In 2019, please tell your children: happiness is achieved through struggle

In the past two days, this sentence has been all over the circle of friends: Happiness is achieved through hard work! This sentence should also be told to our children. Many children nowadays have basically no burden in life. They have lived in an environment without material pressure since childhood, emphasizing happiness and not knowing much about struggle and hard work. Please tell them: Your current happy life is the result of your parents’ struggle, and your future happy life must be achieved by your own efforts! Learning has never been an easy task, but those who have achieved certain achievements have gone through hard work. There is no such thing as pie-falling in the world. Only through unremitting efforts and hard work can success be possible. The same goes for learning. Who hasn’t struggled all the way to get through exams? Children are not adults after all, and their minds are not very mature. They really don’t feel much happiness in the learning process. Some parents think that education abroad is easy. In fact, outstanding students abroad also have to study hard to achieve good academic results. For example, primary school education in Singapore has a wide range of teaching areas. In addition to some specialized courses, there are also areas such as art and language to fully develop students\’ talents. Therefore, it is right to let children grow up happily, but the learning process is often difficult. The entertaining education method does not mean that children do not need to study hard. Only by working hard can you gain happiness. Most children cannot regard learning as a happy thing. Achieving excellent results requires children to calm down and study while others are playing games or watching movies. Some children are more mature in mind and have their own lofty aspirations since childhood, so they have their own goals in the learning process and work hard for them; some children do not have lofty goals, but at least one of them is like getting into a good middle school. Or short-term goals like a good college. No matter what the situation is, they must first have a goal and work hard in pursuit of it. Only when children achieve excellent results and their hard work is rewarded can they gain happiness. Studying hard is a responsibility. In the process of raising children, parents should let their children know how to pay and cultivate their upward, hard-working spirit and sense of responsibility. When children are in school, their main task is to learn, which is their responsibility. As the saying goes: \”Three years old determines eighty.\” Will people who don\’t study hard, have no goals, don\’t know how to give, and spend all day eating, drinking and having fun when they grow up, become willing to give, work hard, and fight hard when they grow up? Therefore, rather than cultivating children\’s ability to learn independently and their spirit of hard work, it is better to cultivate them to establish positive and responsible qualities from an early age. This is the important goal in the children\’s learning process. Only by working hard can you choose the life you want. Just as Long Yingtai said to his son Andre: \”Son, I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to compare your grades with others, but because I hope you will have choices in the future. The right to choose a job that is meaningful and time-consuming, rather than being forced to make a living.\” One day, children will grow up and have to shoulder their own lives. How many people in this world work hard every day but can barely maintain food and clothing? How many people work hard but can only live in the basement? Study hardLearning some skills may not necessarily make a child a rich man, but it can at least allow him to choose a job he likes instead of being chosen by the job. Only when you are excellent can you have more opportunities to make progress and make some excellent friends, which can benefit your children throughout their lives. When children associate with a group of excellent friends, they can learn a lot from them, such as responsibility, persistence, and good habits; they can understand themselves better and realize their strengths and weaknesses more clearly; they can grow and make progress together with them. , become better together. However, without studying hard, it will be difficult for children to make these excellent friends. It is difficult for hard-working people to become good friends with uneducated people, not because they look down upon them or because they are not worthy of them, but because the two people have different values ​​and have no common language, making it difficult to communicate. Finally, please tell your children that happiness is the result of hard work, and your current efforts are all for having more opportunities to choose from in the future!