At what age do girls get married the fastest nowadays?

I personally think that between the ages of 16 and 19, this is the time when love is beginning to blossom and people are ignorant about marriage. At this time, if a boy says some sweet words to him about each other\’s vows, , girls are prone to have relations with each other.

Having sex and not taking any contraceptive measures, pregnancy is a natural thing.

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Yesterday, my husband told me something that shocked me. His colleague Xiao Zhu’s daughter was more than 5 months pregnant when she was only 17 years old. Xiao Zhu\’s daughter Yanzi is small and sweet. She graduated from junior high school but did not enter high school. Xiao Zhu and his wife felt that they could not learn anything in a technical school. They were too young to let their child work in a factory and were reluctant to work as a waiter in a restaurant.

After thinking about it, I let the child be raised at home, occasionally taking care of my sister, and only went out to work when he was 18 years old. Unexpectedly, just hanging out with my classmates from junior high school occasionally would make my belly grow bigger.

For a child at this time, you won\’t listen to your rational reasoning, so you have no choice but to get her engaged first.

Think about it, if you give birth to a child when you are still a child, they will definitely not be able to raise it. Then the parents who raised the child to grow up will not only have to raise their own child, The key is to have grandchildren or granddaughters to raise.

Yanzi and her boyfriend just thought it was fun for a while. They had no idea that giving birth to a child meant a change in identity, as well as responsibilities and responsibilities.

02

My sister’s good friend Chen Mei’s daughter also got pregnant at 17 and gave birth at 18.

Chen Mei\’s family is in the county town, and her daughter\’s boyfriend lives in the countryside. Not only is she young, but her family is not a good match for her, so Chen Mei and her husband object. But her daughter is stubborn and will not marry unless she is a boy. If she does not agree, she will die.

Since ancient times, there have been a few parents who can beat their children.

I had no choice but to agree first. However, after giving birth to the child, Chen Mei\’s son-in-law was out of tune. Her in-laws drove a county bus and were very busy every day. Her daughter didn\’t want to stay alone in the country with the child, so she had no choice but to take the child back to her parents\’ home.

According to what people said in the past, there is nothing tiring if you only need to take care of your children all day long. RanHowever, a child who has been pampered since childhood is still a child himself, how can he not feel tired?

Chen Mei has to work. When she comes back from get off work every day, she also wants to take a rest. At this time, her daughter throws the child to her without politeness, while she dresses up, and then follows Friends and classmates went out to play.

It’s okay to be tired, but the key is that Chen Mei’s daughter quarreled and had conflicts with her son-in-law every now and then. Chen Mei said something to her son-in-law, and the son-in-law got grudged and stopped visiting her.

Chen Mei was so angry that she really wanted to drive her daughter and grandson out, but her daughter was her own flesh after all, so no matter how angry she was, she had to endure it.

Chen Mei\’s hair soon became a lot whiter.

That\’s not all. Chen Mei\’s daughter was quarreling with her husband and getting divorced, and she was pregnant again. She didn\’t want to take care of the child, but she got pregnant again.

For Chen Mei and his wife, how can they be so angry?

03

Some people say that all positions require on-the-job training, except for parents, anyone can work without a certificate.

It was at the place where I was studying with me that I met Xiao Zeng. She got pregnant at the age of 16 and gave birth to her child at the age of 17. After careful observation, she is a hard-working woman who can do everything for her children, but she is not a good mother.

Think about it, her child is only in elementary school, but she doesn’t go to school every now and then. I just can’t figure out how this could happen? Later, I learned from her old neighbor that when his children did something wrong, such as going to other people\’s houses to take things randomly, or seeing delicious food in other people\’s houses, they would eat as much as they could and take them with them when they left. , the kind that say nothing.

To sum up, never set rules for your children.

Many times when her children caused trouble outside, and their parents came to her door, she remained silent, did not argue with the adults, and of course did not teach her children afterwards.

It’s as if what the child does has nothing to do with her. What she doesn’t know is that the child also needs a sense of order in his life and needs to know what can and cannot be done?

Think about it, if my mother doesn’t tell me what I do, then I don’t want toAfter going to school, the child was initially testing, and found that when the mother felt it didn\’t matter for the first time, later the child felt that it didn\’t matter whether he went to school or not.

Actually, Xiao Zeng was worried, but he said that the child refused to go. What could she do?

What can she do? Yes, deep down she is still a child, so how does she know how to educate her children?

When a boy like this grows up, he will definitely be unruly, ignorant and lawless. It’s scary to think about it.

It can be seen that when you give birth to a child when you are still a child, it not only suffers for the parents who gave birth to you, but also the child you give birth to.