Child, I don’t want to accompany you anymore! The journey of blood and tears of a desperate mother…

My child, I originally thought that I should be happy because you were admitted to college, but one semester is almost over, and I can’t be happy at all. Because the past six months have been a nightmare for me… Today, you called and hesitantly hinted that your mother wanted to buy a mobile phone, saying that there was a new model of iPhone. I was silent for a long time, but finally I still didn’t agree to your request as you hoped. \”Son, isn\’t your mobile phone still new? Can we use it again…?\” Before I finished speaking, you had hung up the phone. Listening to the \”beep\” sound coming from the other end of the phone, I Sighing, tears fell. Dear child, you are over 18 years old, but you are still as dependent on me as a 5-year-old child. You didn\’t get good grades and went to a third-tier school. Even though the cost was eye-popping, I paid for it. In addition to living expenses, buying computers, etc., my mother is just an ordinary elementary school teacher with a low salary, how can she afford so many expenses. But you don’t seem to know this and keep asking me for things. I can’t remember when this endless asking started. It probably started when you fell down for the first time. I didn’t scold you but the stool that was blocking the way. I didn’t blame you when you snatched your sister’s candy. From now on…you know I will protect you and give you everything you want. I gave birth to a baby at an advanced age, and you are very weak after being born prematurely, which makes people feel very distressed when you look at it. I have always felt guilty for not being able to give you the love of my father, so I just want to give you the best love in the world. I always think that you will remember my kindness to you, and you will learn to be grateful because of love. When I am old, you will take care of me as I take care of you. But my infinite love has failed to make you a person who understands love. Instead, you have become a person who blindly asks for things. You even think that I owe you everything! Now, I want to change you, but there is no way. I regret infinitely that as an educator, I harmed my own children because of love. Sometimes I just think, how wonderful it would be if you didn’t grow up, and I could always protect you; how wonderful it would be if you didn’t grow up, and I could still give you what you want; how wonderful it would be if you didn’t grow up. Okay, I can slowly help you get rid of the problem of relying on asking, and teach you to be responsible for yourself. After going to college, you often called me. Every time Aunt Wang next door praises you: \”Your child is really close to you, unlike that kid in my family who doesn\’t call once every ten days and a half.\” Listening to your Aunt Wang say this, my mother blushes with embarrassment and can only play it off. . Little did she know that every time you called me, you were asking me \”how to wash clothes\” and \”how to brush shoes\”… these are things you should have learned long ago but didn\’t learn because of my reluctance. When you were five years old, I took you to the street, and you stretched out your little hands, trying to help your mother carry something. I said, \”Baby, be good.\” I loaded up everything and hugged you. When you were six years old, after dinner, you stood on a small stool and wanted to help your mother wash the dishes. Seeing that your clothes were all wet, I was afraid that you would slip, so I took the bowl from your hand and gave you a candy; when you were twelve years old, andStudents work and study together. When I came home from get off work, I saw you standing in the sun, your face flushed. I felt so sorry for you that I didn’t let you do it anymore, and even indulged you in playing games during the summer vacation. Because I felt sorry for you, I refused your help and even helped you. You have arranged everything in your life. Gradually, you began to refuse to do housework as a matter of course, and became an industrious lazy child; I also became a veritable old lady, following you to pick up the dirty socks and dirty clothes you threw on the floor. Without my help, mother really can\’t imagine how you will live in the future… It would be great if you didn\’t grow up, I can always help you; it would be great if you didn\’t grow up, I can slowly The ground teaches you how to be independent. But there is no way, you have grown up. No way, I have been saying this for more than ten years. It seems that from the very beginning, I couldn\’t do anything to you, because I wanted to love you so much, but I didn\’t expect that I would end up harming you. Nowadays, many people say that children with \”high scores and low abilities\” cannot stand in this society. I worry every day, what should I do with my children? Because my child, you are not only imbecile but also have low scores! When I was a child, I asked you to do your homework, but you were always dragging your feet and not paying attention. If I looked at you, I would write faster, and if you didn\’t, you would put it off until very late. I have said a lot of nice words to no avail. I want to set some rules with you, but seeing the tears in your eyes, I can’t bear it anymore. When you are older, I want you to read more and buy you a lot of books, but you just don\’t read them. Every time I set a time for you to read a book, but when faced with your crying, teasing, and teasing, I just turn a blind eye. Until now, you haven\’t developed the habit of reading. From childhood to adulthood, every time your mother wanted to discipline you severely, she gave up because of her heartache. So, you entered a not-so-good high school, and then entered a three-tier university, but you were admitted last year… Everything did not develop in the direction I expected. You see, I just can\’t do anything to you. Perhaps, you are like this just because you know that your mother can\’t help it. He can\’t do housework, study, or be independent and responsible, let alone be independent. It would be great if you didn\’t grow up. Your whole world is me, and I can let you do whatever you want. But in the short six months since you left my shelter, I discovered that I was wrong. Finally, I have to admit that my unbridled love for you over the past 18 years is the biggest mistake I have ever made in my life. Dear child, from this time I refuse to help you buy a mobile phone, I hope it is a new beginning. Mom hopes that you can start learning to face the world alone. Otherwise, mom can\’t imagine how you will live after mom is gone. My child, I am very sorry for the loving care I gave you in the past. So, I decided to let go and let you grow up slowly. Even if you fall and get bruised this time, it\’s better than wasting the next sixty or seventy years. My child, my mother loves you, but she can’t stay with you all the time. A mother who loves you but fails This is a letter written by a mother to her child. As a teacher, she should know how to educate, but because of her excessive love for her child, she made her child a useless person. We hope that the child will not grow up and that we can give him everything he wants. But reality tells us that he will eventuallyTo grow up. He has to walk the long road of life by himself, and he has to solve any difficulties by himself. No matter how much we love our children, we cannot accompany them throughout this life. They are destined to face increasingly fierce social competition in the future. So, stop spoiling your kids. If the child is not independent, take him to experience life and work-study. He may get sunburned and injured, but he will learn to be responsible for himself; if the child lives a lazy life, let him do more housework, he may break a bowl. But what I learned was to support myself. There is no parent who doesn’t love their children, it’s just that sometimes we love in the wrong way. You said that we always have no choice when it comes to our favorite child. If the child has bad study habits, I won’t change them even if I tell him to. If the child doesn’t want to learn, it’s useless even if I say all the truth. I can’t solve the child’s math problems. Forget it; I can’t understand the child’s English questions…but is there really nothing I can do? If you also have these problems, the leader can help you solve them one-on-one.