What should I do if I manage my children until I have an emotional breakdown during the summer vacation?

The summer vacation that children have longed for has arrived, but how should their children spend their summer vacation has been a question that has been bothering every parent. But if parents can realize the true \”meaning\” of summer vacation and realize the possible benefits that high-quality summer vacation can bring to their children, they may not have to worry about it. Every child spends their summer vacation differently. Some children are wild and unruly, while others are strict with themselves. Some children develop interests, while others are keen on tutoring. 01 Different children have different utilization efficiency of summer vacation, and the changes after the start of school are also different. Xiaoji, he quickly entered a learning state after school started. He is very adaptable to school life and can maintain a good routine. Therefore, you can listen to the lectures in the best mental state every time you attend class. Learning is naturally very relaxing, enjoyable and efficient. In addition, Xiaoji\’s physical fitness is also very good. In physical education class, other children were out of breath after running, but Xiao Ji looked relaxed. Xiaoxiang, I get along very well with my classmates since school started. I quickly adapted to collective life and made many good friends. Xiaoxiang has very strong hands-on skills, is dedicated, helpful, and has very correct values. I can see the hard work of others and understand the difficulties of parents and teachers. He is also very attentive to his studies and will not waste any study time at all. Xiaoru, after school started, was the neatest and most efficient child in the class. For example, during class, the teacher asked the students to take out the papers from the last exam. While other children were still rummaging around in their schoolbags, Xiaoru had already taken out the papers and put them away, and packed the books neatly. Therefore, Xiaoru\’s study preparation time is the least at the same time, which also allows Xiaoru to have more study time than others. Xiao Yi showed great \”smart talent\” after starting school. He understands knowledge very quickly, has strong expressive skills and knowledge reserves, and his mind is also very fast. He can answer the questions raised by the teacher fluently and understand the difficult points explained by the teacher easily. In addition, Xiao Yi is also very fast when doing homework. When Xiao Yi finished a paper and checked it again, the other students had not finished yet. These kids are so good! It\’s actually because their parents set summer plans with their children during the summer. And strict implementation will make children become better. How to make children better in the new semester? It is very important to spend the summer reasonably. Parents should pay attention to the following points to \”manage\” their children during the summer. It will be difficult for the children not to be successful. 02 During the summer, parents should strictly control their children on these points. The stricter you control them, the easier it will be for your children to become successful. This is why the above children have shown unique and excellent qualities since the beginning of the new semester. It\’s because their families are stricter about their discipline during the summer. Especially in these aspects, children can be so outstanding after starting school, far exceeding their peers. ●Rule of work and rest Xiaoji can adapt to school life so quickly and maintain a healthy body because of his regular work and rest habit. In fact, we can see the shadow of regular work and rest in every outstanding academic. For example, those top scorers in the college entrance examination all have very regular work and rest schedules.Wake up on time, eat on time, go to bed on time, etc. Almost no top scorer in the college entrance examination often stays up late or sleeps in. Moreover, they all \”balance work and rest\” and know how to improve their own conditions. That’s why they will be full of energy and efficient when they study. [Summer Suggestions]: Parents can make a daily schedule for their children, focusing on setting wake-up, homework, eating, exercise, interest activities and rest times. It is also recommended that you should not get up earlier than 7 o\’clock and go to bed later than 9 o\’clock. ●Participate in labor Xiaoxiang has such strong hands-on and social skills, and is well aware of the difficulties of workers. This is actually because he often participates in labor during holidays. Many parents always tell their children, \”You just need to study hard.\” But in fact, the perfect growth of children requires not only good academic performance, but also labor. CCTV recommends over 500 high-scoring excellent documentaries. Children will become addicted to self-discipline after watching the pattern. Because labor can bring more practical knowledge, social behavior, thinking insights and personal exercise to children, and it is an indispensable component in the growth process of children. part. [Summer Suggestions]: Parents can allow their children to participate in housework at home during the summer. Occasionally take your children outdoors to participate in some volunteer activities, such as environmental protection volunteer work, etc. However, when taking your children to work outdoors, you must pay attention to sun protection and hydration to avoid heat stroke. ●Learn to store and organize Xiaoru’s efficiency in doing things is actually because Xiaoru has developed the habit of organizing and storing things. And has a strong organizational concept and ability. Don’t underestimate your child’s organizing and summarizing habits. If children can develop this habit and arrange all their belongings neatly, it will bring great efficiency to their lives. For example, when wearing a red scarf when going out in the morning, children who like to be neat and tidy often put the red scarf in a fixed place so that they can get it directly when they go out. Some children litter every day and cannot find them anywhere when they go out, which greatly reduces the efficiency of going out. [Summer Suggestion]: Parents should guide their children to tidy up their own rooms. For example, arrange the books on the bookshelf neatly, classify the clothes in the wardrobe, prepare dirty clothes baskets, trash cans, etc. for the children, and let the children develop a habit of putting items back to their original places after use, etc. ●Persist in reading every day. Xiaoyi’s strong knowledge understanding and learning abilities are actually due to the influence of reading. Reading habit is a key habit for children to grow up quickly. Children who like to read can acquire a lot of knowledge from books. Their understanding ability will also be greatly improved by reading different books, which are very useful for learning. [Summer Suggestion]: Parents can apply for library cards for their children at the nearest bookstore or library. Take your children to read books every day, borrow one before leaving, or buy some valuable books for your children, and use your role model to guide your children to establish a reading habit. 03Here I also recommend a set of good books for children to read in the summer, \”Ten Powers of Youth\”. This set of books can comprehensively cultivate the abilities of independent learning, self-management, communication and cooperation, etc., making children become better and better. For example, some childrenLack of initiative in learning, talking a lot, but not speaking up once on stage, not confident, always feeling inferior to others, asking parents to do everything, having no independent opinions when encountering difficulties, etc. This set of books helps children answer all kinds of worries and confusions. This set of books uses 217 excellent growth codes to help children change their thinking, have a good character, and have a big picture. It can be called a good helper for mothers. In addition, the content in this set of books is not a boring methodology that will make children sleepy while reading. Instead, it uses interesting short stories to allow children to happily improve their abilities while reading the stories. Moreover, each suggestion in the book has detailed instructions and is highly operable. Children will gain a lot after reading it. During the summer vacation, if parents don’t know how to “manage” their children, they might as well read this set of books to their children to awaken their children’s inner drive for learning. Strengthen children\’s learning goals and improve learning efficiency, so that children can avoid mistakes and become better. 04 Conclusion Summer is really a good opportunity for children to overtake in a corner, and this \”overtaking\” is not only about academic performance, but also about children\’s personal abilities, emotional intelligence, reverse quotient, thinking, etc. It is an \”overtaking\” of children\’s comprehensive abilities. Children will benefit more in all aspects and become better children.