Ever since she had a child, Zhang Ziyi’s style of painting has become completely different.

A friend I haven\’t seen for a long time said that I have matured a lot. I smiled meaningfully. If you have a child, you will also grow up. Because every woman has two opportunities to grow, one is when she is born, and the other is when her child is born. In the recently popular variety show \”The Birth of an Actor\”, I saw Zhang Ziyi, whom I hadn\’t seen for a long time. She is still so proud, domineering, and beautiful, but she has a softer temperament, making her not as aggressive as before, but more approachable. The first time I saw her on the screen was in \”Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon\”. Yu Jiaolong, dressed in blue and white, took a sword with a cold light and chased and jumped with Chow Yun-fat through the bamboo tops in the lush forest. Like an elf, when he occasionally looks back, his delicate brows and eyes are filled with stubbornness. I fell in love with her right then. She was so energetic, and her aura of refusing to admit defeat and wanting to do something conquered me right away. It\’s no wonder that at the age of nineteen, she was selected by Zhang Yimou to play \”My Father and Mother\” and became famous in one fell swoop. The following year, he starred in \”Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon\” directed by Ang Lee and won the Academy Award for Best Foreign Language. Zhang Ziyi is instantly famous internationally, but many people in China still don\’t know about her. She held back a lot of energy in her heart and wanted to go further, but Zhang Ziyi, who was becoming more and more desperate, seemed to be getting further and further away from the audience. Her real change, and her gaining more love from people, started when she had children. After giving birth to the child, the sharp-edged woman suddenly disappeared and was replaced by a mother who loved her children. In her latest photo on Weibo, like all mothers in the world, she has a gentle smile and peaceful years. One of my favorite photos is the cover of an issue of \”ELLE\”. Zhang Ziyi, dressed in black and with flaming red lips, is holding Xingxing in her arms. She looks calm and peaceful. The once unruly girl proudly declared on Weibo \”Xingxing baby, having you is the thing I\’m most proud of.\” \”The arrival of little Xingxing makes me feel that my life has really begun.\” She began to reconcile with her past self, no longer so desperate, and It also makes me love her even more. This year, she turned thirty-seven and became a new self. I also have a child named Egger, who is one year and three months old this year. I take care of him at home full time. Like all children of this age, Egger is lively and energetic. Every morning when he wakes up, I have a headache and have to pack things after him. We have to admit that nothing can reduce the quality of our lives more quickly than having a child. As soon as he was born, I realized this deeply. On the fifth night after giving birth to him, I sat on the sofa and cried. While crying, I complained, why did he have to breastfeed every two hours? I hadn\’t slept a whole night, I was really tired, and I wouldn\’t be able to go anywhere in the future. My husband, who was at a loss as he watched me almost collapse, cautiously suggested: How about we put him back? What a bad idea is this? I cried even louder. But if I were asked again if I wanted children, I would still want them. It is precisely because of him that I have transformed from a willful and ignorant little girl into a complete and mature person. I learned to do housework, learned to get rid of my bad temper,Learn to understand your parents. Learn to take good care of him and take good care of yourself. I used to be most afraid of the dark and had to keep a night light on when I was sleeping. For the sake of my children’s sleep quality, I started to get used to sleeping with the lights off. In the deep darkness, I held him in my arms and sang a lullaby softly, feeling extremely peaceful. I also have the same feeling as Zhang Ziyi. After having a child, my life really begins. In other words, I have grown up again. I love him and am grateful to him, he is an irreplaceable part of my life. The arrival of a child has made up for the missing piece in our lives. In addition, it will be like a mirror, clearly reflecting our every move and urging us to keep moving forward. I\’m not the only one who feels this way. The little girl from my cousin\’s family is seven years old this year. She is a very cute and clever child. My cousin also has great expectations for her. In addition to keeping a close eye on studies, moral education in daily life is also not relaxed at all. However, the little girl has not been so obedient recently. When my cousin came to tell me, she described it this way: The older the child gets, the less upright he is. Not only does he talk back, but he also educates me. I quickly asked what happened? My cousin told me what happened when she went back to her mother’s house last week, and her aunt cooked them a table of delicious food. Halfway through the meal, my cousin pushed the little girl out of habit: Go and tell grandma that you worked hard and the food is delicious. Unexpectedly, the little girl refused to go and said plausibly: If you think it tastes good, tell me. How will grandma know if you don\’t tell me. My cousin didn\’t expect this to happen, and her face turned red. Seeing that she was speechless, the little girl became reluctant and said, \”Don\’t you teach me to be polite? Your mother made you a lot of delicious food. Why don\’t you know how to say thank you?\” The cousin had nothing to say anymore. , if we don’t do something, I’m afraid we won’t have the confidence to educate our children in the future. She stood up and said to her mother, who had gray hair but was often ignored by her: Thank you, Mom. The aunt smiled from ear to ear. I think she was not only happy, but also relieved. No matter how much love and gratitude you have, it will be in vain if you just hide it in your heart and not be known by the other party. If it weren\’t for the child\’s \”teaching\”, my cousin would probably never be embarrassed to say \”thank you\” to her aunt in this life. We just teach our children to be polite, but our children teach us communication and love. I sometimes wonder if Zhang Ziyi is willing to put away her edges and figure just because she has a child. She was so stubborn and never seemed to give in. When she became a mother, did she finally understand that there was a soft side to the world? Through the eyes of children, we see many things that we have never noticed before, and we also see more possibilities. There is a huge difference between how we see ourselves and how others see us. I can follow the children to see the changes of the four seasons, spring flowers, autumn moon, summer flowers and winter snow. Watch the leaves turn from green to yellow, swaying and falling in the cold wind, and bloom with new hope when spring comes. Look at the migratory birds firmly keeping their promise, each year comes and goes. Look at Xi Wei\’s morning light and see a bright sun emerging from it, making the land lively and powerful, and then let out a sigh of surprise and admiration with him. I can relearn the rules between people with my children, say thank you to those who help you, and express gratitude to those who hurt you.Say no to your people, respond with a bright and innocent smile to everyone who releases kindness, and love this world like the first day you came to this world.