When children steal things at school, the completely different approaches of two teachers are worth pondering for parents.

Today, Xiaoming, a classmate in Mr. Zhang’s class, brought a novel toy—a small doll that can sing and dance. The classmates were envious after seeing it, and they all gathered around Xiaoming and rushed to grab this little doll. Some students asked, \”Xiaoming, where did you buy this doll? I also want my dad to buy one for me.\” Xiaoming said proudly: \”This is because my dad is on a business trip far away. You can\’t sell what you brought back here.\” When the bell rang for the physical education class, the students still surrounded Xiaoming and were unwilling to leave. Xiaoming carefully put the doll into the desk and went to the playground with everyone for physical education class. But when Xiaoming returned to the classroom after the physical education class, he found that the doll on the desk was missing, and he burst into tears in anxiety. Some students were busy comforting Xiaoming, some were helping him find dolls, and some were looking for the class teacher. After a while, the head teacher Xiao Zhang and the Chinese teacher came to the classroom. Teacher Xiao Zhang gave the whole class a serious look and said: \”Who stole Xiaoming\’s doll? Return it to him quickly, or I will find out and stop coming to school!\” Qiang, who had been hiding in the corner, said He glanced at Teacher Xiao Zhang and immediately lowered his head. His hands were clutching his pants tightly. At this time, the Chinese teacher gently said to the students: \”Stealing is a wrong behavior. In serious cases, you will be taken away by the police. If we like something, we can ask our parents to buy it for us, or maybe You can make money to buy it when you grow up, right? If the classmate who took away Xiaoming\’s doll knows that he is wrong, and the teacher gives you a chance to correct it, he will quietly put the doll back on Xiaoming\’s desk after school. Here, okay?\” After returning to the office, Teacher Xiao Zhang was puzzled by the Chinese teacher\’s approach. The Chinese teacher said: \”Children are like small saplings that need to be pruned, but they must master the method and propriety so that the saplings can grow into adults. A towering tree. If we accuse the student face to face, it will not help him realize his mistakes, which will affect his future growth.\” The next morning, Xiaoming found his beloved little doll in his desk. And Qiangqiang, who stole the doll, finally realized his mistake because of the Chinese teacher\’s words, and consciously found the Chinese teacher… Children\’s education is a very important aspect for a family. Of course, education is not only Some knowledge learned in school is also an aspect of education for parents. In family life, parents should pay more attention to their words and deeds in front of their children, because children are easily influenced by the outside world before their sense of right and wrong is formed. Of course, parents also need to pay attention to methods and methods in the process of educating their children. First, you must stay calm. Most parents will become irritable and angry when encountering this kind of problem. Then they reprimand the children loudly, and some even beat them violently. This method is not advisable. Parents should patiently persuade their children as soon as possible to let them understand the seriousness of stealing and the adverse effects it will have on growing up if they are not corrected. The second is to try to let the children tell the reasons for stealing things. I believe that every childZi also goes through a certain amount of inner struggle before going to steal things. Either they like something very much but are too embarrassed to ask their parents for it, or they are possessive, so parents should try to understand their children as much as possible. Only in this way can you know what your child really needs. Finally, you must pay attention to giving your children some small gifts in a timely manner in your daily life. Generally, children will not steal things when their needs are met. Also, you should communicate more with your children and always pay attention to your children\’s psychological activities, which is conducive to the healthy growth of your children.