Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang take their son to plant rice seedlings: This is the real prosperity

A few days ago, a set of pictures that Huo Qigang posted on Weibo was on the hot search list, attracting praise from a large number of netizens. In the picture, he, his wife Guo Jingjing, and his son Huo Zhongxi, wearing sun hats, rolled up trouser legs, and flip-flops, are planting rice in the rice fields. The stains and mud on their legs are matched with the smiling faces of the family, and there is no sense of violation. . After hard work, the family of three ate farm food at a villager\’s home, looking satisfied even though they had a meager meal. On Weibo, netizens applauded, saying frankly that Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang\’s education methods are very good, and they are not pampered towards their sons at all; they praised Huo Qigang as a breath of fresh air among wealthy families, the most down-to-earth third generation of the rich, and a true aristocrat. This is not the first time that Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang have taken their children out to experience life. They do not rely on their considerable wealth to blindly spend money on their children, let alone pile up various famous brands on their children. On the contrary, the family of three all dressed plainly, and Guo Jingjing was repeatedly photographed by the media shopping for children\’s clothing worth tens of yuan at a roadside stall. Although he belongs to a wealthy family, he has always been elegant and low-key. Not only has he not been squandering, but he has practiced simplicity with his family and set an example for his children. They not only gave their children the best companionship, but also gave them the best education through words and deeds. The most admirable thing is that he obviously has the capital to indulge, but chooses to exercise restraint. As the saying goes: A dragon begets a dragon, a phoenix begets a phoenix, and a mouse\’s son can make holes. For a child, what kind of family he is born into and what kind of parents he has will, to a large extent, determine how high he can fly and how far he can go in the future, and these have nothing to do with money, only the love of his parents. Related to the pattern. As teacher Wu Jun said in \”Insight\”: \”How far a child can go has a lot to do with his parents.\” With parents who have a big picture and foresight, the future of a child will not be too bad. A truly wealthy family is not only rich in money, but also rich in knowledge, character, and education; true wealth does not mean just throwing money at it, but putting one\’s own actions into practice to provide children with spiritual wealth. The stock god Buffett said: \”Eating hardship will benefit a person throughout his life.\” Therefore, he not only endured hardship himself, but also let his children endure hardship and learn to support themselves. The family\’s luxury car never picks up the children. To get pocket money, the children must exchange it for housework such as sweeping the floor, cleaning windows, fertilizing and watering flowers and plants. He no longer gives pocket money when he becomes an adult. Even when starting a business, Buffett lets his children find bank loans on their own. Because of this, Buffett\’s three children have known from an early age that they have to make money by themselves. Peter, known as the \”Warren Buffett\” of the music industry, published a book \”Be Yourself\” a few years ago. His father Buffett wrote in the preface to him: \”Peter\’s life is entirely his own. . His measure of success is not personal wealth or glory, but his contribution to the wider world.\” In fact, Peter\’s life was indeed entirely built by himself. At the age of 19, Peter devoted himself to music creation. Being penniless, he asked for help to no avail. He did not receive any support from his father, so he had to place advertisements in newspapers and provide recording services for people. The price was 35 US dollars per hour, and he could barely make ends meet by earning one or two hundred US dollars a week. day. 30 years old, he thoughtWhen he borrowed money from his father to buy a bigger house, Buffett said: \”You should take out a loan to buy a house like other Americans, and then repay the loan according to your own ability.\” So he had to bite the bullet and buy a house by himself. Later, when Peter wanted to promote the musical and dance drama \”Soul\” on tour, he borrowed money from his father again. Buffett said again: \”Go and raise 90% of the money first, and I will lend you the remaining 10%.\” ” So Peter had to raise money and borrow money from banks. For this reason, he was once ridiculed as \”the poor son of the world\’s richest man.\” Buffett seems to be stingy and ruthless towards his son, but in fact, what he left to Peter is spiritual wealth that cannot be spent in a lifetime. As Peter himself said: \”What my father did was just to let me experience and understand life on my own. My father\’s love is not money but trust.\” Parents who are truly well-organized know how to restrain their children in material matters. Be generous in spirit. How many parents always think that no matter how hard it is, they can\’t hurt their children, no matter how tired they are, they can\’t let their children suffer, so they respond to their children\’s material needs, but in the end what they get is a giant baby who can only chew the old. As everyone knows, the better the flowers in the greenhouse are protected, the less they can withstand the wind, frost, rain and snow in society. Suhomlinsky, an educational practitioner from the former Soviet Union, said: “Children must know that there is a difficult word in life, which is inseparable from labor, sweat, and calluses on their hands. In this way, when they grow up, , will greatly shorten the social adaptation period and improve the ability to withstand setbacks.\” Wealth is fluid, but rights are not eternal. The most valuable asset in life left to children is not money, but the ability to create money and the education and spiritual connotation inherited throughout their lives. Even if your family is rich, you must educate your children to be self-reliant and let them know that life is not easy and wealth does not come out of thin air. On the other hand, many children in our lives are born into ordinary families, but live the life of a \”rich second generation\”. They are pampered and do not know the price of food and rice when they were young. When they grow up, they do not know how generous the sky and the earth are. This is closely related to the parenting style. At the end of last year, the news that a 22-year-old boy lost 2 million yuan after studying abroad for two years shocked netizens. After losing all his family savings, he chose to drop out of school. In fact, his habit of gnawing at the old and wasting his family has already been traced. He has been doted on since he was a child, and he can hardly open his mouth without reaching for clothes or food. If he doesn\’t want to eat, his grandma will feed him to his mouth; if he doesn\’t want to go to school, adults will think of ways to ask for leave for him; if he is keen on playing games, he will be indulged in beatings all day long. I have to admit that it is the parents\’ responsiveness that gives their children the capital to be arrogant and arrogant. Lin Xiaoniang\’s two children in the TV series \”Do You Know\” are also typical children delayed by their parents\’ improper education methods. The two children rely on the favor of their favored mother and father to show off their power at home all day long and feel confident. His son Sheng Changfeng is arrogant and does not seek advancement, he only wants to eat, drink and have fun. As for her daughter Mo Lan, she completely inherited Lin Xiaoniang\’s style, being petty and spoiled. In the end, not only were they disliked by others in the family, but their life circumstances were not as good as those of the other children of the Sheng family. This also made me reflect, as parents, how should we educate our children, and what should we leave behind for our children? Houses, cars, and bills should not be something we persistently consider. transitionalPampering and material satisfaction will only ruin a child\’s future. It is better to start from scratch than to live with nothing. Those consumable wealth are not real wealth, but may become an accelerator for children to fall into the abyss. German philosopher Karl Jaspers once said: \”The so-called scores, academic qualifications and even knowledge are not the essence of education. The essence of education is: one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, One soul awakens another soul.\” The spiritual wealth and nobility of the parents\’ souls will subtly affect the child\’s growth and become a beacon guiding the way forward in his future life. When we abandon blind material satisfaction and choose to practice our own actions, use our actions and personality to influence our children\’s words and deeds, and establish their correct understanding of the world, our children\’s spiritual world will become rich. Last year, Xiaojin, who lives next door, got the admission notice from Tongji University in Shanghai. At the entrance banquet, he was so excited that tears filled his eyes. What he said moved everyone present: \”This admission notice looks light and fluffy, but it is heavy in my heart. It embodies the dedication of my parents to me.\” The first thing I want to be grateful for is my parents.\” In her second year of junior high school, the rebellious Xiao Jin got to know a few gangsters around the school. From then on, Xiao Jin, who was originally well-behaved and sensible, got into the bad habit of smoking and gambling. She often skipped classes and played games in Internet cafes. After being criticized several times by the school, the teacher also called the parents to politely persuade him to quit. After much thought, his father decided to suspend his studies and take Xiaojin back home to work in farming. His father said to Xiao Jin, \”It\’s okay if you don\’t want to study. Then come back and inherit your father\’s business. The several acres of farmland at home will be yours to farm in the future.\” So Xiao Jin had to follow his father up the mountain to chop firewood and work in the fields. Watering, fertilizing, drilling holes, picking manure, transplanting rice seedlings, plowing fields… In this way, he endured the scorching sun and experienced all the hardships of his parents\’ daily work without even landing. As a result, within a month, he cried and begged his father to let him go back to school. People in the village said that Xiaojin\’s father\’s education methods were ruthless and cruel. However, if parents are not determined to let their children experience the ups and downs of life, how can they let them grow into towering trees? Parents love their children and have far-reaching plans. In fact, every child is a blank piece of paper. How to make a wonderful watercolor painting on paper requires the guidance and teaching of parents. A good education method can cultivate an outstanding child. If you just give your child an identity or a fortune and let it grow wildly, the child will eventually grow into something you cannot accept. As the saying goes, parents are the originals and children are copies. When something goes wrong with a copy, much of the blame naturally falls on the original. I remember Zhou Guoping said: \”I firmly believe that nurturing is teaching without teaching. It is the most effective and labor-saving education. Good qualities are cultivated. Therefore, being a parent means that life has made a request to you, and you must improve yourself. The quality.\” Wise parents are far-sighted. They have a long-term view and are not limited to the immediate. They know how to restrain their love for their children, are willing to let their children endure hardships appropriately, and they also know how to let their children grow up. What do you want your child to be like?People, go ahead and become that kind of person yourself. You don’t have to be rich, but always let your children be nurtured in a subtle way and feel spiritually rich. This is the greatest wealth left to your children. As the educator Spencer said: \”We may not accumulate much property or fame throughout our lives, but every parent has accumulated some good experiences and conduct through life. Put these Give it to children, and they will use new life to amplify and shine.\”