The child sneaks out repeatedly like a thief! The truth made the mother and son blush with embarrassment!

Ranran\’s family has always been a harmonious and happy family, but recently there have been many changes. Ranran\’s mother always seems to be asking the parents of her children\’s classmates if Ranran plays with them. The reason behind this is very simple, that is, Ranran neither greets her parents nor leaves any message when she goes out to play. The neighbors thought there was something wrong with Ranran\’s mother\’s education, or that there was some conflict between Ranran and her family. However, what puzzles Ranran\’s mother is that even she is not sure what happened to Ranran during this period. My mother also mentioned this issue when I was chatting with Ranran a few nights ago. In fact, this issue has been raised many times, but Ranran changed the topic in various ways. When Ranran\’s mother couldn\’t find Ranran again after she came back from shopping for groceries yesterday, she finally made up her mind to figure this out in the next few days. This weekend, Ranran\’s mother made all preparations in advance so that she could stay at home all day long and observe Ranran. She rested on the sofa at noon, but before she had closed her eyes for ten minutes, Ran Ran\’s door opened and he quietly changed his shoes, seemingly planning to go out. My mother thought to herself: \”As I lie here, he will always come over and say hello to me!\” However, things never go as expected. Ranran walked gently through the living room and left the house. At this time, the mother sat up and decided to follow her son to have a look. So half an hour later, Ranran\’s mother saw Ranran playing chess with some old people. Ranran\’s mother didn\’t know whether to laugh or cry. She stood quietly behind her child and watched him play chess. Ranran\’s serious expression made her feel incredible. After the game of chess, Ranran found her mother and suddenly blushed. The mother and son smiled awkwardly. This time Ranran finally opened up to her mother. Ranran said: \”Since I started to like playing chess, I have always thought about a lot of things inexplicably. I feel that I have grown up and do not need to be cared for and protected by adults all the time. But my parents go home every day, and being cared for is like a child.\” It has become a normal thing. So I went out quietly by myself. I don’t want you to worry about or give me any instructions!” After hearing this, my mother’s face was filled with a smile of joy, but only one sentence came out of her mouth: “Let’s play chess. Well done, remember to ask me to come with you another day.\” At this time, the grandfathers also cast admiring glances, as if they were saying in their hearts, it\’s rare to see a mother like this, if others would have punished the child on the spot… On the way, mother and son were talking and laughing, and Ranran kept talking when her mother understood her. Her mother always encouraged and provided constructive criticism, and the children were happy to accept it. From then on, whenever the child went to play somewhere, he would always tell his mother and ask her if she could go with him. He was so happy every time. Every time I see this scene, my mother knows that she is doing the right thing. In fact, children understand everything about psychology, but many times they are killed in their hearts by their parents. What a terrible thing it is… From now on What can we discover about this incident? Does it give you more ways to educate your children? For a child, when he thinks he has grown up, he will automatically develop a feeling for some deliberate care and protection.A kind of resistance, because it makes them feel that they are still cowards who can\’t live without their parents. We should really appreciate Ranran\’s mother\’s handling of the matter. She did not make mandatory demands on Ranran at the end of the matter, but let Ranran regard herself as a chess-playing friend. This instantly made Ranran feel that her mother was interested in her. His approval naturally changed his mind. Another point worth noting is that when children have their own ideas, we don\’t need to let them think along the lines of our adults, because this is a good opportunity for them to grow into a worldview of their own. During this period, your child will grow up quickly, and you can appear in his circle of interests as their friend. This will give you a lot of points in his mind, and will also allow you to participate in his world. It will not only deepen the family relationship, but also cultivate the child\’s abilities in all aspects, and control and guide them. Every adult has experienced the child\’s thinking. If it is not handled well, it may leave a shadow on the child for life. At this time, parents should learn to be more careful and put forward requirements for the child on the premise of ensuring that the child will not change some correct ideas. Guidelines often allow children to form their own views of right and wrong and unique judgments.