Giving your children a mobile phone is just for easy communication! I didn\’t expect such a serious problem to occur!

Because mobile phones are frequently replaced at home, there are often old mobile phones from parents that no one uses, so Nan Nan has a mobile phone at this young age. At first, Nan Nan\’s parents thought it was easier for children to communicate with each other with a mobile phone. However, recently, Nan Nan\’s mother discovered a serious problem. Nan Nan was addicted to playing with mobile phones. This was discovered by Nan Nan\’s mother at night during this period. Because every night before going to bed, she would come to see her son, cover him with a quilt, say good night, turn off the lights, etc., so she discovered something about Nan Nan. little secret. Ever since Nan Nan got a mobile phone, he seemed less energetic during the day. Sometimes when his favorite TV show started, he would squint his eyes and fall asleep, which Nan Nan\’s mother found a little strange. That night, Nannan\’s mother went to her son\’s room to check in as usual before she went to bed. When she opened the door, Nannan was already asleep. The lights were not turned off, but the quilt was well covered. After turning off the light, Nannan\’s mother stepped out gently, but what was different from usual was that this time she did not leave immediately. Instead, she stood not far from the door and quietly stared at the crack in the door. About two minutes later, there was suddenly a faint light in the crack of the door. Although it was small, my mother still saw it. So my mother stayed here for a while, and the weak light in the room showed no tendency to darken. She slowly turned around and went into the room to sleep. But her heart was not as calm as her face, and she decided to find out the next night. As expected, the situation was still the same the next night. The only difference was that this time my mother did not immediately turn around and go back to the house to sleep. Instead, she chose to open Nannan\’s door. After opening the door, the light went out instantly. Needless to say, it was Nannan Pass. But Nannan was awake, and after some conversation, the mother finally understood what her son was thinking. Nannan has become obsessed with online games. She can play them at any time through her mobile phone, and she can\’t stop playing them, so she waits for her mother to go out and plays them in bed every night. Nan Nan\’s mother did not criticize him immediately, but turned around and went out. A few minutes later, her mother came back again, holding a pair of glasses in her hand, which belonged to Nan Nan\’s father. Mother put it on Nan Nan, and Nan Nan\’s vision immediately became blurry and he couldn\’t see anything clearly. He wanted to take it off, but was stopped by his mother, who asked him to wear it for a few minutes. After Nan Nan took off his glasses, his mother asked him how he felt. Nannan said: \”I feel like I can\’t see anything clearly.\” Mom said: \”That\’s right, this is myopia caused by improper long-term use of eyes. The world you see after that, you want to wear it like this in the future.\” Do you want to look at the glasses, Mom? Are there those beautiful colorful worlds outside?\” Nannan shook her head, with doubts in her eyes… Mom continued: \”Actually, playing games is not a big deal, but if you are always exposed to this kind of light, If you play in a dark environment and against your body\’s daily schedule, unless you don\’t want your eyes to be damaged and your weak body to be damaged! So my mother suggests: play games not too long, just play within an hour. And remember to play in a brightly lit place.\” After that, the mother said good night to her child as usual, walked out of the room, and turned off the light… From that day on, Nannan never stole anything again.I started playing games secretly, following my mother’s advice, but I still couldn’t control myself from leaving within a certain period of time. However, after my parents’ constant supervision, I gradually became normal, and my parents were very pleased! So what experience can we gain from educating children and how to solve children’s mobile phone addiction. First of all, when you discover that your child is addicted to mobile phones, don’t be anxious. Don’t criticize your child angrily. Instead, think about the consequences that your child has not thought about. Secondly, communicate with the children in a timely manner through your own understanding. It would be good if you can show it to the children with some practical examples. Let your child learn to think for himself after he personally perceives the consequences. What you have to do at this time is to wait for the child to handle it on his own. It is often much better to come up with the results yourself than the thoughts instilled in him by his parents! In addition, when a child first starts to indulge in playing, it is necessary to correctly teach him some knowledge. On the basis of warning, tell him not to play for too long, otherwise it will be bad for his eyes, etc., but still give him a certain amount of time to gradually get rid of his mobile phone addiction. Usually children will still carry out what they tell adults. Thinking about it, in this way, he will not only be able to subconsciously resist the temptation of games, but also remember his parents’ teachings in his heart, and even use them throughout his life. When he first stopped playing with his mobile phone, it would definitely be difficult for the child. So. During this period, parents must play a role model. It is best to have more gentle communication with their children, spend more time with their children, divert their children\’s attention to other things, and prevent their children from being itchy and intolerable. Became obsessed with mobile phones.