Don’t blame your father for being poor, don’t be as filial as your brothers, don’t blame your wife for being miserable, don’t blame your children for being angry.

In our life, we meet countless people and know countless people. But there are actually not a few people who are truly important. Our parents who gave birth to us, our brothers and sisters whose blood is thicker than water, our partners who grow old hand in hand, and the children who support us, these are the most important people in our lives. They are the most sincere to us, the closest to us, and are the most trustworthy people in this life. As I grow older, I understand these four truths more and more: I don’t blame my father for being poor, I don’t blame my brother for being filial, I don’t blame my wife for suffering, and I don’t blame my children for being angry! We don’t blame our parents for being poor. They gave us life, raised us, and educated us. Within the scope of their ability, they give everything they have and give the best. As children, you should be grateful and don\’t blame your parents for being poor or incompetent because your life is not as you wish or when you can\’t make money. Parents give life, and life depends on oneself. What kind of life you live and what kind of future you have depends on whether you work hard and make progress instead of complaining that your parents can\’t give you what you want. No matter how difficult or poor life is, people who know how to be grateful and filial to their parents, do not blame their father for being poor and always show filial piety, must have good conduct. Whether one is filial to one\’s parents or not is one\’s own business. Treating one\’s parents well is for peace of mind. Never compare yourself with your siblings. Everyone has a different way of being filial to their parents. Whether you are filial to your brothers or not depends entirely on your own consciousness. Especially when your parents are sick and hospitalized, you should contribute your own money and effort to take care of food and drink, and don\’t have any objections to other siblings. Be filial to your parents and do not need to compare. Comparing yourself with your siblings will inevitably cause conflicts and make your parents even more disappointed and heartbroken. Do your duty according to your conscience and honor your parents so that you have a clear conscience. If you compare yourself with filial piety, it is a kind of false filial piety. Husbands and wives are people who will grow old hand in hand, live together, raise children, and understand and cherish each other. But some men, once they live in poverty, will blame their wives and think that it is their wives who are holding them back and bringing bad luck to them. A truly capable man will never shirk responsibility. Always look for the reasons within yourself first, rather than shirk responsibility and blame your wife. As soon as blame is spoken, conflicts will inevitably occur, affecting family harmony and hurting the relationship between husband and wife. Some people in life, when they are wronged at work or have too much pressure in life, are in a bad mood and have nowhere to vent, they will get angry at their children. In their hearts, children are born to them, and it is natural for them to be vicious. No need to pay any price. In fact, for children, family atmosphere will affect their lives. Happy people use their childhood to heal their lives, and unhappy people use their lives to heal their childhood. Therefore, as parents, you must understand that although children are young, they still have self-esteem. Beating and scolding to trample on self-esteem will make children rebellious and become more and more difficult to discipline. Never take it out on your children, and educate them patiently. Whether a person\’s character is good or not can often be seen from his attitude towards his loved ones. A truly well-educated person does not blame his father for being poor, is no more filial than his brother, does not blame his wife for suffering, and does not blame his children for being angry. People who can do these four things will have a smoother life and a better family!