While eating in the morning, my daughter accidentally spilled the milk. \”How many times have I told you! You have to concentrate on eating and don\’t fiddle around here and there. Why can\’t you remember it?\” I couldn\’t hold it back and scolded her impatiently. After a while, I felt very guilty and blamed myself. After all, today is Children’s Day. So I apologized to my daughter and asked her: \”Are you angry?\” My daughter pursed her lips and replied: \”Very angry.\” I asked again: \”Then do you still like mom?\” Unexpectedly, my daughter blurted out: \”Yes! Because You are my mother.\” After saying that, she ran over and hugged me… There was once a popular Internet poem \”Choose Mom\”, which touched countless parents. The author of this poem is Jules, who was only 8 years old at the time. You asked me what I was doing before I was born, and I answered, I was choosing my mother in the sky. I saw you and thought you were really good at wanting to be your son. But I thought I might not be so lucky. I didn’t expect that I would already have every child in your belly the next morning. They were all once angels. They once lay on the clouds and carefully selected their father and mother. They chose you, and then threw away countless treasures in the sky and came to you naked like a little beggar with nothing. They pretend to be helpless, but in fact they only have one idea in mind, which is to love you wholeheartedly. In fact, your children love you more than you think. There was a video recently that made my heart melt. http://www.doudehui.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/0bf2aqabgaaahyadx34zn5pfabgdcmcaaeya.mp4 The first little boy was afraid that the electric car seat cushion would get wet when his mother came back, so he used his hat to protect the seat cushion from the rain. Also wipe it repeatedly with your sleeve. Another little boy, even though he was so scared of the suspension bridge that he cried, still mustered up the courage to \”rescue\” his mother. There are also cute babies who cry and ask their father to go home. They would rather \”starve themselves to death\” than let their father earn money to buy milk powder in the store. You never know how much your children love you. ▼In the subway car, the little boy let his tired mother lean on his shoulder, maintaining the same posture throughout the journey. An even more heartwarming scene occurred before getting off the car: After my mother woke up, she gave her a loving kiss. Mom, you are already very tired from work. Take a rest. I will call you when you arrive at the station. Although I only have small shoulders, I can still give you great warmth. ▼My mother suddenly had a stomachache on the road and was about to give birth. She was in critical condition. The boy was worried about his mother, so he ran around in circles. Finally he met a driver who stopped and knelt down to him… Although the man had gold under his knees, this was the greatest sincerity a child could think of. This kneeling revealed a man. ▼Every time my father comes back from other places, he will buy himself many gifts. This mouthful of watermelon fed by the little girl to her father can also become the best gift this summer. When being interviewed, my father said something very romantic: \”She staggered and handed the watermelon to my mouth, which was better than all the sweetness this summer.\” ▼When the doctor gave my mother an injection, the child on the side cried and blocked the needle with his little hands: \”Don\’t prick my mother, it will hurt my mother.\” This needle hurt more than pricking myself. ▼The kindergarten carried out an earthquake escape drill. After the little boy evacuated to the playground, he cried bitterly and kept chanting \”Mom\”. It turned out that he took the drill seriously and was worried that his mother would not be able to escape at home. Later, the teacher told him that his mother had evacuated safely, and he stopped crying. I asked again and again: \”Is mom really safe?\” When the sky fell, I wanted to stay with my mom, and I wanted to protect her. ▼While eating, the mother wanted to tease her daughter and deliberately put the child\’s favorite sausage into her bowl. I thought the child would be unhappy, but unexpectedly, the child\’s reaction was to give all the sausages in his bowl to his mother. In the eyes of your children, you always come first. If you need anything, he will do it without hesitation or hesitation. Never underestimate the love your children have for you. They may not even have the words to say it yet, but they are born to love you. Every child is here to repay a favor in this life. Do you remember the little boy named Lu Zikuan? Eight years ago, Lu Zikuan’s father, Lu Yanheng, was diagnosed with myelodysplastic syndrome, a pre-leukemia condition. In order to treat the disease, the family spent more than 500,000 yuan. In the end, the money was spent and the condition worsened. Doctors said that a bone marrow transplant was necessary to survive. In the whole family, only sons Lu Zikuan and Lu Yanheng were successfully matched. \”His life has just begun, how can I drag him down?\” But when the son heard that he was the only one who could save his father, he was very happy and patted his chest: Don\’t worry, Dad, I\’m here! However, Lu Zikuan weighed only 60 kilograms at that time, which did not meet the donation standard of more than 90 kilograms. In order to save his father, Xiao Zikuan began the difficult process of gaining weight. Big steamed buns, braised pork, fried eggs, he didn\’t care how many meals he had as long as he could fill his stomach. Before going to bed, I have to eat another bowl of instant noodles and drink a carton of milk. Often I can\’t straighten my waist, and my stomach is so distended at night that I can\’t sleep. The doctor asked him if he felt uncomfortable, and he said: \”There is no way, I can only save my father by eating fat!\” It took three months, and he gained more than 30 kilograms. Finally, he realized his wish, \”The birthday gift I gave to my dad was bone marrow.\” The mother of an 8-year-old girl Xuanxuan was unfortunately diagnosed with leukemia. She is the only one in the family, and she is successfully matched with her mother. In order to save her mother, Xuanxuan eats more meals every day to gain weight. She eats up to 6 meals a day. In Beijing, there is no anesthesia for bone puncture in children, but she didn\’t cry at all. She was just afraid that her mother would worry: \”I didn\’t dare to cry. I told my mother it didn\’t hurt, but it actually hurt.\” I gave you life, and you gave me rebirth. Please believe enough that every child is here to repay the kindness. A child\’s love for his parents is truly unreserved. The world often praises the greatness of father\’s love and mother\’s love. As everyone knows, a child\’s love for his parents is truly \”unconditional\”. There is a short film that leaves a very deep impression on me. \”I asked you to give your child a score, what score would you give?\” Every mother feels that her child is not so perfect: one point will be lost for crying, one point will be lost for being picky, and another point will be lost for being unhygienic. In their minds, children can only get 8 or 7 points.Not even a passing grade. So how do children evaluate their mothers? \”Mom is very beautiful\” \”Mom cooks for me, it\’s very hard\” \”I want to protect my mother\” \”I will be very sad when my mother gets old\” \”I will miss my mother if she doesn\’t accompany me\” \”If it\’s 10 points, you How many points would you give your mother?\” All the children, without exception, gave full marks! One little girl even said it would be 10,000 points. In the eyes of the child, the mother has no shortcomings and is always the most perfect. Mothers cried when their children scored perfect marks for themselves. Because of the surprise, because of the relief, because of the touch, and also a little bit of shame. Parents\’ love for their children is indeed selfless, but it always comes with conditions and expectations. I hope that my children can be more ambitious, better, and better than those from other families. But a child\’s love for his parents is so sincere and pure, without any hesitation. From the time they are born with their chubby little faces, children have given us 100% of all their love, all their kindness, and all their beauty. He loves you just for who you are. No matter how bad you do, his love only grows. The Russian writer Fyodor Dostoyevsky said: \”Being with children can save your soul.\” Many times, it is not we who teach children how to love, but children who teach us how to love. I saw a hot search two days ago. A 4-year-old cute baby spent 30 minutes holding an umbrella for a snail on a rainy day until he saw it \”come home\” with his own eyes. The little girl said that she was worried that the snail’s parents would not come to pick it up, so she had to stay with it. Many people say they feel warmed by their children. 7 god-level CCTV documentaries must be watched by children. But I think what is even more rare is that the child’s mother is waiting patiently for her daughter, not impatient or impatient. It immediately reminds me of the story of \”leading a snail for a walk\”: God gave me a task and told me to lead a snail for a walk. I can\’t walk too fast, the snail has tried its best to crawl, always moving a little bit every time. I urge it, I bully it, I scold it. The snail looked at me with apologetic eyes, as if to say: \”I have tried my best!\” I pulled it, I pulled it, and I even wanted to kick it. The snail was injured, sweating, panting, and crawling forward… It\’s strange, why did God want me to take a snail for a walk? \”Oh God! Why?\” There was silence in the sky. \”Oh! Maybe God went to catch the snail!\” Okay! Let go! Anyway, God doesn’t care, so why should I care? Let the snail crawl forward while I sulk behind. Huh? I smell the fragrance of flowers. It turns out there is a garden here. I felt the breeze. It turned out that the wind at night was so gentle. Wait! I heard the chirping of birds, I heard the chirping of insects, and I saw how beautiful the stars in the sky were. Huh? Why didn’t you have these experiences before? It suddenly occurred to me that I must have made a mistake! It turns out that God asked a snail to lead me for a walk. Every child is a gift from God to us. He is like that snail, taking us to enjoy the most beautiful scenery in the world. Maybe he\’s not perfect, maybe he\’s slow. But my child, please believe: I will not be anxious or harsh; I will accompany you patiently and use unconditional love to accompany you slowly on this journey of life. Thank you, you are willing to be my child in this life.
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