All 9 children are talented: A good way to educate children is to compete with their father

Li Ka-shing once said that the success of any career cannot make up for the failure of children’s education! Many people have a successful career, but their children ruin their family fortune; but there are also people who have a successful career and their children\’s education is even more successful. For example, our master Liang Qichao. Speaking of his children, the most famous one is Liang Sicheng. But in fact, all of his other eight children are also very powerful. Let’s take a look at their resumes: The eldest daughter Liang Sishun graduated from Japan Women’s Normal School. She is an expert in poetry research and has authored five volumes of “Selected Poems from Yihengkan”. The eldest son Liang Sicheng graduated from the Department of Architecture of Tsinghua University and the University of Pennsylvania. Together with his wife Lin Huiyin, he led the design of the National Emblem of New China and the Monument to the People\’s Heroes, and was later elected as an academician of the Chinese Academy of Sciences. The second son, Liang Siyong, is a famous archaeologist in my country. He graduated from Harvard University with a major in archeology and anthropology. He is one of the pioneers of modern Chinese archeology. The third son, Liang Sizhong, graduated from the Virginia Army School and West Point Military Academy in the United States. After returning to China, he served as an artillery school officer. The second daughter, Liang Sizhuang, studied at McGill University in Canada and Columbia University in the United States. She received a Bachelor of Arts and a degree from the Library Science Society and is a famous library expert. The fourth son, Liang Sida, received his undergraduate and master\’s degrees from the Department of Economics of Nankai University. He has been engaged in economic research for a long time. He once worked in the General Management Office of the Bank of China and participated in the compilation of the book \”Modern Economic History of China\”. The third daughter, Liang Siyi, is a well-known social activist. She first studied at Yenching University and was the backbone of the \”129\” student movement. In 1941, she went to the United States to study. After returning to China, she has been working in the Women\’s Federation, the Red Cross and other institutions. The fourth daughter, Liang Sining, dropped out of school when she was a freshman at Nankai University because the school was bombed by the Japanese army. Under the influence of her sister Liang Siyi, she joined the New Fourth Army and participated in revolutionary work for decades. The fifth son, Liang Sili, followed his sister Liang Siyi to study in the United States when he was 17 years old. He received a bachelor\’s degree from Purdue University, a master\’s degree and a doctorate from the University of Cincinnati. He is a famous rocket control expert, an academician of the International Academy of Astronautics and an academician of the Chinese Academy of Sciences. Some people call their family \”one subject with three academicians, and the whole court is full of talents.\” Today, when everyone is anxious about raising children, how did Liang Qichao raise all 9 children to be so outstanding? Lets come look. The lesson of patriotism has never been left behind for children. \”Strong young people will make the country strong, rich young people will make the country rich, independent young people will make the country independent, free young people will make the country free, and young people will make progress, the country will progress.\” These heroic words of Liang Qichao have influenced many aspiring young people to serve the motherland! This is also the biggest genetic background of Liang Qichao\’s family. Someone once asked his youngest child, the famous rocket control expert Liang Sili, what is the most precious thing you inherited from your father? He replied: Patriotism. This patriotic inheritance is also the inheritance of family tradition. Liang Qichao was born in Xinhui, Guangdong. Before his grandfather, his family had been farmers for generations. Later, Liang Qichao\’s grandfather Liang Jingquan became a local scholar and made a living by teaching. Liang Qichao recalled that when he was a child, his grandfather often told him stories about heroes and philosophers in ancient times, as well as the words and deeds of famous people. And the \”national disasters that destroyed the Song Dynasty and the Ming Dynasty\” sowed love in the heart of this country boy.country’s seeds. So later on, Liang Qichao often said to his children: \”Our Liang family comes from a poor family, so we should not ruin the true character of our family!\” In the Liang family, the words \”serve the motherland\” are never empty words. Most of his children studied abroad, and they all attended prestigious schools such as Harvard and Columbia University. But after completing their studies, they all chose to return to China. Liang Sili narrowed his eyes during the recollection: \”My father had little direct influence on me. My brothers and sisters were all taught by my father\’s words and deeds. I am the weakest in Chinese studies, but I have never failed in the lesson of \’patriotism\’.\” Being a person is more important than doing things, and instill in children a comprehensive outlook on life. In addition to patriotism, the great three views are also valuable assets that he teaches his children by example. Liang Qichao attaches great importance to the moral education of his children. In terms of his children\’s moral education, Liang Qichao has always accepted traditional Chinese family education. He often read \”The Analects of Confucius\” and \”Mencius\” to his children to teach them the principle that \”a knowledgeable person will not be confused, a benevolent person will not worry, and a brave person will not be afraid.\” In Liang Qichao\’s family motto, he believes that a thorough and sound outlook on life is the key to staying optimistic. Because establishing this outlook on life for children is more important than educating them to learn specific knowledge. This understanding and strong outlook on life can help children maintain an optimistic attitude in the face of adversity and help them overcome difficulties. In the way of educating his children, Liang Qichao combined the words \”strictness\” and \”love\”. \”Strict\” should be the top priority in learning and life, and \”love\” should be supported in life. Once, the young Liang Siyong had a scuffle with a child while playing, refusing to give in to each other. When asked later, it was the child\’s fault, but Liang Qichao still severely criticized Siyong. He raised three questions for Siyong to reflect on: First, is it necessary to fight? Second, how to reconcile with the other party? Third, how should we deal with this kind of thing again? After Siyong gave a satisfactory answer, Liang Qichao asked Siyong to have lunch. Afterwards, Liang Qichao personally took Siyong to the other party\’s home to apologize to the children. This kind of behavior gives children a bigger picture. No matter how busy I am, I still spend time with my children and make friends with them. In today\’s society, in many families, the role of \”father\” is missing. They refused to take care of their children, citing high work pressure. \”Widowed parenting\” seems to have become a mainstream trend. But we all know that Liang Qichao\’s life was a life of struggle. In order to save the country, reform, revolution, and write books, I have to spend a lot of time reading books and writings. But even in such a busy situation, he tried his best to spend as much time with his children as possible and give them the most love. He often wrote letters to his children. According to statistics, Liang Qichao wrote more than 400 letters home, totaling more than one million words. He often said: \”You must know that your father is the most emotional person and is very passionate about your love.\” He has 9 children, but every letter he writes home to his children is different and each has its own characteristics. Some of the nicknames are strict and some are loving. He made them all feel their father\’s love, and they all felt that they were a special one in their father\’s heart. He nicknamed his eldest daughter Sishun \”Big Baby\”, nicknamed his third daughter Siyi \”Sima Yi\”, and his younger son Sili\’s code nameIt is \”Lao Baibi\” (a homophone for old baby). At the end of his life, which was plagued by illness, he heard that his eldest daughter Sishun was returning to China. He happily wrote a letter to her: \”I usually miss you, but whenever I get sick, I miss you so much that I feel For example, if Shun\’er is around and I act coquettishly to her, the pain will be reduced a lot. But because you can\’t actually go home, I don\’t want to say such things. Now it\’s better, my Shun\’er is at least always For three to five years, I had a group of lovely children at my knees – Little White Nose followed by Old White Nose – who often played with me. When I think of the new life at home eight months later, I am already very happy.\” He gave Sizhong\’s letter said: \”Although Dad loves you very much, he never tolerates and dotes on you. He always hopes that you can hone your character in hardships and dangers. I also believe that all of my children will suffer from me.\” Such inheritance and lessons will not degenerate due to the hardship or comfort of the environment. If you have this kind of self-confidence, just do it as it happens.\” To his second daughter Liang Sizhuang, he wrote in a disgusting letter: \”Xiao Baobei Zhuang Zhuang: I miss you very much, so I framed this proud work into this exquisite and exquisite hand scroll and sent it to you…\” It turns out that Mr. Liang is still such a coquettish and cute dad. In fact, his love not only benefits all his children, but also gives it selflessly to his son-in-law and daughter-in-law. After Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin got married, he wrote to them to express his joy. He wrote: \”I, who have always been partial to girls, have now added to my family a legal daughter whose loveliness is equal to that of my original daughters. It is truly the greatest pleasure in my life.\” Once , he chatted with Sishun about his daily life in the letter, and praised his son-in-law Zhou Xizhe for \”doing his duty diligently, and he is a dignified person in the world.\” Being able to have such emotional exchanges with his children is Liang Qichao\’s happiness, and it is also the happiness of the children of the Liang family. Oppose cramming education and advocate fun education. Today\’s parents are very anxious and enroll their children in various interest classes, fearing that their children will lose out at the starting line. But Liang Qichao was very opposed to cramming education. Liang Qichao once said, \”Learning does not need to be too aggressive. It is like filling cans. The more you stuff, the more hasty you are, and you may not benefit.\” He rarely set any specific learning goals for children. And he never blamed the children for their homework. When his daughter Liang Sizhuang first went to study abroad and her grades were not good because she could not adapt, he wrote this letter to his daughter: \”It doesn\’t matter even if Zhuang Zhuang fails the exam this year, don\’t be anxious, because he is good at it.\” I barely entered college. Each of you brothers and sisters can study diligently and make progress. I don\’t blame you for your homework, but you fell ill because you rushed to class too much, which makes me worried.\” The education that Liang Qichao believed in was Zeng Guofan\’s \” Don’t ask about harvest, but ask about hard work.” No matter how successful you will be in the future, it is useless to think about it now. Whether you are studying or doing work, don\’t just think about rewards and rewards, but also think about doing things well and cultivating your own world, and good results will naturally come. He is more concerned about whether the child\’s foundation is solid and feels that the so-called grades and scores are just superficial things. Liang Qichao once wrote \”People should live in fun\”He believes that ordinary people must always live in fun, so that life can be valuable. On the basis of being useful to society, you must choose a major that you like. Interest is very important. Under this kind of family education, Liang Qichao\’s children all chose jobs they liked. It is precisely in this way that they all achieved extraordinary achievements in their respective fields. This kind of non-utilitarianism allows children not to be burdened by study. They can basically choose majors and careers based on their own interests and hobbies. If they are happy, career achievements will follow. As a father, on the one hand, he gives advice to his children, but on the other hand, he also respects his children\’s true thoughts. For example, his eldest son Liang Sicheng studied architecture. He was afraid that his son would become bored after studying for too long, so he wrote a letter telling him to spend some time studying literature or humanities. His eldest son Liang Sicheng and his wife Lin Huiyin also suggested that his second daughter Liang Sizhuang study architecture. At that time, there was a serious shortage of promising biology students in the country, but my daughter didn’t like it. He wrote to his daughter: \”Any knowledge is best done by being close to oneself, and often gets twice the result with half the effort. You have been away from me for a long time, and I don\’t know the direction of your ideological development… The subjects I recommend may not be in your style. You should Make your own decisions based on your own experience.\” He also often plays matchmaker for his children and is really a lovely dad. Psychologist Fromm once said: \”Fathers educate children and point out the way to the world.\” It was under this education of love that Liang Qichao created \”a course with three academicians, The miracle of \”all nine women are talented\”. \”Loves to write letters\”, \”loves to act coquettishly\”, \”loves to be a matchmaker\” and \”interesting\”, Mr. Liang has a lot to learn from in family education… Such a father is excellent and interesting, firm and calm; What child doesn’t like and be proud of his father? A good education means fighting for your father. Liang Qichao gave us a good explanation of this lesson.