The history of blood and tears of a single mother raising her children is worth pondering for parents!

Because of your parents\’ stubbornness, you lost your entire family when you were more than 3 years old. Because my mother wanted to be strong, I took you away from your original home alone and rented a house in another place. After taking you away from your original home, your mother had to travel outside to raise you, so she ruthlessly left you with your grandparents and failed to give you much companionship. My mother once mistakenly believed that as long as she earns her money, she is responsible for you. You were over 6 years old and it was time to go to elementary school. For various reasons, I couldn\’t keep you with me to go to school. You went back to your father\’s place to go to elementary school. I remember the first time I went to see you at your grandma’s place. You, who were originally lively and cheerful, became taciturn. When my mother got up to leave, you didn\’t cry and wouldn\’t let me leave like you did when you were a child. Instead, you looked at me with a resentful and reluctant look in your eyes. It hurt me even more to let me leave. The moment I turned around, tears burst into my eyes. My daughter, I look forward to it every time we meet, and I feel so sad every time I turn around… I remember the first time I went to your school. After I found your class teacher, the teacher told me: \”Your daughter is very introverted. She doesn\’t interact or play with her classmates in the class. She stays alone all day. Her grades are not good and her handwriting is not good.\” Oh my god, the child the teacher mentioned is mine. Daughter? My daughter was singing on a makeshift stage in the street at the age of 4, just to compete for a toy. My daughter loves playing with children. The teacher continued: \”If you parents don\’t pay attention to your child\’s education, this child may be ruined.\” The teacher\’s words shocked me, and I began to reflect on whether I had made a mistake in raising my children. The second time I went to school to see you, your mother promised you that she would do her best to bring you back to her. A smile and expectation finally appeared on your face… When you were 7 years old and in second grade, your mother finally took you back to her, quit her previous job, and found a job nearby to accompany you. you. You cherish the time you spend with your mother and study hard and make progress. Slowly, when you go home, you will tell your mother how many good friends you have made, the teacher praised you for your handwriting today, etc. In the second grade final exam, you ranked second in the class. It’s the second semester of second grade, a new semester, a new beginning. With the encouragement of your teacher and mother, you mustered up the courage to run for “Chinese Subject Representative” and you succeeded. After feeling successful, you become more confident and cheerful, you have more and more good friends, and the smile on your face becomes brighter and brighter. You have become a good friend of the whole class and a good helper to the teacher. Later, because your mother remarried, you had to leave your familiar teachers and classmates and go to a new school. Your mother is very worried about you, fearing that changes in the environment will affect your personality and learning, but your ability to adapt is beyond her expectations. As a fourth-year transfer student, you competed to be the \”study committee member and Chinese language subject representative\” in your class. You won the recognition of your classmates with your confident speech, and actually \”defeated\” the other two students in the class. competitor. Mom is really for youfeel proud! You have transformed from the most introverted girl in the class to a cheerful and confident girl now. Your efforts are the biggest reason for your gains, and your mother\’s company is the motivation for your efforts. I hope parents all over the world understand that what their children need most is not how much money you earn for her, but how much time you spend with her! Too many children are hurt when their parents divorce. But the mother tried her best to minimize the damage, and the child still lived a wonderful life. Bless this mom and baby! I also hope that children all over the world will be less harmed! Text | Qingqing