Be alert! 12 tips for parent-child reading!

1. You must pick up a book yourself, read something every day, and sort out your dreams when you were young. There should be some regrets. All the books you wanted to read that you haven\’t read in those years can be read now. However, you will definitely not love Jin Yong as much as you did when you were in your teens. In fact, I was like this too. At that time, in order to cope with various exams, my family banned my martial arts novels. I comforted myself that from now on, when I have money and leisure, I can read whatever I want. I will buy all kinds of martial arts novels I want to read. novel. But now, I no longer have the excitement and joy I had when I was a teenager. Instead, I prefer other books. So a person will like some specific books at a certain stage. You try to find a few books you like and read them every day. It’s better than always watching TV shows on your phone. Even if it’s not for yourself, it’s really important to set a good example for your children. 2. Parent-child reading should start as early as possible. Many parents want to know when their children should start reading. Actually there is no answer to this. It is impossible to say that 4 months is suitable, and it is also impossible to say that 6 months is suitable. Because every child\’s situation is different. In fact, I think reading to children can start during prenatal education. Every day, mom or dad gently and calmly reads to the baby in her belly for a few minutes. After your child is born, when he starts listening to you and interacting with you, you can start reading catchy nursery rhymes and simple picture book stories to him. When I said this, I remembered the time I read to my son. When the little guy was four or five months old, he was in my arms and wanted to chew on the cloth and cardboard books I prepared for him. Later I started using books as toys. There are more books than toys in our house. I don’t advocate giving too many fancy toys to children under 1 year old. If they are always noisy and want to stimulate the child’s sensory development, it will make the child lose focus. You can let him grasp some simple things, such as hole books, small palm books, small sticks, tree leaves, etc. Of course, you must pay attention to protect him from eating them by mistake. Enlightenment on colors can also be carried out using books. 3. Children\’s interests are more important than your goals. Some parents look at the role of books and hope to achieve their parenting goals. Of course, books play a very good role in cultivating children\’s abilities and behavioral habits. But this is not their main function and cannot be put the cart before the horse. In terms of book enlightenment and habit cultivation, I advocate interest orientation. Because only by making it interesting to children will he attract their attention. For example, Xiao Xiaoyu, who is over 2 years old, loves cars very much. Then spread it out with Che Che Shu as the center to cultivate his interest. When he is 3 years old, his favorite thing is dinosaurs, so read him dinosaur books. As long as he wants to read it, I\’m free to do it. When he is full of curiosity and affection for books, I will tell him about picture books. Start exposing him to stories, such as \”The Lion King\” and \”Jungle Story\”, and open the door to stories. At this time, real parent-child reading begins. 4. Keep at it, you have no excuse. A mother tells her to read picture books to her 1-year-old child, but the child doesn\’t like it. He runs away every time he reads it and doesn\’t want to hear it at all. What is the reason for this? Many times the problem lies in the parents\’ approach. I will discuss this in separate chapters when I have time in the future. On the road of parent-child reading, it is veryMany parents will let go once their children stop reading. So I look for comfort in other places, such as letting my child learn talents or go to training classes. Anyway, if he doesn\’t like reading, he will always have other hobbies. But are there really children who are born with a dislike for reading? I think the answer should be no, because children\’s interests and hobbies are always changing, and as children grow older, their focus and interests will be different. It has strong guidance and plasticity. Therefore, if you want your child to become a person who loves to read, then you must stick to it. 5. Don’t give children low-quality books. Low-quality books not only have problems with their materials. For example, some lead is directly absorbed by children, and the paper will break when rubbed. The biggest harm to children is junk content. The plots of some books are full of loopholes, and the manuscripts are automatically generated by computers and printed after just a few proofreaders. Let the children not feel any pleasure of reading. The color and graphics are also very different. For example, a publishing company once showed me a set of books. Thirty books only cost just over 100, which was very cost-effective. However, the printed colors are poor and the graphics are stretched and deformed. It is because of its charming appearance and super cost-effectiveness that many parents have bought it. I felt very heartbroken and directly refused cooperation at that time. Because I am responsible for every child and the friends who trust me. Books for children really can’t just be cheap, you must see whether they are suitable for children and whether the quality of the content is guaranteed. 6. Respect children’s choices. Children actually have choices about books. If they like them, they will read them, and if they don’t like them, they will reject them. You can\’t force your child to read it if you think it\’s a prize-winning work. If your child doesn\’t like it at the time, just change it to another book. Even if he reads a book over and over again, read it with him. 7. Don’t use story audio to replace parent-child reading. I have personal experience with this. We have two story machines at home, one I bought myself and the other a gift from a relative. But neither worked. Because my son doesn’t like to hear stories from the story machine, he likes to hear us read them to him. Because he likes to see our expressions and hear our parents’ voices. If possible, you must insist on reading it yourself. Be confident and don’t think that your reading is not good. Some anchors pretend to be not as good as you. 8. There must be books at home, within easy reach. Even if your conditions are not good and you live in a rental house, if you are willing, you can still arrange a reading corner for your children. Go to the supermarket and buy a shelf or a box. Children don\’t care how high-end the bookcases are, they only care about whether they have a parent who is willing to read to them and whether they have a warm and happy home. \”Ask the canal how clear it is, for there is a source of living water.\” Buy some good books for your children every month or quarter. \”Keep reading, there are always updates.\” If conditions permit, you can of course borrow it, which can save a lot of money. 9. When you are in a bad mood, you don’t need to read. You really need to be in a good mood to read. If you are in a bad mood or your child is in a mood, don’t read to relieve your anger. On the contrary, you will feel tired of reading, which will reduce your enjoyment of reading. and enthusiasm 10. Don’t rely too much on others, and have a true understanding of your children. Whether it is parenting or parent-child reading, I have alwaysParents are encouraged to know more about their children, because only the person who stays with them day and night can understand them best. Each child has his or her own characteristics, hobbies, and growth and development stages. Parents should be good enlighteners and leaders. If you really invest in your children\’s reading, you will definitely be able to find the reading channel that is most suitable for your children. 11. Don’t dampen children’s interest in reading. Many parents like to ask questions to their children when reading with their children. It’s like a teacher teaching a lesson. They must summarize a central idea and then ask their children if they understand. In fact, for many good picture books, the authors themselves do not have any preaching intention. They integrate their feelings about life and beauty into words and pictures. Sometimes the child\’s eyes see more clearly. So don\’t use your worldly ideas to think about changing your children. Many times, children are made to think that they have to listen to the truth when reading, so it would be easier not to read at all! 12. Always believe in the power of reading. When children’s grades are not ideal, reading is even more important. Because data shows that reading ability is the basis for learning ability. Some time ago, a mother told me that her child’s teacher praised her because her third-grade daughter’s composition ability is almost the same as that of a fifth-grade child. This is all due to the fact that this mother has been reading with her child since she was a child. No matter how the times change, we must believe that reading can change our destiny and the power of reading. Especially for ordinary families, when learning resources are lagging behind, reading is a fairer way to acquire knowledge. You must believe and encourage your children, because the parents\’ vision and pattern are the height at which the children stand.