh. Well, our children, the flowers of our motherland, no matter how grumbling they are, we still need to nurture them well! I also wish parents and mothers to keep up with their babies and never give up on themselves or their studies. After all, learning is the happiest thing in the world!