How to raise mentally strong children

How to be a good parent? How to raise children better? Today I will share with all parents 8 educational rules. Parents who understand some psychology will not suffer any disadvantages when educating their children. 1. Fish Tank Law: Spiritual growth requires freedom: A few small fish have been raised in a fish tank for several years, but they are still very small. People thought that this fish was just small. Until an accident broke the fish tank and put it into a pond to raise. Unexpectedly, the fish grew so big like crazy. Insight: Parents should give their children their own space. 2. The south wind effect: the power of cultivating children\’s self-consciousness: South Wind and North Wind made a bet, who can let passers-by take off their clothes first. The north wind blows hard, so pedestrians wrap themselves up tighter and tighter; while the south wind blows slowly, pedestrians feel warm and take the initiative to take off their clothes. Insight: Tolerance + guide children and let them grow up consciously. 3. Watch Law: Set clear goals for children: When you only have one watch, you can know exactly what time it is; when you have two different watches, it will cause confusion in your own perception of time. Insights: Parents’ educational concepts should be consistent and do not leave their children at a loss. 4. The Law of Natural Punishment: Let the children bear the consequences: John would always forget to bring food to school. At first, his mother would always send it to him because he was afraid of being hungry. Later, my mother changed her approach. She only reminded me but no longer delivered meals. As a result, John was hungry all afternoon and never had the same problem again. Insight: Children should learn to take responsibility for their own actions. 5. Delayed gratification: Cultivate children\’s patience: The psychologist selected a few children, gave each one a candy, and said, \”Eat now, if you can, I will give you one; if you eat it in 20 minutes, I will give you another candy.\” \”Later, after follow-up, it was found that children who can wait for 20 minutes are often more likely to succeed. Insights: It is important to cultivate children\’s focus and perseverance and learn to delay gratification. 6. Broken window theory: Provide a good environment for children: If you don’t repair a broken window in the house, other windows will be broken inexplicably soon. Because broken windows can create a sense of disorder. Insights: A clean and warm home with a loving couple is the foundation for children. 7. The Law of Respect: Spiritual growth requires respect: In class, the teacher took out a book and told a story. After you finish telling the story, ask the children to tell another story. The latest and most complete 2023 [Kindergarten, Junior High and High School] premium VIP course catalogs from famous teachers in various disciplines on the entire network, click to view now! Later, although the story told by the child was very simple, the teacher still carefully wrote it down and put it with the book. Insight: Children have their own ideas, and parents should respect them instead of ignoring them. 8. Overlimit effect: Don’t criticize children too much: A writer participated in a fund-raising speech. At first, he felt that the speech was very good, and he was ready to donate more money; after ten minutes, he decided to donate less; after another ten minutes, he decided to donate more money. Decided not to donate. Insights: Exceeding limits can easily lead to rebellion. When criticizing children, remember to \”make a mistake once and criticize only once.\” It’s summer vacation again, and parents spend more time with their children again. I hope parents and friends can handle their emotions properly and maintain a good parent-child relationship. I hope everyone can grow upType parents, bring continuous upward energy to their children!