Every child who doesn’t want to go to kindergarten is a born drama queen

Recently I saw a mother crying and coming up with a solution for her baby not to go to kindergarten, and I couldn\’t help but laugh out loud. In the minds of adults, we often think that children are young and ignorant. If you still have this understanding of your children, you are totally wrong. Today\’s children have a sea of ​​tricks, and often adults will be deceived by them if they are a little negligent. Especially when it comes to going to kindergarten, children will think of all kinds of ways. As long as they think about it carefully, they can easily deceive adults. One of my most impressive experiences was being deceived by my niece Miaomiao. That was when I was in college, and I went home for the summer vacation one year. At that time, Miaomiao\’s kindergarten had not yet closed. She was very excited and made a promise with me that I would send her to kindergarten in the future. I readily agreed and told her that we would go to that restaurant that I had missed for a long time to have breakfast the next day. The next day Miaomiao got up on time, washed herself, and I took her out. Halfway through breakfast, Miaomiao suddenly held her stomach, frowned, and said, \”Little aunt, my stomach hurts so much!\” I felt tight, quickly put down my chopsticks, and asked her, with my little experience, if it was okay. Need to poop? She shook her head and said that she had gone to the toilet in the morning and had no bowel movement. She just had a stomachache. I said I would rub her belly, but as soon as I touched her with my hand, she screamed that it hurt. This frightened me, and I said, \”Can you still go to kindergarten like this?\” She held her stomach tightly, frowning and said, \”I want to go to kindergarten, but my stomach really hurts. !\” Then he leaned his head on my shoulder and kept humming. Seeing her uncomfortable look, I said, \”You\’re already like this, I\’d better take you home!\” She frowned and said, \”What about the kindergarten?\” I said, \”It\’s okay, I\’ll give it to your teacher later. Asking for leave.\” She glanced at me, frowned, took a breath, and said, \”Then will grandma scold me?\” I said, \”You have a stomachache and are not feeling well. We need to rest. Grandma will scold you.\” Well? Come on, let\’s go home. We won\’t go to kindergarten today.\” After that, I carried her home. As soon as I got home, my parents looked at me in surprise. I told them everything in detail. As soon as I finished telling my story, my mother said, \”You were deceived by her. She has a stomachache because she doesn\’t want to go to kindergarten! If you don\’t believe me, just look at it. She doesn\’t feel any pain at all.\” I was about to angrily argue with my mother. After a while, I looked back at my niece and was stunned. The little one was already full of energy, holding her toys and sitting on the ground and playing happily. I squatted down and asked her: \”Don\’t you have a stomachache?\” She looked at Looking at me, he said with an innocent face: \”It hurt before, but it doesn\’t hurt anymore!\” I felt like there were hundreds of thousands of grass and mud horses galloping around in my heart. I was actually deceived by a child over 3 years old! Maybe this experience left me with a psychological shadow. After Zai Zai went to kindergarten, every time he woke up in the morning and said he had a stomachache or a headache, I would make a point of identifying whether he was really in pain or fake. But Zai Zai is obviously a simple boy. He has never made up lies about not wanting to go to kindergarten. Every time he doesn\’t want to go, he tells me very directly that he doesn\’t want to go to kindergarten. Usually I coax and persuade, and then attract him with various activities in the kindergarten.Next, he went. As long as children don\’t want to go to kindergarten, they can make up all kinds of reasons, and combined with their vivid acting skills, they can deceive adults. The easiest reason they can find is illness. Some children will avoid going to kindergarten for various reasons such as headaches, stomachaches, leg pains, etc. One day, when I came home from outside, I met my neighbor’s grandma playing downstairs with her grandson. The kid was eating enthusiastically with a bun in his hand. I asked grandma why the kid didn’t go to kindergarten today. Grandma looked at her grandson and shook her head. He shook his head and said to me with a depressed look: \”This guy, during lunch, he ate in small bites and vomited the food on the table. The teacher asked him what was wrong, and he said his throat hurt and he couldn\’t swallow. He also said I had a fever and I had to go home quickly. The teacher was worried when he saw that he hadn’t eaten anything, so he asked me to pick him up and take him home. As soon as I took him out of the kindergarten, he said he was hungry and wanted to eat steamed buns. I asked Does his throat hurt? He said it doesn\’t hurt anymore and he insists on eating steamed buns!\” In order to go home smoothly from kindergarten, a child held his waist and said to the teacher: \”Teacher, my waist has been uncomfortable recently. It hurts so much. Can you I can\’t call my mother and ask her to take me to the hospital for a checkup to see what\’s wrong with me. What if my waist breaks after a long delay?\” In addition to using the excuse that he is not feeling well, children I will also use my family’s situation as an excuse not to go to kindergarten. A child didn\’t want to go to kindergarten. He first told his mother that he had a stomachache. After his mother caught the trick, he then said that the food in the kindergarten was not delicious. After being rejected, he told his mother that the water in the kindergarten was too smelly and not good to drink. Mom thought about it and told her that she would put a large glass of water in her favorite cup and bring it over. The child sighed helplessly and said to his mother: \”Hey, actually I can\’t go to kindergarten. Grandma said yesterday that she misses me. I want to go see her. What if grandma misses me and gets sick?!\” There is another child. Because my grandfather was sick and hospitalized, I got up one morning and solemnly told my mother that I couldn\’t go to kindergarten today and had to go to the hospital to accompany my grandfather. He said: \”Grandpa said that I am a pistachio. If I go to the hospital to accompany my grandpa, my grandpa\’s illness will get better!\” This reason really made my father very emotional! In addition to citing the physical discomfort of themselves and their families as an excuse, children will also use the weather as an excuse to avoid going to kindergarten. A child didn\’t want to go to kindergarten. After getting up, he told his mother that it was too cold and he couldn\’t go to kindergarten. It was summer, and her mother put her into long sleeves and long pants, but she kept saying it was cold and she couldn\’t go to kindergarten. In anger, her mother gave her a down jacket and told her that children should wear more clothes. The mother thought that the little guy didn\’t know how to wear it, but who knew that the child put on a down jacket and went out, completely ignoring the strange looks around him. A friend sent her child to kindergarten in winter, because it was late in the day and it was only dimly lit outside after 7 o\’clock. One day when she took her child out, the child pointed to the sky and said, \”Mom, look, it\’s still dark, and the teachers are still there.\” She\’s not awake! It\’s too dangerous for us to go to kindergarten now! It\’s safer to stay at home.\” When a mother sent her daughter out on a snowy day, the daughter asked: \”Mom, snowIt\’s so big and the wind is so strong, would Bald Qiang still cut down the tree? \”My mother said: \”How can we cut down trees when there is strong wind and rain? Bald Qiang has to rest even in snowy weather. My daughter said, \”The bald guy is already resting, so why should I go to kindergarten?\” \”Look at the methods and tricks these children come up with, do you feel inferior to them? In order not to go to kindergarten, they will use their brains to come up with all kinds of excuses that adults can\’t think of, and then cooperate with their superb acting skills to avoid being deceived by them. It’s really difficult! But as children grow up day by day, you will find that only when children are in small classes in kindergarten, they are most likely to find various reasons not to go to kindergarten. This is because children around 3 years old have just made the transition from family to family. In society, they have not yet adapted to collective life, so at this time they are more dependent on life at home and prefer to enjoy the warmth of home. As they grow up day by day, generally after entering kindergarten and middle class, children\’s collective consciousness will strengthen. Their minds begin to turn outward and they have a strong need to make friends. At this time, children will no longer think of reasons to refuse to go to kindergarten. Instead, they will like kindergarten very much. They will go out happily without having to do ideological work every day. .For children who enter kindergarten and after elementary school, making friends has become their most important activity. They especially like to mingle with their friends, but do not like to cling to their parents. Therefore, cherish those children who will cling to you for various reasons. On the days when they are not in kindergarten, even if they behave like drama queens, please cooperate with your children’s acting skills and cherish these days. Your children will grow up in the blink of an eye, and such days will never happen again!​