Letting children do housework is of great significance

1. The educator Wei Shusheng highly praised housework (the following are his original words). A person who loves the motherland and the people cannot be seen or touched. If he doesn\’t love his parents, if you say he loves the motherland and the people, don\’t worry, it\’s 100% a lie and there\’s no need for proof. If you talk about loving your parents and talk empty words, isn’t that a lie? You must learn to use actions to care for your parents, and take on the family responsibilities you can shoulder from an early age. A child knows that he feels sorry for you since he was a child. When he grows up, he will naturally feel sorry for the people, the collective and the country. This is simple common sense. I just take care of the little things and do what I can do. My son washed things by himself when he was very young. When he was older, I asked him to wash my feet when he was three or four years old. He didn\’t understand at first, \”Dad, you don\’t know how to wash?\” I said, Dad, how can you wash well and knead it with your little hands? My son is really good at it! Guide him to the right track while he is ignorant. When he grows up, he will feel that it has become a habit and that it is natural to miss you. 2. My personal experience: When I was a child, my family was poor. My parents worked hard to make a living, farming and working every day. They had no time to cook. I had to cook by myself when I was seven or eight years old. Note, it is not as simple as cooking instant noodles, but cooking for the whole family. Without anyone\’s help: 1. Knead the dough, roll out the dough, sprinkle salt and oil into the dough, prepare the raw materials, and then bake the pancakes. There were no gas stoves at that time, so large pots from the countryside were used to make fires. Use a soft fire to bake pancakes, bring in hay from the outside, heat the pot, then add oil and pancakes. One pot can hold four. Then increase the heat and turn the cake until it is cooked. 2. Wash potatoes, cut potatoes, chop green onions, and stir-fry. When I was a kid, I used it at home and was reluctant to use too much oil. I only applied a small layer on the bottom of the pot each time to give it a little fragrance. 3. Cook polenta, occasionally rice porridge (rice was a high-end product at that time), wash the rice, and then put it in a pot to cook. Boil the water over high heat at first, then simmer over low heat. It also depends on the time. Do not burn the pot dry. . I did all these things by myself, unlike today\’s children who pose for pictures in order to complete the teacher\’s homework. Or parents prepare all the ingredients, and the children just need to turn on the heat and stir-fry. Think about it, after school, I have to prepare a dinner within an hour (my parents are still working at the time), so I definitely need to plan accordingly. For example, cook the polenta first and then knead the noodles. When making pancakes, cut the shredded potatoes and pancakes first, because the pan will be clean after pancakes are pancaked. You can stir-fry directly and only brush the pan once. If you stir-fry vegetables first and then pancakes, then It had to be washed again, and the heat on the iron pot was wasted. These planning abilities are completely thought out by oneself. When I saw Hua Luogeng\’s coordination story, I understood it at a glance, because that\’s what I did. 3. The most common mistakes parents make. Parents often complain that their children are slow to do things, especially don’t like to do housework. They only play games at home. In fact, parents don\’t realize that their children\’s enthusiasm is suppressed by their parents. When children take the initiative to do housework, parents do not need to keep an eye on them or direct them from the side. They hope that their children will do it in the best way and in the shortest time. The children are enjoying the process of exploration, and parents can do their own thing, or chat occasionally,When your child encounters difficulties and asks for advice, just give him a hint. The most fearful thing is that if the child does not do well, the parent will directly replace the child. On the surface, it is to help, but in fact it is a disguised form of denying the child and belittling the child. If you help a few times, the child will never do it again [sweat] 4. Finally, do the housework The top 10 benefits of 1. Cultivate a sense of responsibility. You are also a member of the family, and you must contribute to the family, rather than a young master who lives and eats for free. 2. Enhance family cohesion: Understand the difficulties of parents and be more sympathetic to them. Everyone works together to build a small family. 3. Learn life skills: such as cooking, cleaning, organizing, etc. These are basic skills of life. The sooner you learn them, the higher your quality of life will be. 4. Improve self-management ability: Children need to plan time and assign tasks to exercise self-management ability. This is what I feel the most and learn the most from housework. 5. Enhance self-confidence: Every time a household chore is completed, the child will feel a sense of accomplishment, thus improving self-confidence. If you keep your home tidy, you will be in a happy mood and effectively resist depression. 6. Cultivate patience and perseverance: Housework is very trivial and consists of various small things piled together. It requires patience and persistence, which helps children develop these qualities. 7. Exercise hands-on skills: This is to solve real problems, just like when I bake pancakes, I can’t make mistakes in every step. If I forget to put in the salt pancakes, they won’t taste good. This is completely different from watching animations or playing games. 8. Stimulate creativity: In the process of solving household problems, children may come up with new methods or ideas. At this time, parents should encourage their children to try boldly. 9. Cultivate a heart of gratitude: Let children understand the operation of the family and know that every bit of effort at home requires hard work, which can make them more grateful for their family\’s efforts. 10. Teach teamwork: Some housework needs to be completed by family members. How to divide the work, how to cooperate with each other, and how to solve the problem in case of accidents? These will improve children\’s teamwork skills. Take advantage of the summer vacation to discuss household chores with your child. Being reluctant to use your child is harming him!