Vicious deep love and the poison of true love!

As soon as he comes up, he asks this and that, as if others owe him something, and he owes it to him for several lifetimes. Such a person is a typical adult who is still a 3-year-old child. Why do you say that? Think about it, how can a normal adult not know how to first look at other people\’s actual external conditions and then make his or her own preliminary judgment? And if you want to understand the other person more deeply, what should you do? What do normal adults know how to do? This is the normal way to treat others, to give first and to know how to give. If you are unwilling to give up anything, why would others be willing to approach someone like you? Unless the other person is also your kind of person, they can only try their best to escape like a mad dog. This is a normal approach. If you think about it carefully, you will know. Just like some of the information on Doudehui, which one has not taken a lot of time and energy to compile and share with you, and the relevant information has related introductions. In the early stage, a lot of information was free to download, but some people just don’t I believe this is true. What\’s more, after downloading free information, I can\’t use it myself, and I will curse others. What\’s the truth? In fact, we cannot blame those people, we can only blame Doudehui for not mastering a principle. This principle is the funnel principle. What does it mean? It is to use a method to automatically filter out those adults who are still 3-year-old children, so as to prevent them from developing a bad habit of opening their mouths for food and reaching for clothes, not knowing how to give, but only knowing how to ask. On the surface, this seems to be very bad for them, but from a long-term perspective, this is beneficial to them. This is truly good education, which seems to be quite cruel, but the consequence of this cruelty is to make children’s lives better in the future and make them more self-reliant and self-reliant, because children will one day live their own lives. For example, a mother forces her child to take care of himself since he is two years old, such as dressing, eating, sleeping, brushing teeth, washing face, etc. In the eyes of other mothers, this is simply unreasonable and a very cruel approach, but If you think more deeply, you will find…does this mother really not love her child? Why does she treat her children like this? There is no other reason, just because this mother loves her child very deeply. This profound love cannot be seen at the time, but after a certain period of time, it can be reflected in the child. This is Long term true love. On the contrary, those mothers who seem to truly love their children at the time will show the disadvantages of only loving their children when they grow up, and this disadvantage will double the harm to the child. life, because once some habits are formed, it is difficult for a person without self-control to change them and can only follow them throughout his life. This serious habit will be followed to the next generation of children and grandchildren, so it will cause endless harm. Therefore, on the other hand, if a mother appears to be very vicious from the beginning, her children\’s behavior and moral thoughts will be very pure, and they will be passed on to the next generation, so this is an endless gain. These are two different kinds of mothers. One is vicious on the surface, but actuallyProfound true love, one kind of true love on the surface, is actually profound poison! In the same way, in order to filter out adults who are 3-year-old children, Doudehui\’s approach may seem cruel on the surface, but in the long run, it will only benefit it. Let those people know that there is never a free lunch in this world, and they must follow the laws of heaven, that is, only by giving can you gain, and only by giving up a certain amount can you receive equivalent rewards. If this kind of thinking could be implanted into children\’s hearts from a very young age, there would not be so many living dead people in this society who are lazy and live on charity from others. And if you unfortunately meet such a person, what should you do? It\’s very simple, save whoever you can if you have a chance to save. Saving here does not refer to material charity, but refers to a person\’s heart. You must remember that directly giving something to others is never as important as teaching others how to obtain that thing themselves. Ten thousand times, this is the truth that it is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish. In other words, a dark heart can never support a bright smiling face! And if you encounter those that can be saved, it will be more worry-free. Just let them rot on their own, and just avoid them from a distance. What is this? This is the natural way of heaven. It never imposes anything on all things. It just allows it to be natural. Life is self-birth, and death is self-death! This is just like the resources on Doudehui. The rules have been clearly stated, and the information has been introduced in text, and then just let it take its course. And some people don\’t follow the rules, so they have to implement the laws of nature and death. For example, it is okay to add friends after paying, but some people add friends without paying, and they do not explain the reasons for adding friends. Then there are only two options. What? One is to give a chance to see if it can be saved as mentioned above, and the other is to directly kill and avoid from a distance. There is no third possibility, because this society is so smoky that it is impossible to breathe freely. I only hope that in the world that China will take charge of in the future, the gentleman\’s ethics advocated by Mencius of benefiting oneself only when one is poor, and benefiting the world when one is prosperous can return as soon as possible!