Insights into children’s education methods and methods

All children are the apple of the family\’s eye. How can a mother not pamper her when she is pregnant with the flesh that fell from her body in the tenth month of pregnancy? Not only parents dote on them, but every generation also dotes on their children. Many old people use their last savings to support their grandchildren. However, to give the best to their children, some children will know how to be grateful and repay their families when they grow up, while some people rely on The spoiled and arrogant person went astray and relied on his family members all his life, but in the end he turned into a white-eyed wolf and continued to chew on the elderly and be unfilial. Case: Master Chen opened a steamed stuffed bun shop at the entrance of an alley in the city. He was an honest man. His steamed stuffed buns were large with thin skin and delicious. He was very popular among the neighbors. Even though making breakfast was very busy and hard, every time he heard that others He felt very satisfied with the compliments received. The increasing number of repeat customers also made Master Chen feel that his hard work was not in vain. But recently, Master Chen discovered that a mother often brought her son over for breakfast. The son was chubby. The reason why he was so impressed with them was because every time they only bought meat buns, and when they sat aside to eat, his son They would tear the meat buns in half, then pick out the meat filling and eat it themselves. The mother on the side not only did not blame him, but also helped him pick out the meat fillings, and then ate the bun skins herself. Master Chen did not see an unhappy expression on the mother\’s face. Instead, she acted very happy and praised her son. Awesome. So one day Master Chen finally couldn\’t stand it anymore and walked up to the children and told him that what he was doing was wrong. To be filial to your mother, you should share the good things with your mother instead of letting her eat the leftover bun skins. Thinking that this child was still impatient, he responded rudely to Master Chen, saying that his mother only wanted the best for him, and she only ate meat and not the bun skins. How do parents communicate with their children? The most acceptable way of education for children. Mobi made Master Chen unexpectedly. Normal mothers should reprimand their children for such rude and rude behavior, but this mother actually told her son not to be angry. It was like serving a child. Like an emperor. Then the son added: Mom, this old man is so annoying. We will never eat his buns again. Mom actually agreed, and the two of them packed up and left. Master Chen felt speechless. What kind of family could pamper such a lawless child, such a naughty child and parents who knew nothing about their mistakes? He would not welcome such customers. In fact, it is not uncommon in our country for families to poison their children in the name of love. Such poisonous buns have harmed many children after applying arsenic of doting. So how should parents educate their children to prevent them from being spoiled? 01 Rules must be set to prevent children from thinking that they are pampered by everyone, so they are no longer big or small. They shout at their elders at home, speak rudely, and are extremely rude. Let him have a sense of superiority and inferiority, treat his elders with respect, and not necessarily punish him if he does something bad. Let him know that such mistakes will never be made again in the future. He must learn the rules when he is young. Once established, there is no rule without rules. As long as you correct your thoughts, it will be much easier to discipline in the future. 02 Do a good job of gratitude education to let children know that the love and good material conditions they receive are not natural.It is reasonable to say that his family loves him, so he is like this. Children should know how to be grateful and thank their family for their love and protection. At the same time, they should report to their family what they can do. For example, to thank their mother for buying them a new toy, they can help. Mom does housework. 03 Parents can control their own limits of love and can pamper their children, but they cannot develop into over-indulging. This will only make the children go further down the wrong path, have poor independence, become violent, and even not only fail to support the elderly, but also absorb every last drop of their parents. Blood, many problems in children are due to parents\’ failure to grasp the limits and methods of love. True love is to do something that is beneficial to the child\’s future and development. I believe you have seen many cases of \”poisonous steamed buns\” being eaten by parents in real life. In order to prevent their children from becoming like that, perhaps parents should adjust their education methods appropriately.