It’s a long summer vacation, you have to have a plan, otherwise you won’t be able to make it to the start of school

Whether you want it or not, summer vacation will come naturally for two months a year. Two months, 62 days, I can\’t let my baby play all the time… Mainly because I don\’t have the conditions. The baby gets bored after only two days of playing at home. If I send it out for travel, a week of discharge is already the limit of my wallet. Looking at it this way, I still have to make my summer plans, otherwise I can’t imagine how my painting style will turn out in these sixty days. Come on, it’s time for the annual summer vacation plan to make its grand debut again. As an \”old-timer\” who has been working on the project for three consecutive years, I don\’t have much success experience. After all, after three years of planning, I still haven\’t turned my child into a top student. I feel ashamed. But in the past three years, I have still come up with some immature suggestions. While avoiding the chaos of summer vacation, my children can also make some progress. First, make a plan that balances your child\’s abilities with your expectations. In the past two years, I have seen too many summer schedules on the Internet. Like me, everyone is probably immune to them. The maker and executor of this kind of watch is definitely not a common mother like us. Even if I have the intention to be on par with the cow mother, what is the use of putting a messed up baby on the table. So, just take a look at it. Planning comes down to two words: execution. An unexecuted plan is like a piece of loose sand. It doesn’t need the wind to blow it. It will fall apart in two days. So how can we make the baby obediently carry out the plan we worked so hard on? First of all, don’t overestimate your baby’s abilities. It’s normal for mothers to have some “small goals”. The right to dream should always be given to us! If you can\’t even dream, 🐔what motivation will your child have? However, you still have to be more practical when arranging tasks and homework for your child. Before making plans, you can check your child\’s test scores for this semester, which will help you wake up a lot🐶. The most taboo thing is to watch someone else do the Mathematical Olympiad. You should also sign up for the class. If your goal is too high, you will be easily frustrated. If you continue to suffer setbacks, people may give up the burden and stop doing it. In that case, everything is versatile. Secondly, the child’s opinion is actually quite important. When making plans, you have to consider who is the central figure in this matter, and it is obviously not the parents here. You stayed up all night and made a perfect plan for your child, but if the child doesn\’t agree with it, then you will only be moved by yourself. In the lower grades, the children are still young and not enlightened. If you suppress them with force, they can only cooperate obediently. By the third grade, the seeds of resistance begin to sprout. In the upper grades, you have to act based on his face. To be honest, parents sometimes assign a bunch of tasks to their children under the guise of \”I\’m doing this for your own good.\” So, let\’s be honest, summer vacation is a holiday for children. Except for the tasks given by the school, everything else is \”mother\’s homework\”. As long as you write an extra word, it is a gift from your baby. Generally speaking, we can pull the baby over, have a chat with him, listen to his ideas, and then combine it with the old mother’s own “sweet dream” to customize a plan that the child feels “is not that tired and is willing to implement it.” plan. After considering these two points thoroughly, we can sit down and turn on the computer to type. Set the tone. The entire summer vacation plan should be a small node in the child\’s long-term learning plan. What are the long-term plans, such as whether there is a plan to advance from junior high school to junior high school?Are there any arrangements for KET/PET? Or realistically, I would like to go to a key high school in the future. Then summer vacation plans need to be determined based on this long-term plan. All results are not achieved overnight. Only when every previous step is taken steadily and correctly can we get a satisfactory result in the end. For example, the eldest son of our family is a pure science student who likes mathematics and physics. He is planning to participate in some competitions to see if he can help out a little bit. (I don’t know if it’s useful, I’ll tell you after I take part.) If you want to win the competition, Xiao Ao cannot avoid it. This means that the school mathematics must be at least one year ahead of schedule, so the eldest son’s arrangement for himself this year is to finish reading the 5th grade Mathematics textbooks, this is also a step that needs to be completed in our long-term planning. The second child’s ambition is still a bit confusing at the moment, but I think it is very cost-effective to study English in the lower grades. This way, when he has his own direction in the future, he can also free up time to specialize, so English learning is the focus of the second summer this year. . Of course, the annual plan must be consistent, and parents must first have a map in mind. To this end, plans should be coherent and clear about what the lower grades should do, what the upper grades should do, and what should be done during the summer vacation from primary school to junior high school. This is the general tone of the entire summer vacation plan, and it can also be regarded as the focus of the plan. Don\’t be greedy for too much of this kind of focus. If you can complete 1-2 key tasks in one summer vacation, it will be the best. When it comes to making summer plans, you won\’t become fat if you eat in one sitting. Being patient is also a kind of self-cultivation as a parent. Next, don\’t look too good during the execution of your plan. The best strategy is to turn a blind eye and give your child some room to make mistakes. The reason why I don’t like the kind of precise schedule is because it is too rigid for children. Once the task is not completed within the time limit, your irritability and your child’s frustration will not be far away. For example, what should you do if your child needs to go to the toilet halfway through homework? Seeing that my child just can\’t solve this question, what should I do if the time is almost up and I have to move on to the next task? Children are very nervous during school. How can they bear it if they have to do everything meticulously during summer vacation just like going to school? As long as the child is following the plan, the road is not going astray. If you are asked to memorize 10 words and only memorize 8, that’s okay. There is no need to hold on to what the child has not done. Look at the parts he has completed. He has also sacrificed his own time to play. This is not worthy of encouragement. What! Some people say that if you can’t complete your plans, what’s the point. Of course it makes sense. Without planning, the progress bar can only be zero. After making a plan, even if I bargain with you or cut corners in execution, at least my room for concessions will be within my expectations. Having a plan and a goal can at least serve as an anchor. The child will have some idea and understand that I still have some tasks to carry out. If you don’t have a plan, you will have to face your baby’s confused eyes every day: Who am I, where am I, and what am I going to do today? I don’t need to say more about how to choose. Planning is the beginning, execution is the process, and to complete this matter, you must review it in the end. This review is not just a summary of the completion of the task, but more of a review of the baby\’s holiday. lookLook at what you have accomplished during the vacation and how far you are from your original goal; talk about the difficult parts of your child\’s implementation. Although he may not be able to correct his next summer vacation plan, being able to correctly understand himself is also an improvement. . Of course, special praise must be given to those things he has accomplished during this summer vacation, such as memorizing some ancient poems, reading a few short essays, persisting in physical exercise for a few days, and reading several books. None of us are novice parents anymore. If we expect to overtake others in a roundabout way during the summer vacation, who doesn’t have a clear family background? The possibility is slim. No matter how complete the execution of the plan is, it would be good if he could understand the relationship between goals, plans, time, and efficiency; if the child learns to organize his own life during the summer, he will prioritize important things. If you do, that would be great; if your children find that they have gained some advantages in study or life through their efforts during the summer vacation, and want to work hard for a better self, that would be great! As for us parents, it is just gratifying to see him making some progress and growing up compared to himself in the summer vacation plans year after year. You think, is this the reason?