Gao Yuanyuan: What is the best education is for children to be like their mothers?

In the latest issue of \”I, 39\”, Gao Yuanyuan talked about her mother and said \”I look like my mother, it\’s great\” quickly became a hot topic and made many people cry. In the eyes of many people, Gao Yuanyuan is a cold goddess, weak and shy, with a slight sense of distance when she smiles. Yuanyuan\’s mother is a shy and timid person who rarely goes out and is afraid of social interactions. Therefore, Yuanyuan also became a \”socially afraid girl\” for a time and was never able to open her heart. Therefore, for a long time, she did not want to become a woman like her mother. She said: \”I thought I would never be a woman like my mother.\” It wasn\’t until her mother fell ill and was hospitalized that she reviewed what her mother had gone through, and finally understood how this thin woman carried the burden of the family on her shoulders. After my mother left, nothing in the family changed, but it seemed that everything had changed again. What hasn’t changed is the family’s warm relationship with each other, but what has changed is that the house is always messy and can’t be cleaned up no matter what, and my father always has trouble getting the right clothes when he changes clothes. Then, Gao Yuanyuan understood that her mother was not the one being taken care of. She used her own unique way to do her best to take care of her family. Gao Yuanyuan, who understood her mother, looked in the mirror one day and said: \”I have two nasolabial folds, which originally bothered me, but every time I look in the mirror and see them, I feel warm in my heart. This makes me She looks a lot like my mother, which is great.\” Looking at this interview with Gao Yuanyuan, many friends lamented that if you are not a parent, you will never understand the difficulties of parents. As Oscar Wilde said: \”Children first love their parents, then when they grow up they judge their parents, and sometimes they forgive their parents.\” But I think there is another saying, unconsciously, we are very much like our parents. As adults, we rarely talk about our parents, but in the most difficult times, our parents will become the most powerful force. A few months ago, Mao Xiaotong, who was praised by netizens for his decisive breakup, is an example. After experiencing a scumbag and a father who begged for huge sums of money, she always knew love and hate and made decisive decisions. Many people loved her hearty smile and free and easy personality even more. However, few people know that all this comes from mother. Mao Xiaotong\’s mother is a very straightforward and non-sloppy person. When she was a child, her father threw her next to the trash can. Her mother picked her up and divorced her decisively. He raised her as both a father and a mother while working part-time. Mao Xiaotong also said in an interview program that she was grateful to her mother for giving her a colorful life. On Weibo, Mao Xiaotong described her mother as \”With you, there will be a whole world.\” Many mothers don’t know how much influence they have on their children. Once, my best friend sent me a WeChat message in the middle of the night, saying that she almost collapsed after seeing her daughter’s composition. She said that since she was a child, she always felt that she was an unqualified mother, unable to take care of her daughter and often in a hurry. But in the daughter\’s essay, the mother is a particularly powerful person. She reads before going to bed, works in the middle of the night, and quarrels with the neighbor\’s unreasonable uncle when she is being bullied. The sentence at the end of the article, when I grow up, I want to be as independent as my mother, made my best friend burst into tears. It turns out that all my hard work has been seen by my children. We always think that children are young and ignorant, but in fact, they are the most enlightened people in the world., they will copy everything you say and do, and then make it a part of themselves. A weak mother cannot raise strong children. Behind every child with a strong heart, there must be an indestructible mother, without exception. Zhang Junning, who is regarded as a goddess by Eddie Peng, has a little-known family story. In fact, Zhang Junning lives in a single-parent family. Her parents divorced when she was in the third grade. Later, her father reorganized the family and she lived with her mother and sister. Zhang Junning\’s mother is a children\’s writer and translator. She studied at the German Translation Institute, served as editor of many literary publications, and published many books. Her mother carefully cultivated Zhang Junning and taught her from an early age: \”Girls have to rely on themselves so that they won\’t lose everything when they are frustrated.\” The 36-year-old Zhang Junning, logically speaking, has reached the age where she should be urged to get married. But her mother taught her to look at the world with a normal mind. Her experience as a mother made her understand that the most important thing for a woman is to live happily and comfortably. Therefore, the only blessing she gave her daughter was happiness. Zhang Junning, who is independent and sensible, is also very up to date. He regards learning and advancement as his normal state and never slacks off. Not only is he a highly educated academic, but he also works hard at acting. Although he was not born in a major, he carefully figured out the role and polished the work, winning unanimous praise. Every time I see Zhang Junning and her mother in the same frame, people have to sigh that a good mother is the greatest wealth in a daughter\’s life. Not only is he a highly educated academic, but he also works hard at acting. Although he was not born in a major, he carefully figured out the role and polished the work, winning unanimous praise. She even won the Best Supporting Actress award at this year\’s 24th Huading Awards. The program \”Travel with Bell\” even restored a real Zhang Junning. In the wilderness survival, she was so brave and unpretentious. Even after landing from a height of ten meters and having his teeth bleed due to bumps, he still smiled. It is precisely because of her mother\’s influence that Zhang Junning is able to make her way through her own efforts today. In recent years, many people have talked about the difficulties of working mothers. You can only imagine how a single working mother lives. But because their children are watching, many mothers don’t want to give up easily. Zheng Yuanjie, the king of fairy tales, said: \”An independent mother always establishes the most correct attitude towards life for her children, including integrity, bravery, strength and kindness. These are the most precious treasures in a child\’s life.\” Being a parent is stressful. Many people say that children make our lives more difficult. To be honest, I don’t think so. Because every step a child takes is a road carefully paved by his parents. But parents may not know that their words and deeds have long been seen and remembered by their children. There is a scene in \”Reply 1988\” that impressed me deeply. Paula was arrested by the police while participating in a demonstration. At first, she refused to admit it, but after her mother Li Yihua appeared and pleaded for her, Paula suddenly and readily admitted it. mistake. Because she inadvertently saw her mother standing in the wind and rain regardless of self-esteem, her toes bleeding. Paula\’s strong heart softened, and she realized that people truly become strong, not by protecting their self-esteem, but when she is willing to put aside her self-esteem for the people she loves. A good mother and daughter can make each other successful. Because of the appearance of the child, the mother becomesExtremely powerful. Children also become brave because of their mother\’s words and deeds. Mothers are always very powerful in the eyes of their children. There is a group on Douban called \”Mom, you are the most awesome mom in the world\”. When talking about their mother, everyone talks endlessly. Someone said that he was bullied, and his mother beat that person up. Although he is humble on the outside, he is still tough on the inside. Others say that when they were little, they poked a hornet\’s nest and got stung by a bee, but their mother heroically saved them. Now that their mother stung her, they would take care of her. What impressed me the most was when someone talked about an ordinary little thing in life, that is, every day, my mother rides a bicycle to take me to school. The road from school to home is full of small hills and big hills, and it is very difficult for my mother to ride every time. As a result, one time, he accidentally put his foot in the tire. As a result, my mother stood up decisively and stepped on him hard. His loud yell frightened my mother and she quickly turned around. Later, he recovered from his foot injury for a month, but his mother\’s self-blame continues to this day. Many mothers are worried that they are not perfect, that they have not been able to achieve great things, and that they will still be a loser after struggling all their lives, which makes many mothers feel even more stressed. But in fact, children\’s eyes are very pure, and they can feel the love from their mother, even if the form is not perfect. The way a child loves his mother is to become more and more like her. Over the years, I have seen many weak women become extremely powerful because of the appearance of children, and they also began to improve themselves because of the appearance of children. A relative has a distant cousin who used to be submissive. She was so angry at her husband\’s family that she didn\’t even dare to say a word. But since having a child, my temper has become extremely tough. What I could endure in the past is now unbearable. With her persistence, the child\’s father got rid of many bad habits, and her husband\’s family no longer dared to violate her boundaries. The whole family said that after giving birth, her whole person changed. She said something that impressed me deeply: \”I am very afraid that my daughter will become like me.\” I think it is this sentence that supports many mothers in trouble. They deeply understand that children are copies of their parents. If you want your children to live happily, parents must not have any flaws. The popularity of \”City of Fantasy\” has made Faye Wong frequently on the hot search, but now more people say that they prefer Dou Jingtong to Faye Wong, that girl who can make friends with anyone and live a free and easy life. He writes songs for his half-sister, lives in harmony with his mother\’s ex-husbands, is unique in music, but is extremely polite to the people around him. I guess many people are as curious as me about how the quiet Faye Wong can teach her daughter so well. After this year’s Spring Festival Gala, the phrase “This is my mother, so awesome” on Weibo explained everything. Faye Wong\’s free and easy attitude made Dou Jingtong open-minded. Faye Wong\’s fearlessness made Dou Jingtong ignore criticism. Even the talent and enthusiasm she displays in music are exactly the same as Faye Wong. Who you are is who your children will be. Wang Xiao, an independent woman and founder of Zaozao brand, once took her daughter to participate in \”Incredible Mom\”. In one game, a \”pirate\” dressed as a pirate asked her daughter to tell her dreams, and her daughter said loudly that she wanted to be like her mother. Wang Xiao was moved. Wang Xiao said: She didn’t want her children to see their mother’s sacrifice. On the contrary, she wanted them to see their mother’s sacrifice.Zi knows that seeing her mother grow is because of herself, which is a great demonstration. Because of the mother\’s strength, the child can face all kinds of difficulties and obstacles in life; because of the mother\’s kindness, the child will be kind to everyone around him; because of the mother\’s independence, the child will also strive for his own future. Ultimately, the best education is for children to be like their mothers.