This is how Jewish natural financiers are trained! It is worth pondering for the Chinese people!

Should we pamper our children materially? Absolutely not. Insightful people have their own unique ideas in educating their children about money. As the saying goes, \”The fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold.\” Rockefeller, the \”Oil King\” of the United States, came from a wealthy family. He received strict \”money education\” from his father since he was a child. His father never gave him pocket money for free, but asked him to work as a \”employee\” to earn through his own labor. Although \” The employer\” is his father. Rockefeller always went to the fields early in the morning to do farm work, and sometimes milked cows. He had a small notebook dedicated to accounting. After finishing his work every day, he calculated his work, recorded it in his account at a wage rate of US$0.37 per hour, and then went to settle the account with his father. After his success, Rockefeller said many times that he did not feel aggrieved by the matter at all. On the contrary, as a young man, he had always done it very seriously, and felt that it was both sacred and full of fun. People all over the world know that the Jewish nation is a nation that attaches great importance to education. An important part of Jewish education for children is the cultivation of children\’s concept of money. Jews believe that money will not tarnish children\’s innocence and simplicity. , Letting children be exposed to money early is very beneficial to the cultivation of children\’s financial management or business abilities. After observation and summary by Western education experts, they found that smart Jews should start cultivating their children\’s money awareness from the age of 3, and have strictly formulated a money education plan suitable for children at all ages and stages of growth, which is roughly as follows: At 3 to 4 years old, children can learn to identify the types of coins and know the value of coins under the guidance of their parents; at 4 to 5 years old, children must be able to use money to buy some simple items under the supervision of their parents; 5~ At the age of 6, children must understand that money is not easy to come by, and it takes hard work and wisdom to get the corresponding money; children aged 6 to 7 have learned to use piggy banks and other things to store money; children aged 7 to 8 At this time, children should be able to judge whether they have the ability to purchase a certain product and be aware of their own money; for 8 to 9-year-old children, Jews will require them to understand how to open a bank account, save money, and also They can earn pocket money by working on their own; through exercise, by the age of 10 to 12, these children have experienced firsthand that making money is not easy, thus establishing a certain concept of thrift and developing the habit of never wasting a penny. Good habits; after the age of 12, adults will no longer regard their children as children, but already a rising star with business acumen, who can participate in any business activities like adults. Just imagine, under such a family education, Jews learned a lot of money and financial knowledge at a very young age, so people call Jews \”natural financiers.\” In the view of “bad” parents, the richer the family, the more stringent their children’s money education should be: A “bad” mother from a wealthy family living overseas said: “I have For my two sons, when they were very young, I often heard others say that allowing children to make money through their own labor as early as possible is beneficial to cultivating their survival ability and ability.A sense of responsibility is very beneficial, because if you make other people\’s money, you have to be responsible for others. No matter how much or how little money you make, it also means an invisible constraint from society for children. So, when my two sons were just teenagers, I sent one of them to work in a bakery and the other to work in a Chinese restaurant. The son who was sent to the bakery had to work for nearly 20 hours a day. Although I felt sad, my reason told me that if you keep a bird in a cage, it will wait for people to feed it. The only way to do this is to let the bird go. Only when it goes out can it learn to find ways to find food on its own. And from now on, I also intentionally encourage them to use the money they earn to pay for water, electricity, etc. at home, so that they can experience the sense of accomplishment of being able to pay for the family\’s unlocking. I believe that we cannot educate our children not to value money. , then the children may not spend money when they grow up, because not knowing the importance of money is actually very scary. And I always firmly believe that suffering is the best way to exercise ability. Now, my children’s tuition fees are earned by themselves. They also understand that learning opportunities are hard-won. Earning money not only does not delay the children’s studies, On the contrary, it stimulated their desire to study, and in the end they all completed their studies with excellent results, which proved that my approach was successful. To be honest, I am actually a person who attaches great importance to children\’s education, but I tell them, if you can successfully get good grades in school, then you should go all out to learn it well. If you can\’t learn it well, it is a waste. It’s better to ask you not to waste time and make money as soon as possible. \”Seeing the above example, how do you feel as a parent? If we want to be a \”bad\” parent, we should first not overindulge our children and tell them that if they want to live a prosperous life, they must let their children Know that not everyone will give you what you want. You must learn to survive in adversity and still have a grateful heart even when you don\’t get it. There is an old saying in China: \”A gentleman loves Wealth should be obtained in a wise way. \”This sentence is the most appropriate to describe the way smart \”bad\” parents educate their children in financial management. In the UK, from home to school, children have always received excellent education in financial management, and parents will ask their children to share housework. To earn pocket money, and encourage school-age children to use their spare time to go out to work. It is this kind of education that gives children a sense of actively creating wealth from an early age. Here is how a little boy whose family living conditions are actually very good earns money by himself Story: Jack is 15 years old this year. His family’s financial situation is very good and he has never had to worry about food and clothing. However, under the education of his parents, Jack has always understood that there is no free lunch in the world. Even if it is a penny, it still depends on hard work. In exchange. British law stipulates that teenagers over 13 years old can serve as newsboys. In fact, Jack has been working as a newsboy for more than a year at this time. His working hours are from 6 to 7 o\’clock every morning. Regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter, Jack Delivering newspapers door-to-door regardless of rain or shine. In addition to delivering newspapers, Jack also has another way of making money, that is, when his neighbors cannot walk or bathe their dogs due to business trips or illness, Jack\’s job opportunities come again.Neighbors will call Jack to help walk the dog or bathe the dog, but these two tasks require certain experience and skills. Jack is already very skilled in these two areas at a young age. He can do this job well. He is very handy and can earn a very considerable income. People who know Jack say that Jack will definitely achieve a big career in the future. After reading this example, I believe that many parents have their own insights. Therefore, \”bad\” parents always need to cultivate their children\’s correct awareness of the relationship between money and labor. Children need to understand that money must be earned through their own efforts. So sometimes, parents need to be \”bad\” and not let their children take money from their own pockets so easily. They must train them consciously. Only in this way can they understand more deeply how hard-earned money is. Only through labor can I create value in my future life. All in all, children will one day be self-reliant and no longer rely on their parents, but must obtain a source of living through their own labor. Therefore, family conditions should not be a factor in any way. Parents should educate their children to love labor and obtain rewards through labor. The premise is that no matter what kind of family, they should know how to raise their children in poverty. When parents feel that their children are ready to try to enter Duhui, they should encourage their children more and let them use their vacation time to do some work. Even if the money they earn is not necessarily more than the pocket money given by their parents, they should still ask their children to Try to keep at it.