Let your children see the world. What exactly do they see?

I believe many parents have the experience of taking their children to play and travel. Calling a few friends, doing homework seriously, planning the itinerary, dragging a group of children out, noisy, non-stop, exhausted after the trip. Traveling with children is a real hassle. But why do so many parents continue to do this? The answer to many parents and friends is – see the world and let your children experience a different world. There is a very popular saying nowadays: \”The books you read and the roads you travel will eventually become part of your body and mind.\” It means that people should take the initiative to increase their knowledge and enrich their hearts. Children who have seen the world often look more confident and confident than other children. The world, to use an encyclopedia explanation, refers to all kinds of situations in the world, that is, all aspects of the world. Taking your children to see the world is not just about traveling, but also the following aspects. The first way to see the world is to read thousands of books, which is the easiest way to see the world. Kazuo Inamori once said: \”Books teach us things that we cannot experience personally, allowing us to simulate and practice in our minds. Our own direct experience, plus the indirect experience gained from reading, form the spiritual foundation for success in life.\” Books are windows to the world. Without leaving home, children can see the Terracotta Warriors and Horses in China, the pyramids in Egypt, and the Taj Mahal in India; they can learn about the highest mountains, the longest rivers, and the deepest canyons; why it rains, Why do you dream? The answers to these questions can be found in books. The book also contains worlds that children have never set foot on. An excellent book is often a summary of the author\’s many years of knowledge and experience. Every time you read a book, you are talking to a teacher, and you can learn not only knowledge, but also lessons. Books are not only used for learning, but also for improving children’s understanding of the world and helping them establish a correct worldview and values. After reading a lot of books, I began to clear the clouds and see the sun. If children can read and think, they will be more calm and confident in their conversations in the future. The second kind of world view is \”traveling thousands of miles\”. \”Traveling thousands of miles\” means that when the children reach a certain age, take them out to walk and see as much as possible. Many children are addicted to the virtual world in electronic products at a young age and have very little interaction with the real world. One of the ways to avoid this kind of phenomenon is to take your child out for walks and sightseeing as much as possible when he reaches a certain age. You can take your children to visit various museums to let them experience the depth of history and the subtlety of art; you can take your children to experience the uncanny craftsmanship of nature. The flowers, plants, trees, insects, birds, animals, mountains, rivers, etc. in nature are all the most natural. \”Teaching materials\”; you can take your children to travel, taste local specialties, appreciate local architectural styles, and experience different scenery. Families with the conditions can take their children to travel and experience the cultural customs of different places; if there are no conditions, the streets, the small park near the home, a mountain or a river in the suburbs are all new experiences for the children. What you see and hear on your journey, both good and bad, are all insights. I know a parent. The teacher assigned a composition with a theme called \”Mountain\”. He took advantage of the weekend to let his daughterThe children took their homework books and drove to the deep mountains in the countryside to climb mountains and observe the mountains… He said: \”Let the children walk in the mountains by themselves for a day, which is the best writing material.\” Traveling to more places does not necessarily mean seeing the world. For children, getting to know and explore the world with their parents is an opportunity to increase their experience. The location is not important, what is important is what you get. The third kind of world is to see the world. Someone asked on Zhihu: \”How important is it to have seen the world?\” One of the answers is very interesting: being able to be particular, being able to make do, being able to enjoy the best, and being able to withstand the worst. of. Having seen the world, they will naturally exude a different temperament among the crowd, gentle but powerful, humble but connotative. When parents educate their children, they often focus on letting their children enjoy the best, but neglect to let their children see real life. I overheard this story a few days ago: There was a high school student who was wearing all famous brands, and his clothes and cell phone were all the most expensive brands. When I want something, I ask my parents in various ways, and I always get it in the end. On my birthday, I treat my classmates to dinner, and I pay the bill of more than 1,000 yuan. As for his parents, they are usually reluctant to order a piece of fried rice. The most common thing they say is: \”What are you going to do with these wasted money!\” In this family, the life the children live is a \”fake life\”, and their parents give them It gives the child the illusion that his life is superior and well-deserved. Tao Xingzhi said that life is education. Adults should not complain to children about the difficulty of life, but children should see the true face of life. A friend likes to take his children to the vegetable market, which is full of human fireworks. He thinks that here he can let his children truly feel what \”life\” is. Here, the children understand that every dish their mother makes requires money to buy ingredients and takes time to prepare. It is tedious and not easy. This is life. One day, in a vegetable market full of vendors, an 80-year-old man set up a stall selling vegetables at the door. The child saw this and took the initiative to drag him to the old lady\’s stall. At that moment, he was very relieved because the child already knew how to express his kindness. Only children who understand what a good life is like, see how people who carry heavy burdens live, and witness these various aspects of life will cherish the life they have now even more. The fourth kind of world view is to see the human heart. Seeing the world view also includes seeing the human heart. Parents have always encouraged their children to make more friends, but we rarely teach our children how to get to know someone objectively. From the moment a child is born, he or she is destined to interact with different people. People\’s hearts are complex, and protection alone cannot completely prevent children from being harmed in interpersonal relationships. We must admit that not everyone around us is worthy of our interaction. One of the responsibilities of parents’ education is to teach their children to view everyone in a diverse way. Take your child to participate in various parent-child activities inside and outside school, and you can also take him to adults\’ dinner parties to let him learn how to deal with different people. When you meet more people and understand the vast differences between people, you will slowly form a complete set of life values, be able to distinguish between good and evil, be able to view others with tolerance, and fully tolerate and accept the differences of others. Peng Lei, the lead singer of New Pants Band, said: “As long as there is a performance, I willI will try my best to take my daughter with me. Although she is young, it is always good to see more of the messy people in society. Most girls are fooled because of their ignorance. Let my daughter be exposed to these things first so that she will not be deceived by these things when she grows up. \”To create such children with the ability to think independently, parents need to be able to \”chat\”, use inspiring dialogues to guide children\’s thinking, and encourage children to use their brains. I have friends around me who like to chat with their children about life, especially after their children enter junior high school. As long as children are interested in various aspects of society, ranging from the international situation, parents are willing to talk about it. In this collision of ideas, children can see and understand people and things from different perspectives. Julie Lisko, a well-known American educator Heims once said: \”Conversation is the best mechanism for practicing and observing the results of critical thinking. \”Able to read and think, children will be more calm and confident in their conversations in the future. This tolerance will eventually turn into knowledge and cultivation. Click \”Like\” at the end of the article to encourage you.