The meaning of interesting parents to children has become a luxury

Nowadays, the word interesting has become particularly noticeable. And kids take it more seriously. For example, when I choose a bedtime story book for Xiao Xiaoyu, he will ask me if it is interesting? When I go to the movies with him, he will ask me if it is interesting. So he read those interesting storybooks over and over again. Sometimes his face would turn red with excitement, and he would rush to tell his friends about the recommendations for fear of being missed. As for boring books, he would rush me to finish them halfway through. Regardless of their young age, children still have their own criteria for selecting books. And fun becomes the key indicator. During parent-child reading exchanges, many mothers asked me, \”I don\’t know how to tell picture books to my children, and I can\’t tell stories well, because I feel that the telling is not interesting and the children don\’t like to listen.\” How to tell a book to my children? Gotta be interesting. It does take a lot of thought. When reading picture books, you should not only rely on reading aloud, but also have expressions. It is best to use some body movements when necessary. When reading, you can also add some changes in tone, which can reflect the identity of the characters and the interest of the dialogue. In this way, children can integrate into the plot faster. Therefore, you will find that parents who often read picture books to their children have basically developed a unique door skill. Learn the sounds of various animals in a realistic way. If you just read the past aloud like a machine, as plain as water, even if you read every word, the child will reject it. Because it\’s boring. Not just reading. In many ways, interesting parents are increasingly needed. Mr. Zhou Guoping said, \”There are some serious parents who are very boring themselves. They punish their children when they see them naughty and are indifferent to their children\’s interesting words. I really feel wronged for their children. In the arid desert, the intelligence of children is very important.\” The flowers withered prematurely. In the silent room, the child\’s spiritual laughter dimmed prematurely. If a child has normal talent but no sense of humor, the responsibility must lie with the adults.\” It\’s true, we have too many Many parents like to always have a sullen face and look aloof. It\’s boring to think about. After returning home, please put aside all your identities and just be a good parent to your children. Your relaxed expression will put your child in a good mood. Then they will invite you and not be afraid of you. I found that if I was preoccupied, my son would play alone. Sometimes he looks at me quietly. When my mood improves, my words become joyful and relaxed. He would accidentally get on my back and ask me to play with him. Really, if the home is dull, it will only damage the children\’s spirituality. He also became dull. Playing with children will make you more interesting. Squat down like a child. To start playing with a boy, you just need a little fire. They will burn quickly. A few days ago, Xiao Xiaoyu was playing at home with his neighbor\’s little brother. As soon as I came to the living room, the little guys pestered me to play with them. I said let’s test your skills. Then there was a two-on-one scuffle in the living room. Laughter and screams echoed throughout the house. Both kids had a great time. Of course, I was beaten to the point of surrender by them. I feel like the little brother from before is still a little strange to me. But after playing around, it felt familiar. to oneFor children, the most effective way for adults to show kindness is to join in their games. And if I always have a sullen face, this cute little guy will no longer be willing to get close to me. I have always felt that children are spiritual. They can discover truth, goodness and beauty, feel happiness and create happiness. And children all have their own sense of humor. We often talk about raising an interesting child. Then develop his sense of humor first. It can be said that it is parents who open the door to their children\’s sense of humor. Smile with your children often and create a relaxed family atmosphere. I think children laugh the most. Even babies laugh. You will find that there is a special bond between the children of the nurturers that make each other laugh. Sometimes it\’s an action, or a funny expression. I still remember that when Xiao Xiaoyu was half a year old, I would play the simplest game of peek-a-boo with him. Whenever he sees me emerging from behind the sofa or from behind my mother, he laughs. Later, I discovered that he would laugh every time he saw me doing something funny. For example, if I look embarrassed and unable to sneeze, he will giggle happily. We can also find some fun and share it with our children after dinner. For example, when children reach the age of two or three, they are actually very sensitive to language. I can also understand some interesting children\’s songs and humorous picture book stories, such as Xiaoyu\’s favorite \”I Don\’t Know Who I Am\” and \”Who\’s Hmm on My Head\”. They will even imitate some of the protagonists in the book and do some funny actions to make their parents laugh. At this time, parents should actively respond to their children and work together to discover and create laughter between parents and children. I still remember one time I watched \”Sing\” with my son, niece and nephew. There is a plot in it that made us laugh together for almost a month. Whenever we meet each other and mention the hilarious clip of Yue Bole using his whole body to \”swim\” on the street, which can be said to be using his \”life\” to wipe the car, we will laugh again. , and then recall the plot together. There is a sense of humor that you will really have if you laugh a lot. Of course, if the parents have a strong sense of humor, then the children will probably be more likely to have this treasure. Telling jokes and telling interesting things with your family is so wonderful just thinking about it. Of course, parents must also remember to respect the small joys of their children’s world and protect their children’s sense of humor. Children are born with humor, but it is often destroyed. For example, one day they might wear your clothes and pretend to be adults. A girl might mess up her mother\’s shoe cabinet, while a boy might turn his father\’s storage room upside down. Sometimes they put their socks on their hands, or wear their clothes in front on purpose… They always like to do some funny things. At this time, please do not rush to blame your child. Because they are creating interesting ideas that make the world a little more interesting. If you teach your children a lesson with a straight face, it will only make them feel wronged. Of course, you can also dampen your child\’s enthusiasm and mute their sense of humor. How boring it is when they no longer happily play tricks with you, but just obey your orders. Many children like to play house games or role-playing games, which are often needed for the development of their own imagination. I found my sonWhen a person is playing at home, he will place his more than 10 dinosaurs on the bed, and then start to make up his own stories to play, and he will have a lot of fun there. In his imaginary world, he is a Spinosaurus and one of them. Every time I see him playing like this, I try to observe and listen carefully without disturbing him. He often comes up with some funny ideas while playing, and then laughs alone, enjoying himself as both an actor and a director. However, there are many parents who do not understand their children and interfere with their children\’s games. They may even coldly and forcefully dismantle the scenes built by their children, ask them to do their homework, and destroy their imaginary world without saying hello. A dry life without any emotion can easily affect children. Living in a boring family, it is difficult for children to develop their imagination. This not only destroys the child\’s fun, but may also destroy the child\’s interests and talents. Childhood must be interesting and nourished with happiness. This happiness is like sunshine, warming the child\’s life through the window of the soul. Even in those dark and uneasy days, I will not be afraid. Because gloomy people see bitterness, but optimistic and enlightened people can see sweetness. Interesting people can always find joy in hardship and believe in the future and hope. Try to be an interesting parent and raise an optimistic and interesting child!