She blindly chose a tutor, but her son’s results left the mother completely dumbfounded!

Long Long has just entered the third grade. His family\’s economic conditions are not good. His father works in Guangzhou and his mother works as a cleaner. But parents attach great importance to their children\’s learning. In order to provide Longlong with better learning conditions, they borrowed money to rent a house in the city to take care of Longlong. Considering Longlong\’s poor English foundation, they also planned to carefully select a tutor for Longlong. . Longlong\’s mother knew very well that her hard-earned money could not be compared with that of other wealthy families, and she was very careful in choosing tutors. It was best to use the least money to learn the most knowledge. At the tutoring service center, Longlong\’s mother took Longlong to see four tutors, but she was not satisfied. In fact, those tutors were all college students, and she was still studying. How could a yellow-haired child teach Longlong? A professional English teacher is good, but it costs 150 yuan an hour, which is an astronomical figure, which makes Longlong\’s mother prohibitive. Later, I met a teacher Yu in his fifties who seemed quite experienced. Teacher Yu said that a tutoring class he ran was particularly effective. Longlong\’s mother took a look and it was really not easy. The place where Teacher Yu mentioned had forty or fifty children, ranging from first grade to sixth grade, and they were all good at Chinese, mathematics, and English. At 1,000 yuan per semester, the price was not too expensive. After reading it, my mother was very satisfied and decided to give Longlong to Teacher Yu. After hearing that Teacher Yu was a senior teacher, my mother felt more at ease. Later, Longlong often brought certificates and 100-point test papers from Teacher Yu to his mother. Her mother was so happy that she would always praise Longlong for his ability when meeting people. But not long after, Longlong actually told his mother several times that he didn’t want to go to Teacher Yu’s place and wanted to do his homework at home because Teacher Yu’s place was too noisy and hot. Mother thought Longlong was not diligent enough, so she severely criticized Longlong, and also said a famous saying, \”Only when you have endured hardship can you become a master.\” Longlong listened reluctantly. Longlong\’s final exam results completely stunned his mother: 74 points in Chinese, 76 points in mathematics, and 59 points in English. He was the last in the class? Mom was angry and resentful. She, who had always been strong, couldn\’t bear it anymore. She cried loudly and was ready to beat Longlong. Longlong had no choice but to tell the truth: Ever since there was another deskmate in his place, that deskmate often talked to him. When Longlong really couldn\’t do his English homework, he copied his deskmate\’s homework in order to go home early. Later I saw that the room at Teacher Yu’s place was not big, but there were more than 70 students, and there were less than 40 desks. Some students were studying on the sofa, some were endorsing by the window; some were looking for Yu The teacher asked questions and some were joking with each other. After careful inquiry, I found out that Teacher Yu was indeed a very experienced retired senior teacher, but they didn’t learn English at all at that time. Teacher Yu himself didn’t know a few words, and his pronunciation was even less accurate. How could he teach children to learn English? Doudehui cautions: 1. The tutoring market in our country is still very imperfect. Especially in recent years, driven by economic interests, more and more people have poured into the tutoring market. However, their strength is uneven, and it is inevitable that they even pretend to be weak. Before hiring a tutor, parents can do a simple test on the tutor using their children\’s exercises with answers. A strong tutor will definitely be able toComplete your child\’s exercises beautifully. 2. Parents must be careful when choosing tutors for their children. You need to know the weak subjects that your child needs tutoring, and you also need to understand the strengths of the teacher you hire. The so-called \”professional specialization\” means that teachers who are good at one subject may not necessarily be good at another subject. The longer the tutoring time for the child is not, the better. If the child has already mastered the knowledge, continuing to accept the teacher\’s explanation will not only waste time, but also make the child feel disgusted. 3. When children receive tutoring from teachers, parents should carefully understand and check their children\’s learning status, and allow their children to tell the truth. Children\’s words may not always be accurate, but they are often a reflection of the true situation. If the mother in the story could calmly understand the reason why Long Long was unwilling to study with Teacher Yu, she would not regret it later. 4. Be less blindly worshipful and more realistic. At present, many parents blindly worship high qualifications such as doctoral students, graduate students, and senior teachers when hiring tutors for their children. In fact, doctoral students are not necessarily as good at tutoring primary school students as primary school teachers, and senior Chinese teachers are not necessarily as good as junior English teachers at tutoring children in English. Therefore, when hiring a tutor for your child, you must not blindly compare. You should proceed from the actual situation and find the best one for your child.