10 masters said that real children’s education affects children’s life!

The first priority of Qian Mu Education is to enable every member of this country and nation to understand their own traditions. Just like teaching a person to know himself. If you don’t even know yourself, there’s no need to say anything else. Today, the biggest mistake in our education in the East is to imitate and plagiarize the West. I don’t know that every country and every nation must have its own set of education. But this does not mean that we should stay in our ways and close ourselves off. It doesn’t mean that we don’t know how to value others, and we don’t know how to learn from other people’s strengths to make up for our own shortcomings. But there should be a limit to all this. You must not forget yourself in order to imitate others, and you must not destroy yourself first in order to imitate others. Today, we Easterners have this trend, and we urgently need to improve it ourselves. Liang Qichao must guide his children\’s interest in life. In childhood and adolescence, interest is the strongest, and they are constantly bumping up and down. If they are not led to the path of high interest, they will have to flow into low interest. Those of us who advocate interest education want to give children or young people a kind of interest that can be used throughout their lives when their interest is strong but their direction is undecided. Lu Xun\’s skeptical spirit of protecting children is not a bad virtue. But as we develop, being kind to everything is by no means a virtue, and perhaps it is simply worthless. Of course, the words of \”father\” and seniors must be listened to, but they must also be reasonable. If there is a child who thinks that everything is inferior to others and bows and retreats; or if he is smiling all the time, but in fact he is always plotting and plotting against others, I would rather hear him scold me face to face with \”what the hell\”… But the general trend in China is that But he only develops towards the tame and kind–\”quiet\” aspect, with low eyebrows, submissiveness, and submissiveness. Only then can he be considered a good child, which is called \”interesting\”. Lively, healthy, tenacious, hold your chest up and your head raised… Anything that is \”moving\” will inevitably make some people shake their heads… The purpose of Wang Guowei\’s education is to make people become complete human beings. What is the purpose of education? He is just a person who makes people perfect. What is a perfect person? It is said that all human abilities are well developed and balanced. Human abilities are divided into two parts, internal and external: one is physical ability, and the other is mental ability. To develop the body but weaken the spirit, or to develop the spirit but weaken the body, is not what is called perfection. For a perfect person, the mind and body must be harmoniously developed. The spirit is divided into three parts: intelligence, emotion and will. For these three, there are ideals of truth, beauty and goodness: \”Truth\” is the ideal of intelligence, \”Beauty\” is the ideal of emotion, and \”Good\” is the ideal of will. A perfect person must possess the three virtues of truth, beauty and goodness. To achieve this ideal, education begins. Master Hsing Yun’s Six Key Keys to Family Education In history, there are many celebrities who have achieved success and fame thanks to good tutoring. For example, Meng\’s mother moved three times, her mother-in-law taught filial piety, Wang Xizhi practiced calligraphy, and Wang Mian studied painting. It was all because of successful family education that they eventually became immortal talents. In today\’s family education, the most important thing is for children to develop: 1. Integrity in life. If children develop the habit of lying since childhood, it will be a hidden danger for their future. Therefore, developing integrity in life is the key to a successful career. fundamental. 2. GoodHabits: Cultivate children from an early age to be tidy, caring for students, turning off lights and doors, and other good habits. With good habits, there is no need to worry about not being a perfect person in the future. 3. Polite moral character Children should develop the habit of respecting others from an early age. They should not only be polite to their elders, but also be courteous and courteous to everyone. As the saying goes, \”Those who respect others will always respect them.\” If you can treat others with courtesy, you will be able to treat others with courtesy in the future. Naturally, you can also be respected by others. 4. Acceptable character. Some students cannot read or take exams. This is because they cannot concentrate on listening in class and do not have the habit of accepting. Without a receptive character, like a vessel covering it, how can one bear the nectar from heaven? Therefore, children must develop an accepting character from an early age so that they can learn and progress. 5. The virtue of hard work \”Diligence pays off, but play is useless.\” Children\’s minds are not sound because they like to play. Therefore, they should be guided to study and work to develop the virtue of hard work. 6. A normal life enables children to live a normal life, including three meals a day and a normal mood. Living a normal life is beneficial to physical and mental health, and is of great importance to your future conduct. In addition to the above six points, children\’s self-esteem must be safeguarded and children must not be ridiculed, ridiculed, blamed, or discriminated against. Yang Jiang: A good education must inspire interest. I understand that \”good education\” first inspires people\’s interest in learning, their consciousness of learning, cultivates people\’s self-motivation, guides people to be eager to learn, and constantly improves themselves. Let students be educated unconsciously and let them learn by subtle influences. The role of role models in this regard is very important, and words are not as important as teaching by example. Nan Huaijin’s first priority in educating children is to teach them how to be a human being. Why should a person study? The most correct answer in tradition is the four words \”reading and understanding\”. To understand the truth, you must first understand the principles of being a human being. If you want to ask the Chinese nation, what has been the purpose of education for the Chinese people? Let us repeat it again: it is for \”being a human being\”, not for \”living\”. Understand the nature of children. I think most education in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, has made a mistake. Parents often subconsciously place their wishes on their children, but they forget the nature and nature of their children. In education, we must first know the child\’s sexual orientation and the temperament direction of a child. …Education is just a way to increase one\’s potential. The teacher tries his best to help him and train him so that he can stand up based on his own talents. This is the purpose of education. Let children start by doing small things. According to traditional Chinese culture, the real education of children is \”sweeping and responding.\” When children enter elementary school between the ages of six and eight, how do they sweep the floor, wipe the table, and how do they communicate with teachers and adults? , the polite attitude and rules when talking to friends, this is the most important. In ancient times, it was taught to learn \”sweeping and coping\” when entering primary school, which is the basis for learning to be a human being. The purpose of education is to be a human being. Don\’t think that sweeping the floor, wiping the table, and serving bowls are no big deal. These are all a kind of life education. If you master the life education, you will naturally be able to do things when you grow up. If you fail to learn basic education well and go to school exclusively, that is called learning knowledge. If you have learned the knowledge but do not have the foundation for being a human being, this education has failed. Respect children\’s hobbies. It is impossible to force a person who likes engineering to study literature. there are many childrenMy son has liked playing with broken watches and taking apart toys since he was a child. His parents must punish him for breaking things. In the eyes of educators, this child has mechanical genius, and he should be cultivated in this area. Mo Yan: Only good parents can have good children. The biggest influence on people is family education. The first thing everyone receives from birth is family education, and what is most affected is family education. This kind of education includes both words and deeds. I even think that teaching by deeds is more important than teaching by deeds. explain in words. You live in this family, your elders, your relatives, how they treat work and treat others, I think it will have a very direct and subtle impact on the children. Therefore, I think having a good family tradition is indeed very beneficial to the growth of children. Good parents are learned. There are no born successful parents, and there are no parents who do not need to learn. Successful parents are the result of continuous learning and improvement. I have met so many outstanding parents, and none of them succeeded in raising their children easily. A good mother takes nip in the bud, but an unqualified mother\’s child\’s problem is already very serious. Even the teacher has already talked to the child, and she is not aware of the problem. Everyone must learn relevant knowledge before becoming a parent. The earlier the awareness and knowledge about how to be a parent are prepared, the better and the more fully the better. Children\’s problems are a reflection of their parents\’ problems. Excellent children are mostly the result of high-quality education, while problem children are mostly the product of problem families. Most of children\’s problems are not caused by the children themselves, but are a reflection of their parents\’ problems. Parents are often the biggest creators of children\’s problems, and they are also the biggest obstacle for children to correct their mistakes and shortcomings. The top priority is not to educate children, but to educate parents. Without changes in parents, there will be no changes in children. There are no children who don’t want to learn well, there are only children who cannot learn well. There are no children who cannot educate well, there are only parents who cannot educate them well. Therefore, scold yourself before scolding your children, and hit yourself before hitting your children. Only in this way can you completely change yourself. Help children adapt to exam-oriented education. According to statistics, there are nearly 10 million \”idle\” minors in our country. The so-called idle minors refer to children who should be studying in school but do not want to study and choose to drop out of school. 94% of them are the result of academic failure. Being behind in school, being tired of studying, playing truant, and running away from home have become today\’s minor crimes. The four steps. Therefore, it has become a duty of our parents to help our children adapt to exam-oriented education. The best way to help our children reduce their burden is to increase our parents\’ burden, that is, our parents can become their children\’s mentors. Good communication can be heard by parents who are excellent. Their good communication comes from consciously following the following three principles: The first step is to listen, which is to let the child speak out and understand the true meaning of the child\’s words. The second step is understanding, which is to think about whether it makes sense from the child\’s perspective. The result often makes sense. The third step is advice, which means children may not necessarily take the right action if it makes sense, so parents should give advice here. Of these three steps, listening is the one parents do the worst. The most important way to let children develop a big mind will, mind, moral character, etc.The important factor does not produce results through \”explicit education\” such as parents\’ preaching, but is transformed into the flesh and blood of children through parents\’ behavior, that is, \”subtle education.\” The best way for children to develop a big-minded attitude, in addition to setting a good example for parents, is to let children read more classics and biographies of great people, so that children can learn to view society and themselves from the perspective of great people from an early age. Ye Shengtao: Education is about cultivating habits. Usually, when someone is said to be weak in ability, it means that someone has not developed many habits. For example, Zhang San\’s memory is not strong, that is, Zhang San does not have the habit of remembering things he sees and hears. To say that Li Si has poor expressive ability means that Li Si has no habit of expressing his thoughts and feelings. Therefore, the more habits are developed, the more capable that person becomes. Being a person and doing things requires various abilities, so the most important thing is to develop various habits. We receive education in school to develop habits and enhance abilities. After we leave school, we still need to be educated in many aspects and educate ourselves. The purpose is still to develop habits and enhance abilities. The more natural the habit, the better, and the more enhanced the ability, the better. Cai Yuanpei determines what determines a child\’s life. What determines a child\’s life is not academic performance, but sound personality cultivation.