Reasons why children become stupid

All parents hope that their children will be smart and have high emotional intelligence and shine wherever they go. However, when their children are young, they do a lot of \”good deeds\” that steal their children\’s IQ, especially these five \”idiot behaviors\”. The more often you do it, the dumber your child will be. Do not communicate with the baby. Many novice parents take care of the baby while holding the baby and watching short videos on their mobile phones. They rarely communicate with the baby\’s body and eyes. Some people even think that the baby cannot speak yet and the baby will not understand when you talk to him. How ignorant! 0-3 years old is the peak period of brain development. Every word you say is gold and can help children establish neuronal connections. Every time you make eye contact or touch your body, your pituitary gland releases oxytocin, making your baby feel at ease. The more sense of security you give your baby at this time, the closer the psychological distance between the child and others will be. When the child grows up, he can talk to you about everything and get along comfortably with others. Babies who stay at home develop their five senses through attachment and stimulation, that is, slowly improving their brain network through vision, hearing, taste, smell and touch. The first three years after a baby is born are the peak period of interconnection between brain neurons. The brain needs a lot of sensory stimulation to fully develop. If parents stay at home all the time and don\’t take their children out to play, the children will have fewer opportunities to be exposed to new things, and their brains will not be able to get enough stimulation. A small tree needs to chase sunlight to extend its branches and leaves, and a baby\’s brain needs to experience and discover the world around it in order to tap into all its potential. Therefore, no matter how inactive you are, you must make changes for your baby and take him out more often so that he can play happily and explore freely. A study by Harvard University found that 3.2% of children who witnessed their parents fighting frequently would develop brain atrophy, while 19.8% of children who were often exposed to verbal violence would have brain atrophy. Some people think that babies are small and don’t understand anything. In fact, the baby is very sensitive to the environment and facial expressions. He can judge the discord between his parents from the expressions, tone of voice, and suffocating low pressure of his parents. A small argument may not be as depressing as a serious argument, but any argument between parents activates the brain to release adrenaline and cortisol, creating unnecessary stress. Therefore, children who grow up with parents quarreling often have explosive tempers due to an overactive stress response system, and it is difficult to calm themselves down. It can be seen that long-term quarrels between husband and wife will not only make the child more and more \”stupid\”, but also steal the child\’s emotional ability, because he has always been insecure, he does not know how to love himself, and he does not know how to love himself. one person. Use mobile phones as nannies In order to calm down the baby, many parents will show their mobile phones to their babies, or even use mobile phones as nannies, letting their children hold the mobile phones and play with them whenever they have time. Not to mention that the radiation released by mobile phones can disrupt neural networks and reduce the efficiency of the brain in processing information. The fact that it hinders brain development is enough to eat a pot. The brain needs nourishment from the five senses, such as the caregiver\’s warm words, gentle eyes, and the sounds of nature, in order to better develop the child\’s IQ and EQ. The more time you spend playing with your mobile phone, the more time you spend playing and communicating.There is less, so children raised on mobile phones are less talkative, have poor attention span, and find it difficult to get along comfortably with groups. Some parents always feed their children soft food because they are afraid that their babies will not be able to chew hard food, so they give their children soft food. In fact, giving children moderate amounts of hard food can activate various brain areas and promote brain development. Because chewing can increase blood flow to the brain, and a large amount of information will be transmitted to the brain through the five senses, which can activate the sensory system and motor system of the brain at the same time. From the \”brain map\” drawn by Penfield (above), we can see that the mouth is one of the parts of the human body that stimulates the brain most deeply and extensively, second only to the fingers. Therefore, don’t waste a good opportunity to strengthen your brain. Your baby can eat lumpy food at 9 months old. At this time, slowly give him some slightly hard food. Cut carrots and apples into thick strips. Grind his teeth and exercise his chewing power.