What do children want most? They are the worst parents!

\”Child, I want to give you the best life!\” This should be the voice of all parents, and it is also an inexhaustible motivation for everyone to work hard in the workplace. However, I have always wondered, what kind of life is best for children? Is it the latest toy? Is it clothes that easily cost thousands? Is it an expensive hobby class? Or a house in a school district that costs a lot of money? A key school that has to be squeezed to get into? Do children really value these happy lives in the eyes of our parents? No need to go into a lengthy discussion, this warm story gave me the best answer. \”I want to thank my parents for being the worst parents in the world!\” This was the first \”thank you\” a groom said to his parents at his wedding in front of all the wedding guests. As soon as he finished speaking, there was a sigh of relief in the audience. Relatives and friends all looked at each other, wondering what happened. When everyone was still confused, the groom asked a few more questions that surprised everyone. Why do all his friends take piano lessons, but he doesn’t? Growing up, the only music class he ever had was singing karaoke at home with his parents, which was completely free and didn’t cost a penny. Why are all my friends attending the best and most expensive cram school, but he is not? His tutor is his next door neighbor Aunt Tan. Why can David’s parents take him to a theme park in Florida, play the coolest rides, and eat food he’s never seen before, but he doesn’t? He sat quietly, trying to remember. Finally, he discovered that the only place his parents had taken him to was Bangkok. In Bangkok, he had expected to eat delicious meals and play cool rides like David, but… his parents only took him to the amusement park next to the mall to play the old-fashioned \”whack-a-mole\” game. \”game. Why didn\’t his birthday party have a luxurious private room or a magic show, just his parents\’ tricks? At the end, the groom even got a little excited. He walked off the stage, walked up to his father, and asked loudly: \”Why is all this happening?\” \”Why can\’t you be like other parents?!\” I heard my son almost roaring. ’s question, the father in the audience was a little at a loss at first; then his eyes showed a little anger; finally, facing his son’s indignation, he finally couldn’t help it. He suddenly stood up and took two steps towards his son. At this time, the atmosphere at the wedding scene reached its peak of tension, and it seemed that the \”war\” between father and son was about to break out. However, what surprised everyone was that the father, who looked angry, did not fight against this \”unfilial son\” no matter how angry he was. He just grabbed his son\’s shoulders and kept rubbing his son\’s head with his hands. I think that at this moment, his heart is complicated and contradictory. Although his son\’s questioning made him angry, he was probably more annoyed and guilty. Maybe, he was already secretly blaming himself in his heart for not giving his son the \”better life\” he wanted. Therefore, he vented his anger, guilt and love for his son through this seemingly forceful but gentle movement. But, at this time, a dramatic scene occurred. The son who just moments ago was bitter and resentful of his parents suddenly suddenlyRan smiled! He took the microphone and said loudly: \”Look, this is my dad!\” He may not be as rich as other people\’s dads, but he has always been by my side. Like father, like son! Since childhood, everyone has said that I am his replica. No matter how busy I am at work, he will play my favorite games with me; no matter what I want to do, he will be by my side and cheer me up; he will accompany me. Join me in getting weird; help me win my favorite stuffed animals; allow me to raise those incredibly cute little animals. He also witnessed every step of my growth, from elementary school, middle school to university. However, no matter what time, I will always be a child who will not grow up in his eyes. He is not good at words, but he always likes to rub my head, using this familiar action to express his love for me. He is not rich, but that does not affect me at all. He gave me a wonderful and warm childhood! I didn’t go to piano lessons, so what? My parents are willing to accompany me and have fun with karaoke at home. You know, they are karaoke champions. I didn’t take interest classes at the most expensive training institution, but because of Aunt Tan’s guidance, I had a lot of beautiful visions for college. Many years later, I was overjoyed to be admitted to Aunt Tan’s alma mater. There, I also met people with whom I could walk a lifetime together. Although, every year, I celebrate my birthday at home, without luxurious venues, cool lights and music. However, there are gifts that I like and my favorite cake. The most important thing is that my parents are never absent every birthday. This is what I wanted most for my birthday as a child. In fact, not only on birthdays, but every day when I was growing up, my parents were always there. Growing up, my parents cared about me and paid for me. Everything I want, they will try their best. Maybe, the material resources they gave me were limited, but the love and companionship they gave me were unlimited. I wouldn\’t be who I am without them. I feel that I am very happy now, and I also want my children to be so happy. Therefore, I also want to be the \”worst parent\” in the world. Such parents may not be able to buy the latest toys for their children; they may not be able to take their children on luxurious overseas trips; they may not be able to hold grand birthday parties for their children; they may even not be able to afford piano lessons and tutoring classes; but so what? ! Such parents are willing to put down their work, put down their mobile phones, and concentrate on playing and going crazy with their children; they are willing to put down their status as parents and lean down to listen to their children\’s ideas; they can unconditionally support their children\’s whims, even those that may seem inconvenient to others. It\’s an unrealistic fantasy. These \”worst parents\” may not be able to give their children those expensive \”add-ons\” for their growth due to financial reasons. However, they always use their love to accompany their children wholeheartedly. This is what children need most.