Please tell your children: Marriage must depend on family background

When looking at family circumstances, it’s not about whether his family is rich or powerful, but about his family’s conduct, lifestyle and family atmosphere. Because these are inseparable from his life, they will be relevant to your life. The way his parents make money determines his ability to make money. When you are in love, you can enjoy the romance; in marriage, you can live with tea, rice, oil and salt. From love to marriage, the love vowed to each other will be implemented in the daily life of three meals a day. In marriage, pure love must be kept fresh with enough material. If your boyfriend comes from an average background, but his parents still work hard and are content, you can marry such a person, because being down-to-earth and optimistic makes people rich, and he will also have a counterattack in life. If your boyfriend\’s family is well-off, but his parents are opportunistic and profit-seeking, don\’t join such a wealthy family, because cunning and snobbishness can lead to corruption, and he may be left with nothing. The way his parents got along influenced his way of treating his wife. In a marriage that is satisfying, two people grow old together and live a happy life; in a marriage that goes against their wishes, two people grow old in bickering and fighting, and torture each other. What kind of couple will you and him be in the future? Will he be a good husband? Just look at the daily life of his parents. You must have heard this story: Everyone around him said he was not good enough for her. The girl went to meet the boy\’s parents, and the moment the boy\’s father picked up vegetables and peeled shrimps for her mother at the dinner table, she decided to marry the boy. Because of his parents\’ love, she saw how sweet they would be in the future. You must have heard this example: everyone around him said that he was not good enough for her. A girl goes to meet her boyfriend\’s parents. At the dinner table, when the boy\’s father asks her mother to add more wine and food, she suddenly decides to break up with the boy. Because of the inequality between his parents, she lost confidence in the respect between husband and wife. His parents\’ way of doing things affects his character. Falling in love means being attracted to the other person\’s strengths; getting married means tolerating the other person\’s shortcomings. A happy marriage is never about asking the other person to change for you, but about voluntarily accepting the other person for who they are. Can you accept his truest and most natural appearance? Go meet his parents. If his parents are loyal and honest, then he must also be upright and kind; if his parents are stingy and stingy, then he may also like to care about things; if his parents are arrogant, then he may also be a social butterfly; if his parents have low self-esteem and cowardice, then he is likely to There are also social difficulties. The family atmosphere of his parents determines his lifestyle. As the saying goes, love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. A woman is not only married to a man, but also married to a family and a way of life. If his parents are open-minded and reasonable, do not interfere in their children\’s lives, and give them full freedom; if his sisters are considerate, do not evade family responsibilities, and share worries and solve problems for each other. If he has a family with a loving father and mother, and deep brotherhood, then get married! \”Everything prospers when the family is harmonious.\” A harmonious and beautiful family will definitely give you a stable life. A lasting marriage is never about two people staying together, but about the concerted efforts of two families. Good men are never trained, but are nurtured by their families. Therefore, when discussing marriage, you must take a look at the other person\’s family background.