Du Jiang\’s \”The Way of Father and Son\”: Whether a man is good or not depends on how he treats his wife and children

The Uhm family is always hotly discussed. Last month, when the family celebrated Huo Siyan\’s birthday, the Uhm behind the family photo was blurry. \”It\’s obviously a movie about three people, but Uh-huh can\’t have names.\” In fact, being shown affection by his parents is a daily routine for Uh-huh. ▼Although for Du Jiang and Huo Siyan, Uh-huh is just an accident, the relationship between Du Jiang and Uh-huh and his son is so good that it makes people jealous. Du Jiang is not only a maniac who dotes on his wife and spoils his children in front of his children, but his father-son relationship with Humph can also be said to be textbook level. There is a principle: in a family with a son, the relationship between the son and the mother is particularly close; in a family with a daughter, the daughter and the father will be particularly close. However, mothers and daughters, and fathers and sons, often have more concentrated conflicts. Especially in families with sons, mothers often find that no matter how hard they try, the relationship between father and son is often on the same level. Uhm and Du Jiang are different. Let’s take a look at how Du Jiang, Uhm and his son get along! \”Big-Eyed Cute Dad\” Du Jiang Nowadays, everyone knows the name Du Jiang, but before the birth of King Uhm, Du Jiang only participated in a few works and was far less well-known than his wife Huo Siyan. When the two announced their relationship, the entertainment industry was in an uproar, and friends of both parties felt that it was unreliable. However, regarding the fact that his wife is more popular than him, Du Jiang once said frankly: ▼Actually, I don’t care at all. I have two names in my life, one is Du Jiang and the other is Huo Siyan’s husband. Because I have such an excellent wife, I feel very proud to call my name Huo Siyan’s husband. After the birth of the love child of the two – Uhm (Du Yuqi) in September 2013, Du Jiang was given another title, that is, \”Dad of King Uhm\”. As early as 2015, Uhm and his father joined the reality show \”Dad Is Back 2\”. After the show was broadcast, the one-and-a-half-year-old Uhm became so cute that many netizens praised him as a \”cute god\” and \”half-blood prince\” ” and “ Uh-huh king.” The handsome and patient Du Jiang also became popular along with his son, earning the title of \”Big-Eyed Cute Dad\”. Like many new fathers, Du Jiang was completely confused at first about Uhm who was less than two years old: ▼When he first started on the show, Du Jiang was at a loss when faced with Uhm’s crying, and had to rely on his mother Huo Siyan to comfort his son. Uhm was too lively, and when he was running around, Du Jiang could only follow Uhm, wiping his sweat while \”fishing\” his son back to him. As time goes by, Uhm gradually grows up, can say \”thank you\”, and gets along with his brothers and sisters. Du Jiang also slowly finds out how to get along with Uhm: ▼△ When feeding, Du Jiang will say \”Thank you\”. Holding the spoon, he said: The plane is about to land at the airport. Hmm, open your mouth and eat obediently. △ One time while driving home, Humph burst into tears in the car because he was too young to ride in a child safety seat. Du Jiang, who was driving, was anxious and a little at a loss, so he had to park the car on the side of the road, and walked home step by step with Humph in his arms in the slightly cool weather. In the subsequent \”Where Are We Going, Dad 5\”, Du Jiang and his son Uh-huh still maintained a \”friend\”-like way of getting along. On the one hand, he protected the child\’s nature and made the Uh-huh phrases frequent and hilarious. On the other hand, also inviteThere are many questions about his doting on his children. Du Jiang said frankly in an interview: ▼Some \”too sensible\” children are careful to look at the faces of adults and lose their due arrogance and willfulness. I don\’t want this for my kids. With such a caring and good-tempered father, how could Erhem, who is smart, cute, and has high emotional intelligence, not be popular? Patiently guiding his son to grow up Du Jiang has always been very patient with his son, but \”being friends\” with his children does not mean that everything is decided by his children. Although in the beginning, when educating King Uh-huh, Du Jiang seemed to be unable to be ruthless and often ended up compromising and being soft-hearted. However, when Uh-huh was still young, Du Jiang once said on the show: \”The requirements for my son will become more and more strict.\” Du Jiang also means what he says: ▼01 Changing the name of his son Everyone has a different opinion of the word \”Uh-huh\” The nickname should be very familiar, but Du Jiang believes that it was cute when he was a child, but it is inappropriate to call him that when he grows up. Therefore, Du Jiang is often called \”Du Yuqi\” or \”Qiqi\” to let his children understand that he is no longer a baby. 02 Teach children how to share. Children grow up and live a collective life, and sharing is the first step for children to adapt to collective life. In order to let the children truly learn to share, the teacher brought a plate of egg tarts to the kindergarten. Du Jiang asked Uhm to share it with everyone. At the end of the sharing, there was only one egg tart left, but Uhm, Dad, and not a single teacher ate it. Uh-huh gave it to Du Jiang. Du Jiang said that the teacher didn\’t have it yet. Uh-huh thought about it and decided to share a little bit with each of the three of them. 03 Teach your children to be sensible and well-behaved. In order to teach his son to be sensible and well-behaved, Du Jiang kept a straight face several times during the show and taught Uhm to concentrate on his work: ▼△ When the guests decorated each other’s rooms, Du Jiang arranged for Uhm to make a bath for Jasper. Lightyear, after humming for a while, couldn\’t sit still and wanted to get up and leave, causing Du Jiang to sternly demand: \”Sit there and do Buzz Lightyear\’s work for me!\” He humming immediately sat down obediently and completed the task assigned by his father. Task. △ When Du Jiang was writing a message to Chen Xiaochun’s house, Uhm could not stand again. He wanted to move the stool and lean on the pillar. After Du Jiang tried several times to get Uhm to stand still, but to no avail, he finally sternly Asked: \”Is it sad to stand still and not say anything?\” Facing such a serious father, Humph finally realized his problem and stood still obediently. Du Jiang\’s education for Uh-hum was not limited to harsh preaching: ▼△ Before going to bed at night, Du Jiang patiently and gently communicated with Uh-huh, telling his son that the most difficult thing in the world is to concentrate on doing things, and educated Uh-huh with sincerity. : \”You must be serious about what you do, be attentive, and do what you do well!\” In fact, Du Jiang will seize every opportunity to educate his children appropriately: ▼△ While eating, Du Jiang will take the opportunity to educate his children. Cherish food; △ When Uhm and Little Puff got into trouble because of a toy, Du Jiang rationally pointed out that it was originally Puff and taught Uhm to be generous; △ Uhm cried in the tunnel because he was afraid of the dark. The next day Du Jiang Jiang personally took him back to the tunnel; △ Because he liked Little Puff so much, he secretly kissed her. Du Jiang immediately stopped him and taught him a serious lesson: \”Your relatives have to ask for their consent, and you are not allowed to kiss someone suddenly like this next time\”… 04 Teach your children to be a real man. Du Jiang has been teaching \”be a real man\”, and the frequency of repetition is very high, which can be seen in daily life This is indeed how we are taught in life. \”Girls should be given priority\” and \”boys should protect girls\”. These words that are often mentioned in our mouths are indeed practiced. Uh-huh also said, \”You cannot let your mother live in a poor house\” and \”You must \”Buy diamonds and beautiful clothes for my mother.\” \”Mom is a little princess.\” Huo Siyan is so happy to be loved by Du Jiang and Uh-huh. Making friends with children It is not difficult to see from Du Jiang\’s education to his son that Du Jiang Not only do you know how to accompany your child as a friend, but you also pay attention to your child\’s shortcomings, try to improve him, help him grow, communicate with him from the heart, and patiently guide and educate him, and you have developed a good personality. The king has a free and easy personality. I believe parents have also learned how to get along with their children, right? 01 Be a friend who takes good care of your children. British educator Spencer said: \”What are children thinking? What problems are faced? A child\’s inner world is like a box full of secrets. In this box, there are animals, people, dreams, and emotions, all stuffed inside in a chaotic manner. If you don\’t open it often and take a look, one day when you open it inadvertently, a mouse may come out and scare you. \”Children always have many weird ideas in their hearts. Every child is a treasure that needs to be developed urgently. Parents should not only care about their children\’s food, clothing, housing, transportation, learning and growth, but also understand their inner thoughts, acknowledge and respect their children\’s thoughts. In life and ideals, I give my love and eternal support to my children from the bottom of my heart. 02 Du Jiang, a friend who teaches by words and deeds, often teaches his children through practical demonstrations and step-by-step guidance. Grow up unconsciously. Under this kind of education, Humph also dares to face his own problems, admits what he has not done well, and quickly corrects it. As parents, we must educate our children well , and more importantly, we need to set an example to guide our children. 03 Both teacher and friend, Zhang Chi Youdao When getting along with his son, Du Jiang, a young father born in 1985, definitely knows Zhang Chi Youdao best: Be intimate with your children when you are close, and be serious when you should be serious. This relationship of being both a teacher and a friend is a reflection of the progress of the times: being a friend reflects equality; being a teacher includes learning together. Not only is it beneficial to the children\’s various Growth in all aspects can also encourage parents to continue to learn how to be role models for their children. While envying Du Jiang and his son to get along so harmoniously, we might as well try more new and suitable educational methods and slowly explore them according to the age and personality of the children. , constantly adjust your role, so that children can face life with a better attitude!