The mother threw away the toy in front of her, but her daughter was convinced

During this time, the girls in Xiaomiao\’s class were particularly popular in knitting a kind of colorful thin plastic ropes. Because Xiaomiao was more meticulous, she said she was the best in her class at knitting, and she was the best in the class at knitting the first few words. One of the three classmates who took the step (which is said to be very difficult). So, forget about her complacency. When I saw her having fun, I reminded her several times: \”Don\’t play in class. You must remember to listen carefully during class, otherwise it will be a waste of time to make up for it after class.\” She also kept talking. promise. As a result, as a result, a few days ago, I was walking and chatting with her and some classmates, and her classmates let slip that Xiao Meow actually knitted ropes to play with once during math class. When I heard the news, something felt like a crack in my heart, yes, a crack in trust. In front of her classmates, I didn\’t criticize Xiaomiao. I just looked at her with a smile, and her expression changed. When I got home, I asked her: \”Tell me, how many times did you play in class and how long did you play for?\” She looked at me, hesitated, and said, \”Mom, I was wrong. Please give me another chance. I had never failed to listen to the teacher\’s lectures before. I was braiding rope during recess that day, and then I rang the bell for math class. I wanted to braid a few more steps and it would be over, so I didn\’t stop. But, I really only braided. After taking two steps, I remembered that you told me to listen carefully in class, so I didn\’t make it up. Really, Mom.\” After saying the last sentence, her tears were already falling. I was really angry and said: \”Find all your ropes and give them to me. I will throw them all into the trash can in front of you, so that you will remember that I was angry because you were knitting ropes in class!\” Moreover, I will not allow you to play with this thing again in the future. This is a lesson for you!\” She did not refute, obediently found all the ropes and handed them to me, and I really punished her in front of her. were thrown into the trash can, leaving no one behind. After finishing this, I sat in front of her and asked her: \”Is it important to listen to the lecture in class?\” She nodded and said: \”It is very important!\” I said: \”The teacher is giving you a lecture, and students should listen carefully, so that after class you will Just do some exercises to consolidate what you learned in class; if you don\’t listen carefully in class, will you have to read the book and study it all over again after class and you may not understand it? Isn\’t this a waste of time? That\’s it It’s called getting twice the result with half the effort! If you play for five minutes in class, you may need to spend more than half an hour to make up for the five minutes of lessons after class. Do you think you are stupid for doing this?\” She nodded and said again: \”Mom, do you believe it? I, I will change it, and I will never be like this again.\” I patted her and said, \”You know what? I heard my classmates say that when you were knitting rope in class, I felt really sad. I feel that you have betrayed our trust in you. Your father and I have always believed that you have good study habits, and the most important thing is to listen carefully in class. This habit becomes more important as you get into senior grades. Are you willing to work hard to restore our trust? Do you trust me? Can we trust you again?\” She cried and said: \”Mom, I am willing, you must believe me! I promise that I will never play with things during class time in the future. I will listen carefully.speak. Mom, you can see how I behave. I took a tissue to wipe away her tears and said, \”Okay, I\’ll give you another chance.\” But you have to remember that if you break our trust in you over and over again, it will be difficult to repair it, you know? \”She said with tears that she remembered it. In the next few days, she took the initiative to tell me the content of the teacher\’s lectures in class and discussed knowledge points with me. I understood what she meant: she urgently needed my understanding in her heart. She affirmed her efforts and changes, and she hoped to regain our trust in her as soon as possible; so, I discussed with her with approving eyes to let her know that I was willing to really give her another chance. However, I also felt that in my heart I didn\’t completely give up my guard. When checking her homework, I used to just check to see if she had finished it and then sign it. These days, I check her homework very carefully to see if she is really paying attention in class. Fortunately, Judging from the completion of the homework, it is basically normal. I also inquired with my classmates and teachers and found that Xiaomiao has been in normal condition in class recently. In fact, when I first learned that Xiaomiao was knitting rope in class, I was full of thoughts All I could think of was how to deal with her harshly and teach her a lesson when I got home, but I also immediately thought of one thing: Xiaomei is at school, and I can’t control whether she listens or not in class. All we can give her is trust, and this Trust requires her self-awareness, not our forced requirement; her self-awareness also stems from the trust and love between us. If I have a big fight with her this time and exchange bad words, I will also lose her trust. Because of our trust, she might even get worse and not listen carefully. On the contrary, if I can give her a tolerant attitude and give her a chance to win back her trust, she will cherish my tolerance even more and show her kindness. Better. Well, I give my performance full marks this time!