If parents accompany their children well, it may change your child\’s life.

\”Yixiang, mom has already sent your birthday gift. I will definitely receive it before your birthday. I bought your favorite Ultraman, Transformers, and dinosaurs…are you happy?\” The other end of the phone Came my mother\’s voice. \”Thank you, Mom, can you come back to celebrate my birthday with me?\” Yixiang happily waited for his mother\’s answer. \”I\’m sorry, honey, mom is very busy with work recently. She will definitely come back to stay with you after she\’s done, okay?\” \”Okay, then I\’ll go do my homework first. Goodbye, mom.\” After hanging up the phone, Yixiang looked like an eggplant beaten by frost. Generally, he walked back to his room dejectedly. I saw this scene at my best friend Xiao A’s house. Yixiang is Xiao A\’s nephew. He usually stays with his grandparents while his parents work in other places. While chatting with Little A, I learned that Yixiang no longer likes Ultraman and Transformers, which were his favorite toys when he was 5 years old. At 7 years old, he likes cars and Lego. Due to the lack of companionship, I didn\’t realize that my son\’s preferences had already changed. After not seeing each other for two years, no one knows how estranged the relationship between mother and son has become? This unpleasant phone call undoubtedly widened the gap between mother and son. Looking at Yixiang\’s appearance, there is an inexplicable sadness, and you can feel the loss and sadness in his heart. When I was young, my family\’s conditions were not good, and my parents went out to work. My brother and I grew up with our grandparents. My biggest wish at that time was to be able to reunite as a family during the Spring Festival. However, in order to save fares, my parents rarely went home to spend the Spring Festival together. The lack of parental companionship during childhood will not only cause alienation in the parent-child relationship, but will also affect the shaping of the child\’s personality. I remember when I first started school, the music teacher had just finished teaching and asked if any of us were willing to try it. I raised my hand without hesitation. I can’t remember whether I sang well or not, but I am still proud of my bravery and confidence back then. Later, my parents went out to work, which seemed to take away my confidence and courage. I can\’t say I have low self-esteem, but I get nervous when speaking in public, my face turns red, and my words are incoherent. They will always inadvertently use small actions to relieve their \”embarrassment\”, fearing to become the focus and center. Maybe his younger brother was too young at that time and had a greater impact on him. From primary school to junior high school, he was a good student with excellent academic performance. He was the proudest academic among teachers and was often referred to as \”other people\’s children\” by parents. Perhaps because he became more sensitive as he grew older, he began to be unwilling to communicate with his family and became tired of studying… No one knows what he went through in high school. When a person works out of town, he is the focus of his family\’s worries and never takes the initiative to contact his family members. When we contact him, he will only reply: Yes, I understand, I will consider it, you don’t have to worry about me. Introversion is not a reluctance to express, but a need to talk to someone who cannot find a suitable partner; loneliness is not something you are born with, but a lack of release and vent over time, and it is a habit. At that age when parents need their company the most, if you miss it, you will miss it. Companionship when you grow up cannot make up for the inner lack of childhood. Some time ago, I was talking to a good friend about my younger brother, and said that I hope my younger brother can go home and do something, so that his parents can be with him, and he can slowly untie his heart knot, and he doesn\’t have to worry about it every day.Heart. \”This is just your idea. He has grown up now. What he lacked before is now past the time of need. This is how I feel about my parents,\” my friend said back to me. When I saw her reply, I was a little overwhelmed, but after a while, I suddenly realized it. \”Brother Tian often says to me, now that I have a stable job, a car and a house, my parents are in good health, and I have nothing to worry about, why do I always look like I lack love? I feel like I don\’t know my blessings even though I am blessed. But, I think he is My back hurts when I stand and talk, he has no idea what I’m going through in my heart.” Perhaps it touched my friend\’s heart, he replied in a long paragraph, and continued: \”I used to talk to my dad about some things at work, but he never looked at the problem from my point of view. Every time he told me The argument ended with everyone being unhappy, and gradually I became unwilling to say this to him.\” \”You still spend relatively little time together now, and your understanding of each other is still lacking. It should be much better if you communicate more,\” I said back to her. My friend replied to me: \”It should be said that although we are blood relatives, we spend too little time together. Our personalities have not been harmonized yet. When we get together, conflicts will break out.\” Blood relatives are the closest, most intimate, and most unbreakable relationships in the world. Although it is said that \”the bones are broken but the tendons are still connected\”. But blood relatives who have no companionship or lack of companionship are no longer the closest and most intimate, and there may be greater misunderstandings and conflicts. Your child grows up much faster than you think, and before you know it, he no longer needs your arms. I remember that in the program \”Longing for Life\”, Huang Lei shared with everyone about his daughter Duoduo. Duoduo fell asleep in their room and was about to ask Duoduo to go back to his room to sleep. Seeing that she was sleeping so soundly, I couldn\’t bear to wake her up and was ready to take her back to the room. Huang Lei said it was very difficult to hold 12-year-old Duoduo, especially when she put her on her own bed. Looking at his sleeping daughter, Huang Lei sighed: The matter of holding her is over. Duoduo grew up from a little baby to twelve years old in the blink of an eye. Huang Lei told Zhang Jie, who had just become a baby daddy, that you should cherish this time when you can still hold them. Children grow up day by day, and then slowly leave their parents\’ sight. Maybe this time seems to be a long time, but in fact it passes very quickly, like a fleeting moment. Every child is an angel, and as parents, we all hope to give our children the best material conditions. Superior material conditions can certainly give children better living conditions, but companionship may be what children need most urgently. I think there is no parent who is unwilling to accompany their children to grow up. Due to the family\’s financial resources, I have to go out to work and give up time with my children. With this kind of last resort choice, the children may understand their parents\’ difficulties, but the inner loss and sadness still exist. Even if you cannot accompany your child all the time, please do your best to accompany your child at every important life node. If family conditions permit and you can choose, parents must accompany their children. You only have one chance to grow. If you miss it, you have missed it. Time will not give you a chance to come back again. Missed the companionship of their growth, maybeYou will miss out on your lifelong close parent-child relationship. Companionship is the longest confession of love and the best gift that parents can give their children. Companionship will really affect a child\’s life.