A mother\’s emotional stability is a kind of ability, and it is the best love for her children.

Recently, Korean Air\’s \”eldest princess\” Cho Hyun-a was accused by her husband of having a bad temper, violent temper, and domestic violence against her husband and children, causing great harm to her family. According to the video provided by the husband to the court, the youngest son ate candy before the meal, but the husband did not stop him and was scolded by Zhao Xian\’e. Amid the hysterical yelling and accusations, the child covered his ears with his hands, trying desperately to block the negative energy from his mother. It\’s heartbreaking to see. According to Park, his wife often \”choke him by the neck\” and also abused his twin sons. She would yell at him, throw things around, and even get into fights over the smallest things. Zhao Xian\’e claimed that Park suffered from alcohol and drug poisoning and had been sent to the hospital three times for treatment. Park\’s indifference to her children was the reason for the breakdown of their marriage. Not to mention who is right and wrong between the couple, just watching the video, we can feel the \”eldest princess\” screaming at the top of her lungs outside the screen, let alone the little child who is in the emotional storm of his mother. Parents hope to provide their children with superior living conditions and devote themselves to their children, thinking that this is the best love for their children. Who knows, compared to the excellent material conditions, a mother\’s emotional stability is the most important thing for her children. The best love for children. Psychologist Li Zixun said that many people’s childhood trauma comes from their mothers. Because a lot of information from the mother is not transmitted through words, but affects the child through the biological field of coexistence with the child. A mother\’s inner peace and stability are very important to her children. If the mother\’s mood is stable and peaceful, the child will be like a spring breeze and grow up to be a happy and peaceful self. If the mother is emotionally unstable and the child is constantly exposed to violent storms, he will be extremely insecure and may even become a \”walking bomb\” that will explode at any time, hurting both others and himself. There is a song called \”I will become you when I grow up.\” Every child will become more or less like his mother when he grows up. If the mother is emotionally stable, the child will be emotionally stable. If the mother is hysterical, the child will become manic and irritable. The mother\’s emotions contain her child\’s future. Actor Joe Chen confessed when participating in a reality show with his mother that he spent his childhood being beaten and scolded by his mother. Therefore, most of his childhood memories are related to fear. Even when he hears his mother\’s footsteps, he feels like \”the devil is coming.\” \”She only asks for one thing, which is to go to school obediently. She also needs to do well in the exam. If I don\’t do well in the exam, I would rather go to a haunted house than go home. I feel so scary, and I will be very scared. Mother\”. When talking about this experience, Chen Qiaoen\’s face in front of the camera was still full of panic, and he even subconsciously looked back for fear that his mother would appear behind him. Moreover, throughout the entire interview process, Chen Qiaoen\’s hands kept folding and pinching each other\’s fingers. This action is psychologically a sign of nervousness. It shows how big her psychological shadow is! According to modern psychological research, most children who were often beaten and scolded in childhood have low self-esteem, are sensitive, and lack a sense of security, because their mothers’ bad emotions are like landmines that may explode at any time. Surrounded by such bad emotions, children are walking on thin ice. FightJing Jing, how can you still have the strength to grow yourself? Fortunately, Chen Qiaoen has stepped out of the shadow of childhood through his own efforts; but for the vast majority of ordinary people, they are not so lucky and are likely to live in this shadow throughout their lives. What’s even more frightening is that this kind of violence caused by out-of-control emotions will be passed down from generation to generation and become a nightmare for children. The result is likely to be a recurrence of tragedy. Therefore, if a mother is emotionally unstable and beats and scolds her children at every turn, she will destroy not just one person, but possibly several generations. Educationalist Suhomlinsky once said: For a family, the mother is the root and the children are the flowers. If you want the flowers to bloom beautifully, you must first ensure that the roots are not rotten and can continue to provide nutrients. The mother\’s emotional stability is the most beneficial nutrient for the child\’s growth. Do you still remember the kind and sensible boy Li Renzhi in \”The Story of a Young Man\”? He did not feel inferior because his mother was a takeout delivery person, but he saw his mother\’s difficulties in his eyes and felt deeply in his heart. Although his mother works from dawn to dusk every day and treats every customer with care, \”some people still don\’t respect this profession, and sometimes give negative reviews for no reason, or even make trouble unreasonably.\” However, he does not resent these people for this. Instead, he chose to use gratitude to convey more kindness: \”Every day when I see the sanitation workers and grandparents on the road, I give them a smile.\” \”Because I think they will also smile to my mother like me. \”I hope everyone can show more kindness to people like my mother.\” Li Renzhi\’s thoughtfulness and warmth made many netizens cry, and his mother\’s kindness and generosity are even more admirable. \”Thank you for being so considerate, Mom. Most of the customers are quite nice.\” \”If the delivery is late due to traffic jams, they will sign for it in advance. If it rains, they will also ask Mom to pay attention to safety.\” Don\’t complain, don\’t be frustrated, do your job well, Mom uses Their own understanding of life allows children to see the beauty and kindness of the world. Such an optimistic, cheerful and grateful mother will naturally have light in her eyes, love in her heart, and raise sunny and cheerful children. And such children, even if they encounter difficulties and setbacks, will not be afraid of wind and rain and forge ahead. On February 15, Quinlivan posted a photo on Instagram of Jay Chou hugging his son and daughter. In the photo, Jay Chou is happily holding a baby in one hand, looking like a warm father. This man who is famous all over the world for his musical talent has been on the hot searches in recent years not because of his musical achievements, but because of his image as a \”maniac who dotes on his wife and a warm-hearted dad\”. When asked in the interview who takes care of the baby at night, Quinlivan revealed that her husband mostly takes care of the baby at night. The baby cries from hunger at night and wants to get up on his own, but Jay orders her to go back to sleep while quickly getting up to warm her breast milk. When the baby wants to poop, Jay immediately changes the diaper without saying a word. After Kunling gave birth to her second child, she resolutely announced that she would not attend the Golden Melody Awards that month because she wanted to spend time with her wife and newborn at the confinement center. It is precisely because of Jay Chou\’s attentive companionship and love that Kunling, who has already given birth to two babies, is in high spirits, without any of the feathers after becoming a mother, and has become a fairy who does not eat the fireworks of the world. Psychologist Li ZixunThe teacher said, \”After the wife is pregnant and before the child is 6 years old, the husband should be a cow and a horse. This can make the wife happy.\” Jay Chou did this very well. Statistics show that 50% to 90% of women will suffer from postpartum depression to varying degrees, and this kind of postpartum depression can be alleviated through understanding, support, care and companionship. Therefore, fathers should be considerate of mothers, take more care of their children, and give mothers a certain amount of time and space to sort themselves out. Sometimes, your help may save a mother who is in dire straits. On the other hand, mothers should not give up on self-growth, read more and study more, and relax themselves appropriately when necessary. Only by taking care of yourself first can you be able to deal with negative emotions and maintain emotional stability. In fact, it is not the mother\’s emotions that affect the child\’s growth, but the mother\’s wrong way of dealing with emotions. If the method is correct, not only will it not cause harm to the child, but it will also teach the child to handle his emotions correctly and grow. Mom’s mood is the barometer of the family. When a mother is in a better mood, she will naturally be able to love her children and family better, giving her children a sufficient sense of security. The sense of security in childhood will affect the happiness of the child\’s life. Only children who feel secure can have self-confidence and self-esteem, establish close relationships with others, constantly explore their own potential, and face a world full of infinite possibilities.