The humorous conversation story between mother and child is worth saving for a lifetime

These four points are more important than grades. Son: Mom, I want to ask you a question. Mom: Tell me what the problem is. Son: Seriously, are you satisfied with my current results? Mom: Tell yourself, are you satisfied with yourself? Son: I think it’s okay. I should be able to get into a key high school. Mom: That’s fine. Sometimes confidence is more important than scores. Son: Huh? Do you really not care about my grades? Mom: Of course, I asked you about your scores when. Son: I remember when I first entered junior high school, you tore up my test papers. Mom: I\’m not angry about your poor grades, but I see you scrawling on the test paper, scribbling and drawing, and not having a good study attitude. You must have a correct attitude at a young age. This is also the attitude of a human being. Son: Then I am in junior high school now, why do you always ask me about my class? Mom: Because I saw from your class that you respect teachers and knowledge. If a student disrupts the class and does not listen carefully, there will be problems with his education. No matter how good your grades are, what\’s the use? Son: Well, then when I go to high school, you will definitely care about my grades. Mom: Maybe, because it’s related to the college entrance examination, but it’s more about your learning process, spend the three years of high school with a good attitude, and enjoy the learning process. I think the results are not much different. Son: What about college? I heard that when you go to college, you just study and have fun at the same time. Mom: When you get to college, what Mom values ​​most is your grades! Son: Ah, why? Mom: Because everyone was playing at that time. If you have good grades, it means you can resist temptation better than others. Whether in study or life, you are more self-disciplined than others and will gain more. Son: Mom, I understand. Children\’s literature writer Roald Dahl\’s 13-volume collection of Chinese versions of the e-book Mom: When you were in elementary school, your mother cared about your attitude towards studying; when you were in junior high school, you cared about your conduct when studying; when you were in high school, you cared about your mentality when studying; When you are in college, care about your own self-discipline. Because every stage of life has different requirements, it is impossible for a mother to blindly pursue scores and ignore the fundamentals of being a human being: attitude, upbringing, mentality and self-discipline. Anyone who does these things will definitely have good results in life. Attitude When I was a teacher for two years, I met many students. There was one boy who impressed me deeply. He studied very well and was always at the top of every exam. Teachers often use him as examples to encourage everyone to study hard. As far as I know, he doesn\’t have any talent, he just takes everything seriously. Everyone could do or not do the exercises assigned by the teacher, but he would always complete them seriously. Everything will be treated well. Although not all results will be as expected, you will always gain something if you do it. There are two possibilities for people to learn, one is forced and the other is voluntary. Therefore, I often hear people say this: If someone had forced me, I would be a pianist now. If someone had pushed me, I would be sitting on a million dollars now. If someone had pushed me, I would be the big boss now. But there are not so many regrets in life, so it is necessary to tell your children: learn from books and learn fromLearn from others, summarize and reflect on yourself. Your attitude towards learning determines the height of your life. I often see candid photos of children taking off their shoes in the teaching building, mothers covering their children\’s feet on the subway… Everyone\’s education is reflected in subtle actions, which subtly affects the growth of their children. A must-read extracurricular book for primary school students, Nate the Great Detective, 26 volumes, a complete set of Nate the great audio + epub + mobi. Many children do not understand: being mean and humorous are two different things, speaking out and being frank are two different things, being uneducated and being casual are two different things. Two different things, indiscriminateness and uprightness are two different things. I once had a dinner party with many friends. One of them had a flamboyant personality. He always spitted at the table and spit everywhere when talking. He wanted to grab every dish that was served. He completely ignored our disgusted looks and just enjoyed himself. . A very profound and practical saying comes to mind: Not taking advantage is reflected in education; dealing with favors is reflected in self-cultivation. No matter how glamorous you dress, a person\’s education is always the highest level of showing off wealth. Writer Bi Shumin once said: A person can be educated, but he is still uneducated. Just like a person can eat continuously, but his intestines and stomach cannot absorb it, and the water in the bamboo basket is empty, and he is still as thin as a stick. The upbringing in childhood is a mirror of what one will grow up to be. Not all low qualities can be \”just wait until they grow up\”. And often what you wait until the end becomes a habit, which is never easy to correct. I always believe in a saying: People can admit defeat, but they can never afford to lose! Once, my child fell a dozen places in an exam, and the teacher told me about the situation. The child didn\’t say a word after he came home, and he didn\’t even eat dinner. I knocked on his door and saw his depressed look. I just wanted to tell him one fact: no one in this world wins all the time. It doesn\’t matter if you lose. You can start over from the beginning. But what I\’m afraid of is that I can\’t afford to lose. From now on Devastated. There is a very inspiring saying on Zhihu: Those who cannot afford to lose will not be able to win in the end. Especially children, it is normal to be afraid of losing and want to be first, and it is the only way for children to grow up. Treat learning gains and losses with a good attitude, which is more important than learning itself. Self-discipline Many children will envy the success of others and feel that some people\’s success is too easy. If they had such good conditions, they would even be stronger than them. But the next thing is, if you have such conditions, you must be able to withstand all these temptations and stick to your persistence. Many people lose, not to their opponents, but to their own hands. There is a saying that goes well, people who can maintain self-discipline can have a cheating life, and only a cheating life can have a happy life. Humorous Three Kingdoms by Zhou Yue [PDF version 32M] For children, it is necessary to proceed from reality to defeat the procrastination of study and life; at the same time, parents should be good role models, grow together, and watch together. There is no so-called perfect life in the world. It all depends on attitude, education, mentality, and self-discipline to achieve everyone\’s different appearance. Each stage of growth has different interpretation methods, but in the end, if you persist, you will definitely gain something. I hope every parent can understand in time the best way to teach their childrenEducation is to help children shape their personality and interpret life.