It’s shocking that a 6-year-old son could reach such a rogue level! Mom couldn\’t help but get angry…

On the weekend, my mother took her six-year-old son Doudou to visit her colleague Aunt Li’s house. Aunt Li’s daughter Xiaoli happened to be at home as well. Aunt Li became very enthusiastic when she saw Doudou and her son. She quickly called her daughter Xiaoli to entertain them. She would bring candy to Doudou and wash fruits for Doudou\’s mother. Doudou\’s mother was chatting with Aunt Li about work matters. Doudou felt that it was boring and went to the park to play. At this time, Aunt Li smiled and said to Doudou: \”Doudou, be good, why don\’t you let me go to play with you?\” Well, sister has a lot of toys.\” \”Okay!\” Doudou was very happy to hear this and clapped her little hands and shouted. Aunt Li said to Xiaoli: \”Xiaoli, take out your toys and play with your brother.\” \”I know, Mom.\” After saying that, Xiaoli took out a lot of toys from her room, some of which There are small trains, puzzles, paintbrushes, etc. Doudou is the darling of his grandparents at home, and everything delicious and fun is given to Doudou first. No, Doudou fell in love with Xiaoli\’s new toy train. He took the little train and said to Xiaoli: \”Sister, your little train is so fun, give it to me.\” The little train was a gift given to Xiaoli by Xiaoli\’s father when he came back from a business trip. The design was unique, and Xiaoli herself She also liked it very much, so Xiaoli politely rejected Doudou. Doudou was very unhappy when he heard this. He immediately sat down on the ground, curled his lips and started crying. Mother Doudou and Aunt Li who were chatting aside quickly ran over and asked what was going on. Doudou cried and said, \”I want my sister\’s little train!\” Doudou\’s mother coaxed Doudou and said, \”The little train belongs to my sister, so I can\’t have it. I\’ll buy Doudou her own little train later, okay?\” ?\” \”No, no, no, I want this! Wuwuwu…\” Doudou\’s behavior made her mother angry and shocked. She didn\’t expect her son to be so rogue and selfish, so she was embarrassed and shouted angrily. : \”The little train is someone else\’s thing, we can\’t have it. You are such a disobedient child. Come home with me now, and I will never bring you to play again!\” Aunt Li quickly advised: \”Doudou is still a child. \”, don\’t be angry with him, it\’s just a toy. Xiaoli gave the little train to her brother, be obedient, and let daddy buy you a new one in the future.\” With that, she gave the little train in Xiaoli\’s hand to Doudou. Doudou\’s mother couldn\’t refuse, so she had to let Doudou take the train home. Xiaoli, who was without the little train, ran to her room and cried aggrievedly. But Doudou, the little train, only played with it for one day and then threw it in the cupboard. Mom looked at the little train in the cabinet and shook her head thoughtfully… When Doudou came back from school on the third night, he found that his favorite Transformers were missing, and he immediately ran over to question his mother. His mother told him that a child came to the house today and the child liked it very much and gave it to him. After hearing what her mother said, Doudou burst into tears. At this time, the mother ignored her son. After the child\’s crying gradually stabilized her mood, she came over and said meaningfully to Doudou: \”You like Sister Xiaoli\’s little train, and Aunt Li was forced to give it to you. You Think about it, is Sister Xiaoli as sad as you are now?\” Doudou wiped the tears from the corners of his eyes. After a while, he lowered his head and said, \”I think Sister Xiaoli is as sad as me. Mom is so sad.God, did I do something wrong? How about we return the little train to Sister Xiaoli together. \”My mother touched Doudou\’s head with her hand and said, \”Doudou is so sensible…\” As a reward, Doudou bought a new Transformers, and Doudou was no longer willful because of what happened to him. Want more than what others have. So, what inspiration does Doudou’s mother’s education method give us? First, parents can teach by words and deeds and set a good example for their children, because children have strong imitation abilities. Then they can slowly guide their children Respect others instead of being self-centered. Second, you can refer to Doudou’s mother’s approach, which can help children learn to think from other people’s perspective. Instead of telling children a lot of truth, it is better to let children think from the other person’s perspective. Question. Directly let the children experience it and come back with more reality. Third, parents can guide their children to know how to empathize with others through small things that happen in life. Let the children be able to think about others instead of just caring about themselves. When If a child is found to have selfish behavior, parents may wish to let the child experience the joy of sharing more, and provide good guidance during the period. Fourth, when the child corrects the bad habit, parents must provide certain encouragement, otherwise they will punish them. Reward the children\’s enthusiasm. When children behave well, you can reward them with some small toys or small things they like, or words of appreciation. In this way, the children will try their best to meet the parents\’ requirements. Fifth, when children Parents should not scold their children for being extremely willful and stubborn for their own desires. This is because the children will have a rebellious mentality, which will worsen the situation. A worse situation will inevitably occur, and it is best to adopt a gentle education method. Theoretical education and practical education are not the same. If applied, there will be good results.