What is the fate of those who give birth to twins?
Twin twins refer to twins with one boy and one girl. It is a rare and special situation. In traditional Chinese culture, giving birth to a dragon and a phoenix is regarded as a symbol of good luck, implying a prosperous family and descendants. However, what is the fate of those who give birth to twins? Below, this article will explore it from several different angles.
1. Family pressure and expectations
Parents who give birth to twins often pay more attention and look forward to their children because of their special status, hoping that they can become the pride and hope of the family. This puts tremendous family pressure and expectations on children. Twins who grow up in this environment tend to be psychologically sensitive and easily feel restrained and burdened by the expectations of their parents or family.
In addition, because the special status of twins born with twins often attracts social attention, they will also bear additional pressure from public opinion and media attention. Some parents may over-promote and show off their children, which can also put unnecessary pressure on their children. Therefore, parents need to pay attention to their words and deeds to avoid having a negative impact on their children.
2. The trouble of dual gender identity
Since the twins are a boy and a girl, they may have more doubts and worries about their gender identity. For girls, they need to face the fixed gender roles and expectations of women in traditional society, while boys need to face the social expectations and responsibilities of men. For those who have twins, it is even more difficult to find the gender role and identity that suits them.
In addition, there may also be differences in personality and interests between twins. They need to find their own direction through careful family education and independent choices, thereby getting rid of the fixed gender roles imposed on themselves.
3. Balance between individual development and social identity
Having twins often requires finding a balance between individual development and social recognition. They need to maintain their individuality and ability to think independently while also adapting to society\’s expectations and recognition. This is not easy for twins, because their identities have been given certain expectations and labels.
Therefore, in the process of educating children, parents need to pay attention to cultivating their children\’s personality and independence, while also allowing them to adapt to social recognition and adaptability.
4. Advantages and opportunities of special status
Although having twins may bring some troubles and pressures, it also has its own unique advantages and opportunities. Because of their special status, they often receive attention and appreciation from society. They are also more likely to be valued and nurtured by their parents, laying a better foundation for their future.
In addition, twins with twins are more likely to be regarded as suitable partners, and their pairings are more talented and tendentious. This also brings more opportunities and benefits to their marriage.
Conclusion
In general, the fate of people who give birth to twins is not fixed. Different growing environments and family education will have different impacts. Parents need to pay attention to their children\’s physical and mental health and individual development, and help them find a suitableown development path. At the same time, society also needs to respect and understand the identities of twins and provide them with more opportunities and choices.
