During the critical period for children to read, first clarify these three top issues.

Many times, you think that your child cannot read, but you silently miss the critical enlightenment period of reading. You always think that children love reading, but in fact, children hate reading in their hearts. Why do some children seem to be trying hard to read, but to no avail? Is the child really reading? Some children act like this in order to cope with the reading tasks assigned by their parents. Some children use reading as a guise to deceive their parents. In fact, there are other things behind the book, or they are thinking about things that have nothing to do with reading. What I hate the most is children pretending to be pretentious about reading. Even if you don\’t read, you can\’t develop this habit. Why are children like this? That\’s because when he was reading, all he tasted was bitterness. There are some problems that parents have no way of solving until they understand them clearly. Jews love to read. In every Jewish family, when a child is a little sensible, the mother will open the Bible, drop a little honey on it, and then ask the child to kiss the honey on the Bible. Let children feel that books are sweet from an early age. Parents also continue to tell their children the above stories to cultivate their reading habits and let their children experience that reading is as important as eating. Of course, we have not done this, but we should also let children feel that books are sweet and make people happy from an early age. I have prepared colorful and fun books for my son since he was a few months old, such as cave books, card books, flip books, and bath books. In fact, these are not the kind of books we understand. But these things that are as interesting and fun as toys are caught in the child\’s book, and then he smiles, and you also smile and tell him that this is a \”book\”. Children will constantly hear their parents say this is a book. Reading the book makes me happy and sweet. In this way, a seed of reading is sown in the child\’s world. We just wait for it to sprout. When the child gets a little older, for example, over one year old, he will start babbling. At this time, you can read him stories from books and let him look at pictures. Of course, he could only look at pictures and not pay attention to the words. All they saw were densely packed little black ants. They are more interested in colors and shapes. Don\’t emphasize that a child should learn to read. With this purpose, most parents give up on early reading enlightenment. Because if you read with a purpose, you will be constantly entangled with this purpose, and you will find that the child does not cooperate at all and cannot understand it, so you feel that this kind of reading is meaningless. One mother left a message saying, \”I have a 10-month-old boy at home. Now that the baby is getting older and more conscious, I really want to cultivate his reading habit from an early age. I have also seen that some of my friends around me have grown up. I started reading picture books to my baby when he was very young, but he is too young and I think his ability to accept it is still limited. At present, I am more interested in playing with him and teaching him some common sense things. What I am more confused about now is how old the baby will be. Is it suitable to read books with him? \”In fact, it is good for mothers to cultivate their children\’s reading habits. But it is definitely unrealistic to ask a 10-month-old child to develop a reading habit. Because most people have never developed the habit of reading in their entire lives. The baby’s receptive ability is to recognize through various sensesIn the world, they need a lot of stimulation, including what their mother says, what they see and touch. Of course, don’t expect your children to understand a storybook at this time. But reading can begin. At this time, children can play with books and get to know this partner. If a child really likes books, he will continue to have a strong interest in books after he is 2 years old, and will start to form a reading habit by 3 years old. Therefore, the earlier you read, the better. Let children feel that reading is sweet and feel happy. Because when a child first comes into the world, the things he comes into contact with are beautiful, and he will have a beautiful feeling. When he tastes the sweetness of books, he will fall in love with the taste. Never force your children to read at any time. No matter what, don\’t force your children to read, because you are not in a hurry to achieve a goal, but can achieve that goal very confidently and very quickly. But the more we force a child to do something he doesn\’t like, it will make the child feel that it is a kind of torture. It will not only make children not like reading, but also make children lose interest in learning. Many parents get confused when it comes to their children\’s learning. If you ask your children to play, they can come up with hundreds of tricks, but when it comes to learning, they frown. But when they thought that the children next door had read a lot of books, the anxious parents began to use all means to get their children to read too. Once you force a child to do something with a purpose, it is often difficult to achieve results. Because there is a resistance factor in children\’s nature, they rely on this to perceive their own existence, rather than being a vassal of their parents. If the child\’s inner desire to learn is not stimulated, it is impossible for the child to truly fall in love with learning and reading. I have some small insights into stimulating the desire to learn. Take my son’s literacy as an example. If you insist on asking him to learn a few words, he will definitely not be happy. Ask me \”Dad, why should I learn?\” At this time, the child is thinking, what is the use of literacy? \”Literacy allows you to read those wonderful books by yourself, so don\’t always ask your parents to tell you stories, because when we are busy, we don\’t have time to tell you those wonderful books!\” \”Oh! You know that one? Are there many words?\” I brought a thick Chinese dictionary, placed it in front of him, and said to him: \”Dad knows all the words in it, how many can you recognize?\” \”That\’s so awesome! I want to be like dad. Awesome.\” \”Then you have to work hard!\” \”Okay, I want to know a lot of words and read a lot of books to surpass you.\” \”Okay, let\’s start today\’s study.\” At this time, the child will no longer resist . A few days later, I mysteriously told him: \”I had a dream last night. The big dinosaur from the Dinosaur Planet wrote you a letter. I wrote it down for you according to what he said. Look at this. A letter from the dinosaur.\” \”Okay!\” The little guy was full of curiosity. I gave him the letter, but he could only understand half of the words. I suggested that he ask his mother for help. Then I secretly told his mother not to tell him all at once. He was so anxious that he scratched his head. I really want to read it out. \”It would be nice if you could read it yourself.\” \”Dad, read it to me.\” \”Okay, I\’ll help you this time.\” Then I read it to him.He repeated it word by word several times to himself. He also said that he would send a reply to the dinosaur and said that he was willing to go to the appointment for a big meal. He also told everyone he met that the dinosaur had written him a letter. Through some small methods like this, children will fall in love with learning on their own. Because he will feel that studying can help him cope with some things and help him. It can satisfy children’s pursuit of excellence. The same goes for reading. Don\’t force your children to read. We should let our children be excited by the ups and downs of the protagonist\’s fate in the story. You can also let your children find what they like in the pictures. Those funny and interesting storylines or pictures seem to touch children\’s hearts more. Don\’t tell stories to your children with a straight face, and don\’t always let your children sit down and read a story in a serious manner. We can tell stories while performing, and as long as the children like it, just have fun. Of course, for older children, they prefer to read some books on their own. Then fully respect your children’s opinions. Return the right to choose books to your children, but this does not mean leaving them alone. You can usually read children\’s books together and discuss with them, discussing the plot of the book and the fate of the characters like good friends. You can also give your child some reading suggestions and recommend some books to him. In this case, it is far better than buying a bunch of books that your child does not agree with. We suddenly discovered that intensive reading has become a scarce thing. A mother left a message saying, \”My son is seven and a half years old and in second grade. He really likes reading. I think he reads more than any other child of the same age. But he reads very quickly. I feel like he just reads and doesn\’t think about it after reading.\” Yes, but after a long time I asked him about the books he had read, and he could tell the general content. I don’t know if it is good to read too fast. Should I guide him to read intensively? The child’s current age is correct. What should reading be like?” This question is of concern to many parents. In fact, there is no contradiction between extensive reading and intensive reading. Just like when we eat, we will eat carefully chewed meat, delicious soup, and occasionally eat fried chicken or drink a glass of Coke. Children in particular are full of curiosity about the world. Today\’s world is fast-paced, and \”fast food culture\” has become popular. For adults who are working hard for life, it is helpless to use all the spare time to read. Because a book lover cannot hold a book in the office and read it. I had done this before at work, but my boss told me that I could take time off next time and study at home. But children cannot be invaded by fast food culture. Just like those junk fast food, it\’s okay to eat one meal. If a child only eats this, then the child will definitely not grow up healthily. The same goes for reading. The scope of children\’s reading should be broad, and the most important thing should be something profound. For example, read some classics. Excessive pursuit of popularization of reading will also make children stay at the \”lower age\” level intellectually and emotionally. Promoting the reading of \”classics\” is to guide children to approach the masters and have spiritual dialogue and exchanges with giants of thought and literature. This allows children to occupy a spiritual high ground from the starting point of life development. Climb high and look far away, the vision and environmentThe world is very different, and the profound impact it will have on a child\’s lifelong development cannot be overestimated. In fact, the key to training children to read intensively lies in what they read. If you read those campus novels or online novels that are very empty in nature, it will always be the same routine. The author writes dozens of books a year. Like mass production, such works certainly have no meaning in intensive reading. When children\’s reading skills are improved and they read profound literary works, they will really be unable to understand them without intensive reading. And when the child really feels it, he will think about it, taste it, and will never forget it for the rest of his life. I remember that when I was studying, I took a lot of notes on my reading and excerpted some sentences that particularly touched me. Many of them have become the force to encourage themselves in life, or accompany themselves at a certain moment in life. Reading has such power. Let children have the ability to think. Our children all deserve this best friend