The child\’s strange behavior in tutoring his homework puzzled his family, and his mother suddenly woke up after following him secretly!

That day, Xiaochen, who was in the second grade of junior high school, told his mother that he had to go to a classmate\’s house to study for homework in the evening, so he couldn\’t go home very late at night. At first, Xiaochen\’s mother was particularly pleased with Xiaochen\’s active learning behavior, thinking that her son finally knew how to study. Xiaochen\’s behavior of \”going to his classmates\’ homes to study\” continued for several days. Xiaochen told his mother that the study time was long, the pressure was high, and he often had headaches. When he said these words, Xiao Chen was still rubbing his head, looking very uncomfortable. Xiao Chen\’s mother felt very sorry for her son, so she spent 100 yuan to give Xiao Chen extra food. But later, when Xiaochen went to \”tutoring lessons\” more and more frequently and asked for money more and more often, Xiaochen\’s mother became suspicious. Xiaochen\’s mother told Xiaochen\’s father about this matter. When Xiaochen\’s father heard this, he immediately slapped his thigh and shouted, \”Isn\’t he just taking money to have fun?\” Xiaochen\’s mother listened blankly and followed Xiaochen\’s father exchanged looks. \”No way?\” Xiaochen\’s mother discussed it with Xiaochen\’s father and had an idea in mind. The next day, Xiaochen\’s mother went to Xiaochen\’s school early in the morning to wait for him to finish school. Then, after Xiaochen came out of school, she followed Xiaochen all the way. When Xiaochen entered an Internet cafe near the school, Xiaochen\’s mother suddenly woke up. , Xiaochen’s so-called going to classmates’ homes to tutor homework is not tutoring at all, but secretly going to Internet cafes to surf the Internet. Xiaochen\’s mother watched her son laughing with a group of people from a distance. She wanted to rush up to take Xiaochen back and give him a lesson, but before taking action, she felt that it was inappropriate to do so. She suppressed her anger and left quietly. . At around nine o\’clock in the evening, when Xiaochen returned home, Xiaochen\’s mother pretended not to hear the sound of him entering the door and continued to chat with Xiaochen\’s father. Xiaochen’s mother: “His father, you don’t even know how my colleague treated his son who was addicted to the Internet. She sent her son to a labor camp and was watched over by a group of people. Wow, the behavior of children in the labor camp is terrible. It is said that if the children inside are disobedient, the officers will hang them up and beat them. Fortunately, our Xiaochen is obedient and knows how to study hard, but the midterm exam is coming soon, so he should be able to get good grades, right?\” Xiaochen\’s father smiled. \”That\’s necessary, our son! However, he is so tired from studying every day. You might as well follow him and take care of him when you have time. What if he faints on the way?\” Xiao Chen was frightened after hearing what his parents said. I trembled all over, and hurriedly called my parents, then ran back to my room and took out my textbook to study. Although Xiaochen\’s grades in the midterm exam were very poor, later on, Xiaochen stopped surfing the Internet and his grades slowly improved. In this story, Xiaochen’s mother’s approach was very clever. After discovering that her son was addicted to the Internet, she did not expose him immediately, nor did she wait for Xiaochen to come home to negotiate with him. At that time, through the conversation with her husband, she insinuated Xiaochen and expressed her trust in Xiaochen, her feelings for him, as well as her praise and expectations. Adolescent children are rebellious, so if you confront them head-on, neither parents nor children will get any benefits, the relationship between the two parties will break down, and negotiations may not be effective. Many parents’ education model for their children is just chattering.Chatting endlessly about what to do, what to do, what to do. Education has always been advocated for the good of the children, and teachers are also encouraged to put themselves in the shoes of the children and find the best way to educate them. Therefore, parents may wish to think about it. If you were yourself and others were nagging you, in fact, you It’s also unhappy, so give up the nagging mode and find a better solution. But this does not mean that children have no ability to judge, and they have no sense of right and wrong. Teenagers\’ minds have matured to a certain stage and they are already very smart, so when their parents make insinuations and analyze the current situation for them, they can understand and accept it. But remember, stop talking and don’t nag.