My 20-year-old daughter still takes a shower with her father. The lack of sex education is really terrible.

I saw a piece of news about a father in Japan who is 43 years old and has three daughters. The eldest daughter is already 20 years old. They seem to be a normal family, but they have a \”hobby\” that is unacceptable to many people: the father still takes a bath with his three daughters and chats while taking a bath. He said that when he and his eldest daughter were bathing and chatting, they often didn’t know where to look. This father’s name is Norihiro Nakamura, a former Japanese professional baseball star. He participated in a Japanese variety show and took a shower during the recording of the show. His daughter could also go in and out of the bathroom at will, without feeling that there should be any taboos. It\’s really embarrassing. ————-Many netizens saw this news and began to criticize the island country for opening up. In fact, similar incidents do not only exist in Japan, but also in our country. Not long ago, Dingdang’s mother saw an “eye-searing” scene on the bus. A middle-aged man was holding a teenage girl on his lap, kissing and hugging her. The scene was really unsightly. Fortunately, there were not many people in this car, but is it really okay to hug each other like this in public? Before I could say anything, the driver couldn\’t help but said: Be careful in public, comrade! I thought it was a combination of an old man and a young wife, but when the middle-aged man opened his mouth, the few people in the car were shocked. \”Is it illegal for me to kiss my daughter? I want you to take care of it!\” There are weird things every year, but this year there are especially many. I remembered that I saw a mother\’s request for help on the Internet. The general meaning was that her daughter was already twelve years old, but she always liked to be naked at home, and she did not shy away from it in front of her father and brother. What worries her even more is that her daughter is very clingy to her father and is afraid of sleeping alone at night. She always likes to run to her room, get into her father\’s bed, and sleep with her father in her arms. Embarrassingly, neither of them had any clothes on. The mother slowly realized that something was not quite right and wanted to ask netizens what to do. My daughter only realized that this was a wrong behavior when she was twelve years old. Why did she go there earlier? In the sex education of children, mothers play a greater role than fathers. The mother who asked for help did not provide sex education to her daughter at the most suitable age, which caused the current worries. Moreover, many families do not realize that when children grow up, the main channel for receiving sex education is parents. Videos, books, teachers, etc. are far less important than parents. Parents\’ attitudes towards sex will affect their children\’s attitudes towards sex. In the above cases, it is without exception that the children\’s gender concepts are so weak due to the parents\’ connivance and guidance. Many people have had this experience when they were young: watching TV with their parents, a kissing scene or a sex scene appeared on the screen, and the mother immediately covered the eyes of the child next to her with her hands. In line with the purpose of pornographic content and not suitable for children, we resolutely prevent children from being exposed to such \”pornographic\” knowledge. As everyone knows, the blocked picture lasted only a few seconds. Parents naively thought that they had blocked harmful content for their children, but they did not know that it aroused their children\’s curiosity and missed a good opportunity for sex education. When they don’t know it, children will get it from other ways.Take the same knowledge. Love is human instinct. Instead of suppressing your nature, it is better to discuss the matter and follow the trend. Some parents are too shy to speak out, and some parents don’t know how to educate, so sex education has always been a blind spot. In fact, sex education is not difficult at all. Every embarrassing moment in life that makes parents \”shy\” can be used for education. When you go to the mall with your children, there will be condoms that look like \”candy\” next to the chewing gum at the checkout counter. The child is ignorant and insists on getting a box of \”candy\”. At this time, the parents’ answer is very important. When a child sees a condom, this is actually a good time for sex education. No matter how you answer, it will affect the child. If you tell your child that it is cigarettes or other items, the child will give up if you believe it. If the child cries and insists on buying it, it will be embarrassing. Instead of lying, it is better to tell the truth and properly tell your children that this is for contraception. With it, parents will not have to have more babies. Four or five years old is the most suitable age for sex education. Children at this time love to ask questions about sex. Parents should popularize some simple sexual knowledge to their children, such as the difference between men and women, where \”I\” comes from, and which parts cannot be seen or touched by others… Slowly guiding them in life can satisfy their children\’s curiosity and tell them how to It is especially important to protect yourself and take advantage of this best period to establish correct sexual concepts for your children. There is no need to be secretive, sex is not something that is difficult to talk about. If your child wants to know something, just tell him in a tactful way.